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“This is quite possibly my favorite Airbnb I've ever stayed in. My friends and I rented this home over Halloween weekend a few years ago, and it couldn't have been more perfect. The house is sprawling and so unique. The main living area (which includes the kitchen, dining room and living room) is super modern and sleek, with second floor bedrooms, a wonderful master bath and an entertainment room. As you make your way through the attached part of the home, you enter an 1850s farmhouse structure, which has been beautifully updated but maintains a ton of vintage charm, with wood-burning fireplaces throughout and even an antique wood-burning stove.

There are a ton of different spaces for the group to spread out in, but the kitchen, dining room and living room are all more than accommodating when it comes to getting everyone together. I also enjoyed the large wraparound deck for sitting outside in the crisp fall air,” says PureWow Senior Commerce Editor Stephanie Maida of her stay at this unique and decidedly special occasion-worthy property.

2. Casa Luna Country Retreat (Hudson, NY)

Stephanie Maida stayed here, too, and gave it rave reviews as a rental that’s well-suited for large gatherings and celebrations: “My crew and I loved this industrial-cool hideaway when we rented it out over Memorial Day weekend a few summers ago. Thanks to its large backyard, al fresco picnic table and accompanying pool, it was the perfect spot to make a splash and ring in summer. But even when we weren't spending time outdoors, we made the most of the spacious living room, which comes complete with the coolest mid-century modern fireplace. I personally loved the open floor plan that marries the kitchen and living room, which made for seamless socializing while some of the group cooked dinner, so no one felt left out. Also really appreciated the old school clawfoot tub in the master bathroom and the in-house sauna—so chic!” Sounds perfect for a spa day-themed bachelorette party to me.

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3. Cadosia School Retreat (Hancock, New York)

“This Airbnb was one of the weirdest, most wonderful stays of my entire life. It’s a converted schoolhouse and every room has so much personality, as does the host (who is lovely and was very accommodating when we accidentally got the checkout time wrong). There’s even a recording studio that is fully open for guests to play in and has a piano, full drum set and multiple guitars. It is truly unique and there’s ample room for a group of 15 adults,” says PureWow fashion editor Abby Hepworth of this rare find. There’s also a sprawling outdoor space and a very swanky kitchen that’s basically begging for a personal chef if you can swing the extra expense for an extra special girl’s night.

4. The Zen House (Livingston Manor, NY)

The amenities at this posh rental in the equally posh-sounding area of Livingston Manor are so numerous that you likely won’t need to leave the property at all to enjoy a perfect bachelorette party. (I’m talking about the indoor movie theater that you can use to binge watch as many chick flicks and rom-coms as your heart desires, as well as the cold plunge-sauna combo that’s perfect for a spa retreat.) That said, I’ve spent some time in Livingston Manor and found the main drag to be incredibly charming, and replete with excellent eateries, wine shops and cute boutiques.

This particular rental is also just a stone’s throw away from the Willowemoc Wild Forest, so you can gather the gang for some outdoorsy adventures before enjoying a top-notch wood-fired pie at The Kaatskeller and heading home for a champagne toast in the hot tub, or perhaps s’mores and star-gazing around the fire pit.

5. Entire Rooftop Loft in Park Slope (Brooklyn, NY)

The cityscape views from the rooftop of this swanky Park Slope loft are breathtaking—and if you’re not super familiar with NYC, it’s worth mentioning that Park Slope is one of Brooklyn’s most coveted neighborhoods, which means that you can expect an abundance of dining, drinking and shopping establishments right in your backyard. Aside from the views, the well-appointed rooftop is a perfect place to dine al fresco and hang out with your besties at any time of day or night. The interior of this rental is designed for maximum comfort and coziness, including a living room that boasts ample seating and many charming details (think: exposed brick walls and a wood-burning fireplace you can actually use).

6. Elegant Riverfront Getaway (Yonkers, NY)

This rental is best suited for slightly smaller, more intimate bachelorette parties. Still it’s a truly gorgeous, riverfront townhouse in Yonkers, which provides guests with easy access to all that Manhattan has to offer. Plus, there’s a spacious balcony with beautiful views of the Hudson River and a full spa set-up featuring a luxurious steam room—and all of it can be enjoyed from the peace and quiet of a lovely suburban neighborhood. My recommendation? Burn the midnight oil in the big city and then head back to this oasis for a much-needed day of rest and relaxation with your closest friends.

7. 1956 House of the Year (Rye, NY)

Named “House of the Year” in 1956 by Architectural Record and featured in LIFE and House and Garden magazines, this gem, originally designed by architect Ulrich Franzen, has been lovingly maintained to keep all its retro charm. The light-drenched and modernist interior is a lovely juxtaposition with the serene natural surroundings—and it can all be enjoyed from the generous outdoor space or from the comfort of the living area, which is a remarkable all-glass structure. The location is pretty ideal, too: both the quaint town of Rye, which has plenty to offer, and the scenic Kirby Pond are within walking distance, while the Big Apple is just 45 minutes away. If you’re looking for a truly relaxing escape in nature with a medium-sized group for your bachelorette party, this place fits the bill.

8. Soundview Beach House (Wading River, NY)

We stayed at Chelsea's for the holidays, and it was perfect. We were able to have folks over, cook, and hang out. We really enjoyed being so close to the water, and looking for shells and watching the sunrise. Chelsea put a lot of thoughtful touches into the house and it really made our holidays with family very special,” writes Julie, a happy guest who evidently took advantage of this property’s great entertaining potential. The private beachfront location is an obvious selling point of this spot, but the sun-drenched interior is squeaky clean, well-appointed and perfect for accommodating a laid-back, seaside bachelorette party escape (complete with kayaking races, perhaps?).

9. Urban Serenity Townhouse (Harlem, NY)

Head to Harlem with your crew for a luxe city stay at this gem of a townhouse—a newly renovated Brownstone with historic charm to spare and a bevy of modern amenities. The property boasts a large patio with excellent city views and a prime location on a quiet, tree-lined street within close proximity to some of the city’s best attractions. There’s also a private backyard with outdoor seating and indoor sleeping arrangements that can accommodate ten guests, so you’d really be hard-pressed to find a better bachelorette party venue in the big city.

10. Large City Island Getaway (Bronx, NY)

This gorgeous and very well-appointed home in the City Island neighborhood of The Bronx is perfect for a low-key bachelorette party…but I have to really emphasize the low-key part because the owners have a very strict policy about large event gatherings and rowdy celebrations. In other words, if you are looking for a place to get the girls together for seafood meals at iconic restaurants and nautical, old-school vibes, this dreamy five-star rental is the place for you. If you were planning on hiring a DJ and male strippers, keep scrolling.

11. Birch and Buck (Leeds, NY)

If you’re looking for the best Airbnb for a bachelorette party in the mountains, look no further. Located on 13 private acres in the heart of the Catskills, this stunning property boasts sweeping views of the natural surroundings that can be enjoyed from the large deck (complete with heated pool) or from the comfort of the plush interior, which is drenched with light on account of the floor-to-ceiling glass windows. Luxe amenities and special touches can be found throughout the home, which is fully-stocked with everything you could possibly need for a comfortable stay. And, per the reviews, it’s an amazing venue for hosting events, from work retreats to parties of all kinds. For example, a guest by the name of Pawla writes:

“The house was absolutely perfect for our group of friends over New Year’s! From the moment we arrived, we were blown away by the thoughtful details throughout the property. The little notes with instructions for everything made settling in seamless. The luxurious touches, like Kiehl’s bathroom products and even facial scrub for men, were a delightful surprise. The art collection is stunning and added so much character to the space. We were also touched by the pastries and welcome items left for us upon arrival—such a kind and generous gesture. The house itself is spacious, clean, and beautifully designed. It’s clear the hosts have put a lot of care into making their guests feel comfortable and cared for. We’re already looking forward to our next stay. This property is a gem, and we can’t recommend it enough!!”

12. Towd Point Beach Treasure (Southampton, NY)

This charming home occupies prime Hamptons real estate along Towd Point Beach and guests can enjoy private beach access, to boot. In other words, it’s the perfect place for a seaside party with the girls. There’s a large gunite pool and a generously-sized outdoor area for lounging and enjoying meals al fresco. The spacious interior features designer furnishings and every amenity under the sun so you can really make yourselves right at home.

13. Vacation Home in the Hamptons (Hamptons Bay, NY)

“We had a wonderful experience staying in this Airbnb in East Hampton Bays and had an exceptional experience working with Maria. The home is in a cul de sac and the neighbors are close but the home is still private and quiet. Quick drive to the beach and other shopping, restaurants, and amenities. The house was very comfortable and had a calming aesthetic. The beds/pillows were all very comfortable as was the rest of the furnishings in the home. The home was equipped with all cooking items and even some daily items (I.e. olive oil, spices, aluminum foil) not listed. Maria went above and beyond throughout the weekend to answer questions that arose and check in with us.”

Perfect home to gather with friends and relax,” writes one very happy verified guest by the name of Amanda. And that’s just one of many glowing reviews that this perfect five-star property has received. Other highlights of this luxurious vacation home include a large private backyard with ample outdoor seating, an 8-person dining table that can comfortably accommodate the whole gang, and a destination in the Hamptons that’s downright dreamy.

14. Modern Luxury Townhome (North Bergen, NJ)

Truly spectacular views of the NYC skyline can be enjoyed from the rooftop of this seriously swanky townhome in North Bergen. In my honest opinion, the whole event should really just take place on the roof because that’s how amazing it is. (There’s a ton of seating, a dining area and a hot tub up there, too.) Still, you won’t be disappointed by the roomy interior, either, which is so beautifully designed it deserves a magazine feature. Oh, and did I mention the dedicated theater space with a large screen projector? Basically, this place was created for entertaining and is definitely one of the best Airbnb for a bachelorette party around; there’s even an option ro rent a neighboring townhouse if you have a really big group.

15. Chic Woodstock Pool Home (Saugerties, NY)

Here, a truly enchanting upstate escape just outside of Woodstock. (If you’re not familiar, Woodstock is a ridiculously charming town with tons of shops and eateries.) The property itself boasts lush gardens, a beautiful outdoor area with a private pool, and a well-appointed interior with any and every amenity you need for a comfortable weekend away. While the home is clearly designed with the needs of families in mind, it’s also set up great to accommodate a large group of any kind. Don’t take my word for it, though, the reviews, like this one from a previous guest named Melissa, speak for themselves: “Wonderful stay! We had a larger group and we were very comfortable in the space. A lot of different areas to hang out in. The home is beautifully furnished, clean and comfortable. The kitchen was well stocked. The team was very communicative and responsive. Overall fantastic experience - our only “complaint” is that we wish we could have stayed for longer.”

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Nude Drawing Parties & 4 More Bachelorette Party Trends That Will Take Over 2025

Sarah Stiefvater — 2025-02-05T12:00:00-05:00

While there’s nothing wrong with a good vineyard tour, spa day or even penis straw, perhaps you’re hoping for something a bit more outside the box for your (or your best friend’s) bachelorette party. I’ve scoured TikTok and done some light Instagram stalking to bring you this list of five bachelorette party trends to consider for your pre-wedding celebration, from a bachelorette half marathon (kudos if this is up your alley) to an at-home hibachi night.

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1. Bride-to-Be Runs

OK, so this one isn’t for the faint of heart (or out of shape—guilty), but I’ve seen more and more bachelorette party TikToks, like the one above, in which the group—led by an athletic bride-to-be—goes on a run as part of the festivities. The distance is up to you—I don’t even know how I’d react to my bestie informing of a bachelorette half marathon—but it’s a fun idea if you and your pals could talk for hours about Hoka vs. Asics or Strava vs. Nike Run Club. And just think of how sweet the post-run mimosas and bagels will taste…

2. At-Home Hibachi

When it came to planning a bachelorette party in Miami a couple years ago, at-home hibachi was a nonnegotiable for my co-maid-of-honor and I—and it was a highlight of the weekend. While it’s not groundbreaking to have a chef come to the house where you’re staying for your bachelorette party, hibachi is such a fun, interactive twist on the trope. You can find companies all over the country that offer in-home hibachi, and the whole affair couldn’t be easier: A chef arrives with all of the food and cooking tools (grill included) and mimics the experience of being at, say, a Benihana. There are onion volcanos, water guns filled with sake and countless shrimp being catapulted into the mouths of your nearest and dearest.

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3. Nude Drawing Parties

Do you love the idea of spending some of your bachelorette party swooning over barely clothed men but are looking for something a bit more, shall we say, elevated? Meet The Artful Bachelorette, a company that hosts drink-and-draw parties—either in your own space or at a partner location—that feature nude models. There are various packages offered (I’m so sorry), but all include a model and instructor, all art supplies and a complimentary glass of bubbles. One happy customer writes, “Just had my bachelorette party in Palm Springs and surprised my girls with The Artful Bachelorette, and I'm so glad I did! They are professional, fun and so unique! I loved how seamless and smoothly it all went, I honestly loved the instructor and model so much and they felt like they were having fun too! It was definitely the highlight of the weekend and I could not recommend them enough! They're great!”

4. One-Night-Only Soirees

Anyone who’s been to a bachelorette party over the past few years, knows that these things can get expensive…fast. In an effort to cut costs, I’ve seen many brides opt for single-night celebrations in their cities or towns. Yes, this can be tricky if your friend group is spread across the globe, but if the majority of your crew lives in and around the same area, an evening on the town—maybe drinks followed by a nice dinner and not-too-crazy club—can be a great alternative to buying flights, Airbnbs, etc. (Note: I know this is how most bachelorette parties used to be—aka, this isn’t a groundbreaking suggestion—but these days you’re often looking at $1,000+ weekend in Nashville, Vegas or even Tulum.)

5. Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties

You and your fiancé are friends with each other’s friends, so why not combine your groups into one co-ed event? Joint bachelorette/bachelor parties have been a rising trend over the past few years, and I’ve spoken to folks who say it’s a fun twist on the typical pre-wedding weekend. Even if your respective groups aren’t all that close yet, it’s a great way to introduce your circles before the big day. Of course you can still have separate activities throughout the weekend (who wants to spend all day Saturday on a golf course? Not I.), but joint dinners or beach days are a terrific option.

Heads Up, Gen Z: TikTok's Pineapple Dating Trend Might Have an Unexpected Ulterior Meaning

Marissa Wu — 2024-12-18T07:00:00-05:00

OK, my fellow Gen Zers, I love you all, but frankly, we have some potentially questionable dating strategies. Now, I’m not knocking us entirely—we’ve got a lot of good tactics up our sleeves, including contra-dating, setting up our mutual friends, the principal of least interest and looking for a date with fantasy football commissioner energy. But…situationships? “Tarzaning?” Phoning it in with the dating apps? (I mean, I’m tired of all those Hinge prompts, too, but really…) Yeah. And don’t get me started on pineapple dating. PureWow Associate Editor Sydney Meister (our resident dating and relationships expert) put me onto this, shall we say…interesting trend via X (formerly Twitter), but true to form, we’ve run away with it on TikTok, too. It does sound, for the most part, wholesome. Be that as it may, there’s another, shall we say, spicy definition that you probably want to know about. Let’s dive in.

Gen Z Pineapple Dating, Explained

When I first saw the TikTok videos explaining the concept, I thought it was cute. It was something *I* would try, as I continue to attempt orchestrations of a real-life meet cute. As the term suggests, pineapples are involved. Here’s how it (purportedly) works. You roll up to the supermarket at around 7 or 8 p.m. Single and looking to mingle? Grab a shopping cart and plop a pineapple inside—upside down. After procuring the spiky fruit, your next stop is—where else?—the wine aisle. Should you find an attractive stranger there, also with an upside down pineapple in their cart, you must (yes, really) collide carts with them. A final curious detail you can add, if desired: Those looking for a long-term relationship can buy some lentils (because they last forever). Short term fling? Buy some lettuce. So far, it’s proven a popular tactic in both Moscow and Spain.

But What About the Other Meaning?

At this point in history, no one’s reinventing the wheel. Pineapples are actually (to those in the know) a homing beacon to indicate one is part of the swinging community. And by swinger, I don’t mean they’re getting down to big band music—though I find it cheeky that Glenn Miller’s most famous song is “In the Mood.” In this case, we’re referring to a type of ethical non-monogamy. The symbol can manifest itself anywhere, from the door of a cruise ship to someone’s blazer lapel to home decor, as a subtle indication that they’re looking for or are open to an arrangement.

No matter which way you’re swinging (ha), may the odds of love be ever in your favor.

This Divisive Millennial Wedding Trend Is Super Controversial in an Election Year

Stephanie Maida — 2024-11-05T06:00:00-05:00

Much like homeownership and landlines, I had thought that old-fashioned social norms had mostly gone the way of the dodo where my fellow millennials were concerned. After all, women ask men out, men go dutch on dates, and for all the pomp surrounding matrimony, monogamy is hardly the only relationship option out there anymore. Even so, when it comes to discussing classically taboo subjects at social events, it seems even the most progressive among my ilk are lately embracing a decidedly traditional rule of thumb: “No talking politics at the party.”

Such conversational constraints may seem like a relic of Gilded Age etiquette books, but more and more millennials (and even some marrying-age members of Gen Z) are adopting them—and asking their guests to do the same—when it comes to their weddings. I recently attended some nuptials, ahead of which attendees were explicitly asked to avoid the potentially triggering topics of politics and religion; on TikTok, 24-year-old bride Kait (aka @kitttlecat) went viral for creating signs that read "This event is a politics-free zone" to display at her own soiree. According to friends, colleagues and the New York Times, it’s hardly an uncommon request—although it can certainly be considered a controversial one, especially in an election year.

Meet the Experts

Lisa Grotts, aka "The Golden Rules Gal," is a modern etiquette expert, author and public speaker with 25 years of experience helping individuals navigate social situations to present themselves with confidence and poise. She is the former director of protocol for the city and county of San Francisco, a certified etiquette professional and a past member of the International Society of Protocol and Etiquette Professionals.
Grace Thompson is a seasoned wedding planner and product manager at ChicSew, a premier bridal fashion brand. With a passion for making each couple’s vision come to life, she uses her extensive knowledge of bridal trends and event planning expertise to enhance the joy of wedding celebrations.

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On the one hand, it’s understandable that couples would try to get ahead of any friction that may arise when a diverse group of their loved ones are brought together, perhaps in the perilous presence of champagne toasts and an open bar. But a request limiting the parameters of conversation could feel a bit like censorship at a time when people are feeling particularly passionate about these undeniably important matters.

So, to skip or not to skip the politics? My millennial circle is about as torn on the budding wedding trend as I am (although I will note that one of my Gen X colleagues was ready to rebel against it almost instantly upon discussion), so I tapped two wedding and elbow-rubbing pros for their thoughts.

“In a non-election year, keeping wedding conversations light is usually effortless,” notes etiquette expert Lisa Grotts. “However, mindful etiquette suggests a gentle reminder to ensure a positive experience for everyone.” Like a growing number of newlyweds, Grotts recommends following the golden rule of polite discussion: “Steer clear of religion, politics and other sensitive topics. This approach creates a relaxed and joyful atmosphere, making all guests feel at ease, no matter their background.”

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As wedding planner Grace Thompson of ChicSew points out, “Weddings are a time for bringing loved ones together in a joyful setting, but they also often bring diverse opinions and backgrounds under one roof. I’ve observed that more couples are choosing to create an environment that focuses solely on their love story.” Thompson does acknowledge that a request to avoid certain topics can cause folks to bristle, but assures that “this approach isn’t about limiting free expression; rather, it’s a thoughtful gesture to make sure everyone feels comfortable, allowing the day to be all about connection, love and celebration.”

Frankly, I find that to be fair enough. Speaking as someone who definitely doesn’t shy away from a good political or social debate, I think we can all agree that there’s a time and a place for getting into a fired-up discussion, and a wedding probably is not one of them. At its core, the “no politics” rule is mainly about respect and conflict-avoidance, and if it’s one of the couple’s wishes, so be it.

If you happen to be a to-be-wed millennial (or otherwise) looking to adopt this “trend” at your own celebration? Grotts has some advice: “If you have a wedding website, consider including a simple note emphasizing that the day is dedicated to celebration and joy. Avoid mentioning specific topics. Instead, invite guests to focus on the happy occasion.”

12 Comfortable Wedding Shoes That You Won’t Have to Kick Off Mid-Reception, According to PureWow Editors

Olivia Dubyak — 2024-08-13T14:00:00-05:00

If I learned anything from being the co-Maid of Honor at my sister’s wedding, it’s that finding the right pair of comfortable wedding shoes can be just as tough as searching for the perfect wedding dress. To save brides-to-be the stress of tracking down the perfect pair, I chatted with two board-certified podiatrists who could answers my most pressing questions. Namely, what makes a comfortable wedding shoe? According to Dr. Brad Schaeffer, DPM, it’s determined by a few things. He says, “Heel height and width play a great part in the comfort of the shoes and can make a huge difference in how your feet feel if you opt for a shorter or chunkier heel.” I also checked in with a handful of married PureWow editors who told me that being able to dance the night away—pain-free—is definitely a priority, so finding good options that make for comfortable wedding shoes, like a pair of comfortable heels or comfortable sneakers that are trendy (and actually go with your dress), requires some extra digging.

Thankfully, my colleagues were eager to help me find the crème de la crème, suggesting comfy shoes they wore on their big day or hope to wear when the day comes. So, whether you're looking for high stilettos with a pointed toe like this tango-inspired Dream Pairs style from Amazon ($40) to complete your after party dress or you want something with a short block heel, like this Reformation sandal ($248) for that upcoming outdoor wedding, this comprehensive list of comfortable wedding shoes will give you the options you need to feel confident in purchasing a cute, comfy pair that is sure to last you year after year.

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The Most Comfortable Wedding Shoes at a Glance

Meet the Experts

Dr. Bob Baravarian, DPM, FACFAS, is a board-certified podiatric foot and ankle surgeon at the University Foot & Ankle Institute and the CEO of patented arch support sock company ArchTek.
Dr. Brad Schaeffer, DPM, is a board certified foot surgeon with the ABFAS who works out of his NYC podiatry office, Central Park SOLE. He also starred in the TLC series My Feet Are Killing Me from 2020 to 2021.

How I Tested the Most Comfortable Wedding Shoes

When curating my list of the most comfortable wedding shoes, I sought out suggestions from PureWow editors, many of which they tested—and loved—on their big day. From high heels to block heels to sneakers, PureWow brides consider everything when it comes to wedding shoes, including arch support, roomy toe boxes, cushioned padding and style. The editors also considered the flexibility of the outsole, heel height and heel width. Furthermore, I relied on the insights from Dr. Baravarian and Dr. Schaeffer to find out what makes for a comfortable option.

If you’ve looked everywhere and can’t find shoes you love, keep scrolling, because I’ve found 12 stunning pairs that may just catch your eye.

1. Nina Neya Satin Heels

Nina Shoes

“I can now confirm post-wedding that [these satin pumps] are incredibly comfortable,” gushes PureWow Fashion Editor Abby Hepworth, who admittedly wanted to wear this style long before she said ‘I do.’ “I wore them literally all day, dancing until the wee hours and, although I had a pair of sneakers tucked away to potentially change into, I didn't touch them until it was time to walk home. And when I say I danced, I mean I was literally jumping up and down for hours.” She’s not the only one who attests to this pair’s comfortability, either. Reviewers say that the medium heel height is comfortable to walk in and the enclosed toe box will keep your feet from slipping forward. “The front toe box fit has plenty of room, despite the pointed toe, and the heel is just the right height to actually look like a heel without stressing your arches. They were gorgeous, comfy and everything I could have hoped for in a wedding day shoe,” Hepworth adds.

$109 at Nina Shoes

2. Dreamcia Silver Slingback Kitten Heels

“These Dreamcia kitten heels are a much more affordable version of the similar Aeyde, Sam Edelman and Reformation styles,” says Sally Herrod, senior director of SEO and product at PureWow. Equipped with a striking pointy toe and diamond-adorned finish, these sexy slingbacks are daring, fashionable and comfortable despite their lack of toe space. “The soles are a little slippery and slick at first so you have to mark them up, but the low heel means you can wear them for late nights,” Herrod adds. “I wore them at a beach wedding (on the sand!) and didn't have to take them off on the dance floor later.”

From $41 at Amazon

3. Reformation Eleonora Slingback Block Heel Sandals

Between the long ceremony and dancing the night away at the reception, you’re going to want to wear a cute shoe that won’t leave your feet in excruciating pain. Good news: PureWow’s Director of Affiliate Strategy, Pamela Masin, found just the pair that kept her feet blister-free after more than eight hours. “I was looking for low, gold wedding shoes and when I saw these, I knew I found a winner,” she tells me. “I prefer a heel strap over an ankle strap since I find them less likely to pinch or irritate my skin. That was surprisingly hard to find until I stumbled upon these. The under 2-inch block heel was perfect for my grass ceremony and the adjustable heel strap kept them securely on my feet as I danced the night away. I love that they're not white because they've become a staple shoe for plenty of weddings I've attended as a guest ever since.”

$248 at Reformation

4. Betsey Johnson Sidney Sneakers

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Commerce Editor Olivia Dubyak says these sneakers were a godsend for dancing the night away at her reception. "I didn't pick the comfiest heels for my ceremony, and being able to throw these on while I danced was everything, and I didn't get blisters or need a sitting break at all," she says. I love the unexpected glitz and glam of rhinestones on sneakers, and this bedazzled pair has them in abundance—plus, a one-and-a-half-inch platform to give you a bit of height. Not to mention, it’s available in both a standard and wide fit, so there’s no need to squeeze into the shoe or double up on socks.

$89 at Betsey Johnson

From $85 at Amazon

5. Loeffler Randall Emilia Knot Slide Sandals

Loeffler Randall

Behold: one of the few pairs of heels PureWow Director of Audience Development Mary Rogers trusts on her feet. She says, “After knee surgery, my high heel days are mostly behind me. I got these for my wedding, and they were the best purchase.” She warns me they run notoriously small and narrow, suggesting one size up for a true fit. Loeffler Randall’s comfortable wedding shoes boast a padded footbed designed to cushion your step and are made with a delicate pleated fabric. “They were the perfect accessory for my dress and my feet held up through the night. I’ve used them for so many events since then and love them to add a pop of fun to even a simple black dress,” she adds.

$350 at Loeffler Randall

$350 at Nordstrom

6. Dream Pairs Nile Open-Toe Stilettos

Michelle Varat, senior software engineer at Gallery Media Group, advises that I should never rule out a dance heel, especially if you plan on spending the most of your night on the dance floor. She says, “I wore tango shoes! [They were] by far the most comfortable heel to dance in.” While the exact pair she wore on her wedding day ten years ago is no longer sold, I happened to find tango stilettos from Dream Pairs that have a similar stylish essence to it. Crafted with gorgeous straps that curve along the foot, the Nile stilettos—which received impressive 5-star reviews from more than 6,500 customers on Amazon—are sleek, elegant and just the right amount of drama. What else would you expect from a tango-inspired heel? What’s more, it boasts a lightweight TPR outsole that’s purportedly flexible and supportive, plus an ankle strap and padded PU insole.

$40 at Amazon

7. Margaux The Heel Suede Pumps

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Want a sensible, cute option for your big day instead of towering pumps? These balletcore heels are equal parts stylish and comfortable, though some reviewers say they do require a small break-in period, so we suggest you wear them around the house before the big day. The heel is only 2.5 inches high and the sole has a structured-yet-moldable design to keep your feet optimally cushioned during wear. But don’t just take our word for it: “These are hands down one of the most comfy heels I’ve worn in my life! I regularly wear them to work and have had no blistering or aching issues after a long day,” writes one customer.

$295 at Margaux

8. Sam Edelman Peonie Square Toe Sandals

Don't want too much extra height, but still want some lift? I love these low heels, which are just over two inches, to keep your arches closer to the ground (ahem, easier on the ankles). “I've worn [them] every time I've been a bridesmaid and thanks to their low heel and padded footbed, they've stayed comfy throughout the whole day,” says PureWow Assistant Commerce Editor Natalie LaBarbera. And there’s an adjustable ankle strap that won’t dig or cut into your skin during your first dance. The best part is—like LaBarbera mentioned—you'll be able to wear these long after the wedding because they can just as easily be dressed down with jeans. One reviewer loves her pair so much that she chooses to wear them every day to work, “and my feet do not hurt me at the end of the day.” I’m sold!

From ~~$60~~; $52 at Amazon

9. Converse Chuck Taylor All Star

$920 AT SAKS FIFTH AVEnue

“The shoes I bought for the end of the night (should I need them) were custom high-top Converse with our anniversary date and hearts on them,” says Hepworth, who admits she didn’t need them on her wedding day, except for the walk home. They’re made with the brand’s ultra-supportive OrthoLite cushioning that’ll feel great as you hit the dance floor during the reception or (in Hepworth’s case) for the walk home. The classic canvas shoe truly transcends modern wedding trends, and will surely make for memorable photographs, too. “They're so lightweight and comfortable; the sole has more support than you'd expect for a skater shoe, and there are so many color combos to choose from to really make them your own. They also come in a platform version if you want to add a little height without stressing your arches,” mentions Hepworth.

$65 at Nordstrom

$65 at Converse

10. Sam Edelman Hazel Pumps

Zappos

A classic pointy-toe pump will forever be a go-to heel—just ask LaBarbera. She says, “The Sam Edelman Hazel's are honestly my go-to for events like weddings and showers. They're surprisingly comfortable, despite their height and slim stiletto heel, thanks to the cushioned footbed that's slim but makes all the difference.” The style is sleek and polished and can easily be worn for a day in the office or out on the town at night. This pair has a leather upper, and the 4-inch heel is high, but not too high, as LaBarbera mentioned. Reviewers note that they take some time to break in, but once stretched out they're as good as gold. "After I wore them for a few times, they stretched out,” one shopper writes. “Now, they are my favorite heels and to my surprise, I’m wearing heels more often because of these.”

~~$150~~; $105 at Zappos

~~$150~~; $105 AT SAM EDELMAN

11. Gucci Marmont Block Heel Sandals

Gucci

If you want to splurge on designer high heels, go for a pair that will keep your foot comfortable. PureWow Senior Editor Dana Dickey loves this Gucci option for the sleek look and easy wear. “These are a nice, walkable heel,” she says. “The festive gold sparkle and leather class up my fast fashion.” The Italian fashion house’s open-toed block heels are made in Italy with a premium leather that’s also used in the lining and sole. Plus, there’s an ankle buckle strap for a customizable fit that will eradicate any unnecessary squeezing or spaciousness. Reader note: According to the brand’s description and a few customer reviews, this style does run about a half to one size small.

12. Sam Edelman Gigi Sandals

Sam Edelman

Casual brides with an aversion to heels will adore these Sam Edelman sandals, which just so happen to be another favorite of LaBarbera. “They have a slightly padded footbed that’s super comfortable and the ankle strap keeps them from slipping off,” she says. Other reviewers agree that the padded footbed is surprisingly supportive and comfortable even after long days. And as LaBarbera noted, the adjustable ankle strap makes it impossible for your sandals to come flying off as you maneuver from table to table greeting your guests.

From ~~$120~~; $72 at Sam Edelman

From ~~$120~~; $84 at Nordstrom

What to Look for in Comfortable Wedding Shoes

The ideal pair of wedding shoes comes down to a few key things: arch support, height and heel shape. You know your feet best, so if you know you can't withstand pointed, close-toed heels, opt for a pair of heeled sandals instead. "If you're attending an event that requires wearing heels for a long period of time, heels with a platform are a more comfortable option because they relieve the feet from the extreme arch that non-platformed heels have,” says Dr. Schaeffer.

Another great option approved by Dr. Schaeffer: open-toed heels. He says, ”Open-toed heels avoid toe crowding which can create a lot of discomfort while standing, walking or dancing for long periods of time.”

Have a high instep? Extra arch support will be your best friend. And if you have bunions, you'll probably want to avoid a pointed toe. And according to Dr. Baravarian, there are a few things you can look for. "Good shoes for bunions will have a wide toe box, good arch support and a cushioned footbed," he mentions on The Bunion Institute.

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59 Bridal Shower Gifts That She’ll Love (and Actually Keep)

Nicole Villeneuve — 2024-06-24T11:00:00-05:00

Your RSVP has been sent for your friend’s big day and you can’t wait for her to see the beautiful wedding gift you picked out. When it comes to picking a bridal shower gift, you’ll want to go for something that either pampers the guest of honor, or otherwise speaks to her personal interests and needs (i.e., cooking, entertaining, drinking excellent coffee). Still not sure where to start? Don't fret—I've got you covered with some potential suggestions at various different price points.

Consider gifting her something that will be useful for starting this new exciting chapter of her life such as cookware essentials, or a practical set of bath towels. Perhaps the bride is need of a more spacious carry-on bag for her honeymoon because she's planning on packing literally every outfit in her closet. You could even go with a gift that will benefit both the bride and the groom such as a helpful speed blender. All that matters is that your present is one that comes from heart.

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The Best Bridal Shower Gifts at a Glance

What Kind of Gifts Do You Give at a Bridal Shower?

When it comes to bridal shower gifts, there are lots of options to suit every budget and circumstance. The first and simplest option is to check the couple’s wedding registry—anything from there is fair game. Often, the popular option for the bridal shower is to go with the smaller, more modestly priced items from the registry (think charcuterie boards, bakeware, home goods, etc.), and save the larger items for the wedding (hello, pretty stand mixer!). Of course, that’s not always the most personal route, so if you happen to be close with the bride, feel free to branch out within your budget and preferences—but just know that, when it comes to events with registries, you don’t need to feel pressured to get creative with your gift.

Sometimes, bridal showers will be themed, and in that case, you’ll likely want to bring a gift that fits. Think cute tea towels or a tea set for a tea party shower, or maybe a fancy bottle of bubbly or some flutes for a Champagne-themed bash. If you’re thinking of gifting lingerie or something else for the bedroom, and the shower is not specifically themed for those gifts, it might be better to save it for the bachelorette party. And remember, you can always check with the shower’s hostess if you’re unsure about a theme or any gift-giving tips to keep in mind.

How I Chose the Best Bridal Shower Gifts

I chose our list of bridal shower gifts based as seasoned bridal shower gift givers and from personal experience with the items and brands. I also wanted to include picks from a well-rounded range of categories, from housewares for the happy couple, to jewelry and little self-care luxuries for the busy bride, and from a wide range of price points for every budget (so regardless of your relationship to the bride, you can find something here). At times I kept things super practical, like with the Deweisn Tri-Fold Vanity Mirror or Hello Fresh gift card; other times, I suggested a pricey candle or clothing item that you know your friend would never splurge on herself. In all instances, we wanted to be thoughtful about the bride’s needs *and* wants.

Of course, we paid attention to reviews, and tried to make sure the bride would have a smooth return experience if need be, although in some cases, like personalized items, it’s not possible. We also made sure the quality, function and look of every item was up to par for what our bride-to-be deserves.

1. July Signature Carry-On

July

With a honeymoon on the horizon, this roomy carry-on from July is an ideal gift for the bride-to-be. Plus, this number boasts some serious bells and whistles—including an ejectable battery with USB-C, a hidden laundry bag, a crush-proof exterior and oh-so-smooth and silent wheels that ensure she’ll be gliding from point A to point B (and looking darn glamorous, too).

~~$295~~; $265 at july

2. Lunya Washable Silk Robe

The getting-reading moments of a wedding day are all about the details. The bride should feel pampered, comfortable and as beautiful as she is, and with this Lunya Washable Silk Robe in tranquil white, you can make sure her bridal robe is one she’ll keep for years to come. It’s luxurious, practical and so stylish—and it's guaranteed to make your friend feel special on her big day.

From $278 at nordstrom

3. Vitamix Explorian 2.0 Variable Speed Blender

QVC

A big-ticket item, to be sure—but this speed blender is a major winner for both its functionality and aesthetic appeal. The appliance comes in handy for making a range of smoothies, soups and a mixture of other things. Plus, it manages to make a chic statement without hogging up too much precious counter space. If you can swing it, this gift is worth every penny.

~~$369~~; $260 at qvc

4. Anthropologie Natasha Breakfast Tray

TV dinner, breakfast in bed, a stable spot to rest a bowl of soup on a sick day—this hand-crafted rattan tray does it all. Plus, the legs fold up so it can be used as a decorative tray or simply tucked away when it’s not in use.

$98 at anthropologie

5. Food52 x Staub Grill Pan And Cocotte

From $50 at pressed floral

A Dutch oven is a must-have for any kitchen, and Staub is the gold standard when it comes to quality cast iron cookware. What sets this attractive enameled number apart (aside from the awesome sale price) is that the lid doubles as a grill, so it can do, well, pretty much everything.

from ~~$250~~; $190 at food52

6. Pressed Floral Gift Card

Pressed Floral

Pressed Floral makes stunning works of art out of the bride’s bouquet. The professional preservation experts will press just about any flowers into framed wall art, jewelry, candles and other decor. The bride will be required to send her bouquet in within four days of the big day, but if she gets caught up in after-wedding chaos and forgets, they also offer bouquet reconstruction and pressing. Genius! The creations can get quite pricey, but gift card denominations start at just $50, so you’ll be able to contribute to this meaningful keepsake in any amount you’re comfortable with.

7. Brooklinen Super-Plush Bath Towel Bundle

Brooklinen

Spoil the bride-to-be with a set of the softest, snuggliest and most luxurious towels that money can buy—just don’t blame us if you start getting ‘thank you’ texts every time she takes a shower. This bundle comes with two of the best-selling Super-Plush bath towels as well as two Super-Plus hand towels, which you can get all in one color or mix it up. The 100% Turkish cotton dries fast and feels so soft, and will leave the bride feeling like she’s always at the spa.

From ~~$138~~; $100 at brooklinen

8. Uncommon Goods Kissing Mugs

These handmade porcelain mugs have a whimsical and romantic design that basically screams breakfast in bed. The kissing-faces come in a set of either blue and gray, or red and tan mugs, and they’re both equally as adorable. Bottom line: Give this as a gift and the lucky couple will be cooing to each other over coffee for years to come.

$50 at uncommon goods

9. Mason Cash Mixing Bowls

From $80 at uncommon goods

These glazed clay bowls are gorgeous and highly functional to boot—the pretty textured pattern improves grip when heavy mixing is required and the material is chip-resistant, dishwasher and microwave safe. (Tip: Buy two sets because you’re going to want to keep one for yourself.)

From $30 at food52

10. Uncommon Goods Hidden Compartment Cheese Board With Knives

Uncommon goods

This bamboo cheese board boasts built-in knife storage, deep grooves to hold bread or charcuterie, a ceramic container for other snacks and slate markers and chalk to help keep it all straight. It’s a novelty kitchen item that will come in handy when entertaining, and the design is downright genius.

11. Cuisinart Stainless Steel Indoor Pizza Oven

T.J. Maxx

This miniature nifty vintage-style pizza oven will come in handy for indoor movie date nights. The oven is efficient, and cooks delicious Neapolitan, Detroit and New York-style pizzas almost instantly. Plus, there's a deep dish pan available if you really want to put your chef skills to good use.

$230 at T.J. Maxx

12. SommSelect Wine Gift Pack

SommSelect

When in doubt, you can’t go wrong with wine—especially not when the gift is a sommelier-picked wine gift pack that ensures the bride-to-be receives only the best bottles. If the bride (or the happy couple) decide they like it, SommSelect offers subscriptions, too, so they can keep the bar stocked.

$220 at sommselect

13. Gevi Espresso Machine

Coffee lovers will go gaga for this reasonably-priced and reliable espresso machine. It comes with a foaming wand and the high-pressure pump not only pulls a perfect shot every time, it can pull two shots at once, so the happy couple can indulge in their café-quality lattes from the comfort of their home at the same time.

~~$230~~; $138 at Amazon

14. Mosser Glass Cake Stand

The bride-to-be doesn’t have to be a star baker to appreciate this colorful hand-blown glass cake stand—namely because you can fill it with anything from Entenmann’s donut holes to candles and it will look absolutely beautiful on display. Each stand in this Mosser line is handcrafted, from the molding, hardening, and polishing, meaning you’re also gifting the bride her own one-of-a-kind piece.

From $47 at food52

15. Stone Washed Belgian Linen Napkins

I love the rich hues, soft feel and casual-but-elegant aesthetic of these Belgian linen napkins—and we suspect the bride-to-be will feel the same as she sets her tablescape for her first married get-together. These beauties will only get softer with each wash, too, so you know you’re giving the bride something she can grow into.

$88 at food52

16. Truly Soft Everyday Lightweight Comforter

JcPenney

What better way to congratulate a gal on her upcoming wedding than with a cozy comforter for the marital bed? Fans of the set say they give you a “heavenly sleep,” and can’t get over their softness, even after repeated washes. They’re 100 percent polyester and hypoallergenic, too, so you know they’re going to stand the test of time.

from ~~$140~~; $112 at jcpenney

17. Flora Nikrooz Short PJ Set

Sexy, feminine and entirely tasteful, this flattering pajama set is seductive enough for a hot night with the spouse, but comfy and casual enough for any occasion. I’d go for the whisper pink color for the bride, but at this reasonable price, it might be a good idea to nab a pair for yourself while you’re at it.

$68 at revolve

18. Cuisinart Stainless Steel Electric Ice Cream Maker

Best Buy

Sometimes the best gift is one that is totally unnecessary, but just plain fun. Example: An electric ice cream maker that whips up delicious homemade frozen desserts in the blink of an eye (and lasts a lot longer than a pint of Ben & Jerry’s). It’s easy to use, looks great with a can’t-miss stainless steel finish, and will have the happy couple enjoying homemade sorbet in no time.

$150 at best buy

~~$100~~; $80 at target

19. Bread Box With Bamboo Cutting Board

The modern farmhouse feel of this combo bread box and cutting board lid would look right at place on any countertop. It holds up to one large loaf of bread or a dozen bagels for those newlywed breakfasts in bed, and it includes proper ventilation so that market-fresh bread will stay that way. It’s also multi-functional: the bamboo wood lid serves as a cutting board (talk about space saving!), or, can even be used as to serve apps or charcuterie when entertaining.

$37 at Amazon

20. Ninja Professional Plus Blender With Auto-iQ

Macy’s

Whether the couple in question is into healthy smoothies and morning runs, or frozen margarita Fridays (and sleepy Saturday mornings), the Ninja blender will have them covered—this beast can crush ice like nobody’s business and it makes a mean breakfast shake to boot. (Bonus: The large capacity also means it can make a big enough batch of pina coladas for the whole bridal shower.)

~~$120~~; $90 at macy's

~~$120~~; $90 at amazon

21. Ninja AF101 Air Fryer

Air fryers have found their rightful place as a must-have kitchen tool, and for good reason—these suckers require minimal oil to produce perfectly crispy foods. In other words, the bride-to-be can enjoy fried chicken whenever she’s in the mood...with half the calories of KFC. Plus, with 11 different functions, this award-winning appliance can do a lot more than that.

~~$130~~; $90 at Amazon

~~$89~~; $69 at walmart

22. Encommún Maxi Dress

Encommun

She's going to be obsessed with wearing white for a while after the wedding, so how about getting her this elegant silk jersey maxi dress that she can dress up or down depending on where she's going? It's designed to elongate your body and highlight your curves through its turtleneck cut and cap sleeves, and the two slits on the front gives it an extra little oomph should she choose to wear it on a date night.

~~$995~~; $445 at encommun

23. Astr the Label Vista Midi Dress

Astr the Label

Since we're on the topic of white dresses, the bride is going to need at least one she can take with her on the honeymoon. The asymmetrical design and ruched lining are the standout features on this piece, which is equal parts fun, versatile and comfortable. Plus, it's under $100, which is a major steal considering the quality.

$98 at Astr the Label

24. Georg Jensen Cobra Deep Serving Dish

$165 for 3 months at the sill

Fluid lines give this snow-white, porcelain serving dish a sophisticated and elegant look—so basically, it’s a work of art that’s not above holding a green bean casserole on Thanksgiving Day. This serving dish is exactly the kind of gift that makes a great shower gift: it’s not necessarily something the couple might buy for themselves, but it’s a great and super useful piece to have in the home.

$89 at nordstrom

$69 at bloomingdales

25. The Sill 3-Month Plant Subscription

The Sill

Nothing makes a new home feel warmer than a few well-placed house plants, which is why you should hook a sister up with a plant subscription from the Sill. With the easy-care package, beginners and pros alike will have no problem caring for the healthy plants they receive, and a pretty ceramic planter is always included in the care package.

26. Schott Zwiesel Pure Wine Glass Set

These Schott Zwiesel wine glasses are made from crystal glass that’s been fused with zirconium and titanium. What does that mean, exactly? Basically, they’ve got a lot in common with the rock on the bride-to-be’s ring finger: Sparkly and tough as nails. On that note, we should also mention that these beauties are dishwasher safe. Cheers.

From $96 at food52

27. Imarku Japanese Knife Set

An excellent knife set is a priceless investment, but it’s fairly difficult to find one that doesn’t break the bank. This professional-quality 16-piece Japanese knife set from Imarku is an exception to the rule. Elegant and well-made (check out those ergonomic Brazilian pakkawood handles), this gift will serve a married couple well for years.

~~$220~~; $130 at Amazon

28. Kate Spade Bridal Planner

Dillards

There are a lot of moving parts involved in the wedding day, and this chic planner will help the bride-to-be keep it all in one place—and in a chic binder at that. The 48 planning pages are held in place by the gold three-ring binder clips, and any extra paperwork can be tucked into the interior pocket with gold accents. It’s a lot of work, but this planner will make her look forward to it.

$48 at dillards

29. Our Place Always Pan

Our Place

I really like multi-purpose cookware—and chances are that the recipient of this gift will feel the same when she realizes that the versatile Our Place Always Pan can replace eight of those bulky and busted up pots and pans she’s got hanging around her kitchen. Plus, the ceramic non-stick coating is made without any potentially harmful materials like lead and cadmium.

from $120 at our place

30. Rya Collection Darling Lace Trim Chemise

Here, an affordable piece of lingerie that doesn’t feel awkward to open at a bridal shower. This beautiful drape-neck chemise features lace panel sides and is cut to flatter most any frame. Ooh-la-la.

$110 at nordstrom

$110 dillards

31. UGG Scuffette II Slippers

The fluffiest, coziest slipper you ever did see, these shearling-lined house shoes have generously padded rubber soles that are sure to pamper the tired tootsies of any bride-to-be.

$95 at nordstrom

32. Municipal Podium Slides

Municipal

She'll need a cozy pair of shoes to walk around in while sightseeing during the honeymoon, so how about gifting her a pair of slides ahead of the wedding? These ones do the trick nicely with their stylish design and innovative technology. Plus, there's a built-in multi-layered cushioning system, assuring she'll be comfortable with every single step.

$89 at municipal

33. FoxyBae 5-in-1 Ceramic Styler

$40 at the container store

She definitely won't be worried about her hair while honeymooning with this efficient five-in-one styling set, which provides salon-quality results and a sleek smooth finish. It comes with a styler wand, two round brushes and two auto-wrap curlers, and is easy to use, while still creating fabulous hairstyles that can last all day.

$225 at amazon

34. J.Crew Packable Straw Hat

J. Crew

This straw hat from J.Crew is a honeymoon must-have, no matter where the bride is headed. It’s made from raffia fiber, so it can be crammed into a suitcase—no matter how limited the space is—and still retain its shape when you unfurl it. Time to kiss bad hair days goodbye!

$70 at j.crew

35. Brooklinen Mulberry Silk Pillowcase

Brooklinen

If the bride isn’t already a silk pillowcase devotee, she’s about to be. They’re lightweight and breathable, making them great for sensitive skin, and they’re also gentler on hair, so even if the bride-to-be tends to toss and turn in her sleep, she’ll wake up to smooth strands and less breakage. So yes, while this 100 percent pure mulberry silk pillowcase will set you back $60, the ability to wake up with flawless skin and hair is priceless. Your girlfriend will thank you.

~~$59~~; $50 at brooklinen

36. Marie Kondo In-Drawer Knife Organizer

The Container Store

Silverware and knife sets are a go-to wedding gift. So much so, that your pal may not know what to do with ‘em all. Well, here’s where you come in as her thoughtful best friend with a tidy solution in the form of a sustainable wood knife organizer. This one holds 12 knives and fits in most standard kitchen drawers.

37. Tory Burch Miller Cloud

From $39 at mark & Graham

If you know your bestie’s shoe size, then these ergonomic sandals are a great gift. They’re casual yet polished—and incredibly comfy. So, if you don’t know her size, it might be time for you to subtly ask, because this breezy, chic Miller Cloud sandal is the hot ticket item of the summer.

$198 at nordstrom

38. Parachute Organic Cloud Cotton Quilt

Parachute

Every cozy home needs at least one good-quality quilt. Give the gift of comfort with this luxe cotton quilt. It’s aptly-named the Cloud because it’s soft, fluffy and what dreams are made of (that and 100 percent Turkish cotton).

From $261 at parachute

39. Mark & Graham Fillmore Vegan Leather Luggage Tag

Mark & Graham

Give your gift a personalized touch with this best-selling Mark & Graham vegan leather luggage tag, customizable with a super-cute and colorful shadow-print monogram. The vegan leather tags are available in five colors and are made with a solvent-free thermoplastic finish so you know they’ll be flexible, durable, and stain-resistant for the happy couple’s honeymoon and beyond. If you’re feeling generous, you could even add a second one to cart with the partner-to-be's initials—instant cute couples’ gift.

40. Uncommon Goods Wedding Keepsake Library

Sure, everyone wants to keep their special wedding day pearls or boutonnieres, but sometimes it feels like such a task to find a way to store them properly—never mind prettily. This beautifully crafted library box contains several drawers and folder slots for the newlyweds to store special mementos from their wedding day, starting a collection of family heirlooms in the process. The drawers and folders can be labeled, and it all tucks away as a lovely piece of shelf decor so the couple can reflect on their memories for years to come.

$105 at uncommon goods

41. Sweet July Skin

Sweet July Skin

A mixture of products that will hydrate, restore and brighten the skin is a must for a new bride—especially if she's going to be spending a lot of time out in the sun on her honeymoon. This set is the perfect choice as it comes with an exfoliating cleanser, a toner and a powerful face oil that will have her skin glowing.

~~$131~~; $120 at sweet july skin

$120 at amazon

42. Last Crumb Cookie Collection

Last Crumb

Who says the bride and groom only have to eat the leftovers of their wedding cake? Not me? Enter this cookie gift set box, which comes with a dozen different cookies in the flavors of chocolate chip, birthday cake, banana cream pie and more, making it the perfect gift for the couple who loves sweet treats.

$140 at last crumb

43. Custom Bourbon Barrel Lazy Susan

$30 at the adventure challenge

This rustic bourbon barrel lazy Susan is the real deal: It can hold up to a whopping 1000 pounds, and it will last forever (i.e., until death do they part). Made of reclaimed white oak bourbon barrels, this beauty looks rustic but elegant, so it’ll suit a wide variety of home decor. Of course, the personalized stamp is a sweet touch, too.

$150 at uncommon goods

44. The Adventure Challenge Mini Dates

The Adventure Challenge

The Adventure Challenge is an interactive gift that will create memorable fun and new connections for the newlyweds. This book of “mini dates” contains 30 scratch-off cards with adventures that the couple can do together, ranging from simple date ideas to adventurous outdoor activities. This is a great shower gift for the fun-loving and adventurous bride whose love language is quality time.

45. SatisInside Picnic Basket

This picnic basket is a great gift idea for a couple of reasons: it’s not something the bride likely already owns, nor that she would think to get for herself. It also provides a simple, budget-friendly date that’ll encourage all the romance and quality time while giving the newlyweds a break from routine. The wicker basket opens to a stylish striped insulated interior and comes equipped with everything needed for a leisurely Saturday lunch in the park—minus the food and bevvies, of course.

From $39 at Amazon

46. Sugarfina Peach Bellini Gummies

If you’re looking for something cheap and cheerful, you can’t go wrong with some of these elevated treats! Chances are the bride is going to need something to stress snack on in the coming weeks of wedding prep, and a couple of containers of these Sugarfina Peach Bellini gummy candies are handy to have in a snacking emergency. While they do share a name with the delicious frosty beverage, these peach-flavored, sugar-dusted snacks are alcohol free—but still an indulgence on their own.

$22 at Amazon

47. HexClad Pan Set

This high tech cookware set will carry the bride and groom beyond the altar, ensuring many years of great meals. Included in this set are three different sizes of pans that will handle all of their cooking needs. Sitting at a decent price point, this is a great standalone gift.

$404 at amazon

~~$532~~; $359 at hexclad

48. Aesop Body Cleanser and Balm Set

The bride is going to need some serious TLC before *and* after the big day, and this heavenly smelling body wash and moisturizer set from Aesop will transport her to the spa every time she showers. The Geranium Leaf cleanser will leave her feeling refreshed, and when she takes that extra time post-shower to rub herself down with the luxurious medium-weight (but non-greasy) Body Balm, it’ll melt away whatever wedding planning stress she needs a break from—even for just a few minutes. Of course, as a major bonus, she’ll be feeling supple and smooth come wedding time.

$137 at nordstrom

49. Deweisn Tri-Fold Vanity Mirror

From $70 at the caviar co.

This foldable, portable makeup mirror will be a functional and stylish addition to any bride's vanity setup (and maybe even to her makeup trials in the wedding-day lead-up). It has just the right angles and LED lighting, plus, it can be powered by USB or batteries, so there’s no situation this clever gadget can’t handle. After the wedding day, it can easily accompany her to her honeymoon for when the glam mood strikes or live on her dresser at home for years to come.

From $20 at Amazon

50. The Caviar Co. Box

The Caviar Co.

The luxury snacking certainly doesn't have to stop at the wedding. Consider caviar as a potential present that both the bride and groom can enjoy together. Not only is it a delicious fancy treat, but there's a variety of different options to choose from. I'm personally a fan of the Classic White Sturgeon, but I also recommend the Paddlefish and Royal White Sturgeon as potential suggestions as well. Plus, you really a lot in one bucket considering the affordable price points.

51. Diptyque 34 Boulevard Saint Germain Candle

A Diptyque candle is a perfect small luxury for the bride to be. Sure, it may feel small in size, and it’s not exactly the most practical, but when she’s done opening all her kitchenware and wedding favors, she’ll appreciate lighting a beautiful candle and relaxing with a little luxury just for her. The iconic perfumer’s homebase scent describes itself as having “fresh, green and distinctive notes of moss and crushed blackcurrant leaves” that are accented with floral notes, spiced scents and the “richness and warmth of woods and balms.” Take a deep breath…ahhhh.

From $120 at nordstrom

52. Waterford Lismore Diamond Picture Frame

Waterford

A piece of Waterford crystalware is a timeless and elegant gift that will stand the test of time (and maybe even make it into family heirloom status). This intricate yet understated 5x7-inch frame is made for displaying a meaningful wedding photo. It can also be engraved for that extra personal touch.

$225 at waterford

53. Riedel Performance Champagne Glasses

The happy couple will have lots to toast in the coming weeks, so a new set of champagne glasses is in order. These beauties from Riedel boast an elegant tulip design—the glassware shape favored by bubble connoisseurs for more aroma and flavor.

$88 at amazon

54. Amethyst + Alchemist’s Pearlescent CBD Bath Bomb

Ulta

Give the gift of relaxation with Amethyst + Alchemist’s Pearlescent CBD Bath Bomb Soak. CBD has been shown to reduce anxiety and insomnia; with 300mg of CBD plus plant-based melatonin and soothing scents of lavender, peppermint and rosemary, this gift will help take the edge off of any looming wedding planning stress.

$42 at ulta

55. Magnasonic Professional Ultrasonic Jewelry Cleaner

Whether she wants her special wedding day jewelry looking sparkly clean or just wants to keep those wedding rings looking crisp for eternity, this jewelry cleaner can handle it. It can be used with or without a jewelry cleaning solution (just water will do the trick); the 42,000 Hz ultrasonic waves claim to gently remove build up in just minutes—and the almost 30,000 five-star reviews agree. The Magnasonic can also be used to clean eyeglasses, utensils, and even retainers, so it’ll definitely be putting in the work in the newlyweds’ home.

$40 at Amazon

56. HelloFresh Gift Card

HelloFresh

The gift of food is always appreciated—especially if it’s pre-portioned, pre-packaged and delivered right to their door. A HelloFresh gift card will ensure your friend stays nourished during a hectic time by taking meal planning and grocery shopping off the busy bride’s to-do list (or, by giving her a little more down time in the days or weeks that follow). Plus, it could also make for a cute cooking moment between the happy couple.

From $75 at hello fresh

57. Brooklinen Waffle Bath Robe

Brooklinen

This Turkish cotton bath robe is lightweight, super comfy and surprisingly sexy. In other words, once the bride-to-be slips this on, she won’t want to get dressed...which sounds like a recipe for marital bliss, if you ask me. Keep in mind that both Brooklinen and reviewers recommend sizing a full size up since the cute waffle weave will shrink after washing and drying.

~~$129~~; $109 at brooklinen

58. Elf On the Glow Selfie Light

The bride might not have her phone with her on her wedding day, but to make sure she gets flawless selfies at all the pre-wedding events (shower, bachelorette, dress fittings to name just a few!) and on the honeymoon, she’ll appreciate this portable Elf selfie light. As a bonus, it can also be clipped onto a handheld mirror to double as a makeup light for touch-ups anytime, anywhere.

$6 at Amazon

59. Mark & Graham Raffia and Leather Tote

Mark & Graham

Every bride needs a reliable tote bag. Whether it’s to keep all your wedding day essentials in one place, to carry shoes to and from dress fittings or to hold onto all the info you’re bound to get from all your vendors, this beautiful bag from Mark & Graham will do it all and more. The chic natural fibers are structured and sturdy, while the linen lining has a zipper pocket for your smaller belongings. Once the wedding is done, this will also look great on the beach during the honeymoon. For an extra special touch, add her monogrammed initials.

~~$159~~; $130 at mark & graham

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I'm Great at Giving Wedding Speeches—But Here's the One Thing I'd Never Do During My Toast

Philip Mutz — 2024-05-20T09:00:00-05:00

Allow me to not-so-humble brag for a second: I’m really good at wedding speeches.

I’ve now officiated four weddings, given a best man speech, delivered a half dozen wedding toasts and I’ve helped a number of friends write wedding speeches. These public displays of my affection for the happy couple are always well received, and there’s one large reason why my speeches go over better than those of others: I don’t wing it and I don’t go off script.

You may now be thinking to yourself, duh, of course I’d prepare my remarks in advance. But that’s not what I mean. I don’t just prepare. I write out every. Single. Word. And then I read every. Single. Word. No deviation. No improv. No winging it.

The Horror Story

Everyone thinks they can lightly prepare their wedding speech or toast and just riff in the moment. This is a huge mistake. Best men, maids of honor, officiants, parents of the bride or groom—I’ve seen them all transform from happy-go-lucky wedding guests to deer in headlights right before my very eyes. They only prepare some bullet points. Or they decide they’ll just tell a funny story. But things never go over as they want. Inevitably, nerves take over, jokes don’t land, things they wanted to say get left out. Or even worse, the speech will go on and on and on while we all sit in our seats silently screaming to ourselves, Land the freaking plane, Grandma!

I’ve seen some of my funniest friends absolutely bomb during a wedding speech even though I know they’re good public speakers. Why? They jot down a couple notes and try to just “be in the moment.”

At a recent wedding in upstate New York, I watched one of the funniest people I’ve ever met (no exaggeration, honestly) start sweating bullets during his best man toast. He clearly had prepared a couple of jokes that he thought he could somehow navigate between in the moment. But when his first joke didn’t land, he began to panic. He began stuttering. He began searching through his notes for a way to salvage the moment. His voice began to quiver. The speech…wasn’t great. But it wasn’t the worst one of the night.

The other groom’s best man didn’t lose confidence. In fact, I’m pretty sure he thinks he delivered the best wedding speech in history. But he’d be wrong. His speech went on for sooooo long. He glanced down at a couple of notes he had brought with him periodically, basically as a reminder of the embarrassing story about the groom he wanted to tell next. With no script to read from, he had no idea that he lost his audience at about minute five and that by minute 11 we were all looking at our watches wondering how much longer it'd be before we could dance the damn Cha-Cha Slide.

This all could have been avoided…

My Foolproof Advice

At the same wedding that I watched these two loved ones struggle, I officiated a ceremony that was followed by handshakes and back pats from every friend I knew and every family member I’d never met before. It was a success because I had crafted (and rehearsed) a ceremony over the course of weeks—and then I read exactly what I had written down.

A wedding speech isn’t easy, but I would highly discourage anyone from leaving anything to chance. On the contrary, I recommend crafting a speech, practicing it, honing jokes, cutting out unnecessary details and practicing in front of a trusted friend. And then, when you get out in front of the crowd, just stick to the script. It hasn’t failed me yet!

A Few Other Tips

Besides keeping things scripted, I do have a few other small pieces of advice I can offer. First of all, keep it brief. It’s much better to err on the side of too short than too long. Second, don’t make it about yourself—keep it about the bride or groom. In fact, why not make a joke out of that? Early on in my wedding speech or toast, I’ll introduce myself and how I know the bride or groom, followed by the line, “But today isn’t about me…at least according to the program.” Cue the laughter. It kills every time, and it breaks the ice early on. (Feel free to steal it—the best comedians steal from one another.)

And that brings me to my next two tips: break the ice right away and make things funny. Breaking the ice can be difficult, so I recommend either making a self-deprecating joke right at the top of your speech (I personally go with, “You probably recognize me as the one who looks like Adrian Brody, only more sinewy and with less money”) or encouraging everyone to be loud right away (“This isn’t one of those quiet weddings so let’s give a big, rowdy round of applause for our bride and groom…”).

And include jokes where you can, but keep it clean. No one wants to awkwardly look over to the mother of the groom to see how she’s reacting after you make an off-color joke. Jokes can also be difficult, but that’s why you practice in advance (and why you practice in front of a friend). Keep the ones that work and ditch the ones that don’t.

You’ll Be Fine

The biggest thing to remember? This isn’t a life-or-death situation. This is a day of celebration where everyone wants you to succeed in your toast. And if you prepare in advance, practice your script and then read it word for word, you’ll have nothing to be nervous about. Before you know it, you’ll be high fiving the father of the bride as he congratulates you for totally nailing your speech.

The 30 Best Bridesmaid Gifts (That They'll Actually Use)

Courtney Campbell — 2024-05-15T09:01:22-05:00

The people you choose to stand by your side on your wedding day have been there through it all. Aside from going through life's greatest moments with you, they’re the ones who celebrated your engagement and helped you plan the best bachelorette party ever. Naturally, you want to thank them. Whether you met them in elementary school or became buddy-buddy at your first entry-level job, the best bridesmaid gifts will show them how much you appreciate their friendship—along with all the time (and money) they're putting into being your bridesmaid.

However, it’s important to gift your besties something that they’ll actually use, i.e. not something that screams “bride tribe” (which would no doubt be relegated to the back of their closets immediately afterwards). Instead, I'm talking sentimental and useful items that have a personal touch, from customized bags and stylish jewelry to a luxe beauty buy they wouldn't normally splurge on themselves. Any of these items can be given as part of your bridesmaid proposal, in your bachelorette party goodie bags or as getting ready gifts on the big day.

The Best Bridesmaid Gifts at a Glance

How I Chose the Best Bridesmaid Gifts

As a resident maid of honor and bridesmaid whose friends all seem to be getting engaged at once, I’ve experienced my fair share of bridal gift-giving and gift-receiving. Needless to say, I have some serious thoughts about what constitutes a good bridesmaid gift. To curate this list of the best options out there, I focused on a number of customized items that are cute and practical, without being cheesy. I also chose items that would be useful during a bachelorette trip or on the morning of the wedding. And because brides typically have more than one bridesmaid in their posse, I made sure that most of the gifts I picked are priced at less than $60, so you can treat the whole crew without breaking the bank.

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1. Slip Small Slipsilk Scrunchies

Sephora

They've been there to hold your hair back a time or two, so give them something to tie their hair back in style. These little silk scrunchies are designed to be gentle on their strands, and come in an array of pretty colors they'll love. Give everyone their own pack, or split them up amongst your bridesmaids—there are six in a pack, after all.

$39 at Sephora

$39 at amazon

2. Elemis Pro-Collagen Makeup Melting Cleansing Balm

Sephora

Skip the mini pack of makeup wipes and gift your gals a rich cleansing balm that won’t leave their skin feeling dry or irritated. I was gifted this popular Elemis one (recently named one of the best cleansing balms on the market by PureWow editors) on a bachelorette trip and it's amazing. With ingredients like Padina Pavonica (a moisture-boosting sea algae), starflower (aka borage) oil and elderberry oil, the formula hydrates skin while magically melting makeup away. These mini 0.7-ounce containers are perfectly travel sized, and ideal for removing makeup long after the reception.

$18 at Sephora

$18 at amazon

3. LinnDesignSelection Custom Social Club Sweatshirt

I think we can all agree that bride tribe tops are a bit too cheesy and something your bridesmaids aren’t likely to wear ever again (sorry, not sorry). Instead, opt for these chic ‘tini sweatshirts that'll mark them as a forever member of your social club without being totally cringe. They can be completely customized with your name as well as a city, state and the date, so they make for a classy, cozy keepsake you can use on your bachelorette vacay or during your wedding weekend. And trust me, these cute crewnecks won't end up at the bottom of their pajama drawer anytime soon.

From $32 at Etsy

4. Mark & Graham Monogrammed Patch Travel Pouch

Mark & Graham

These cute, colorful nylon pouches can be decked out with the felt initials of each of your bridesmaids in a rainbow of hues, giving adult summer camp vibes in the best way. The material is wipeable, making them great for storing makeup and other wedding emergency essentials (which, of course, you can pre-fill them with before gifting). And at 10 inches by 3 inches by 5 inches, they're ideal for travel—your girls can just throw 'em in their carry-ons and go.

$59 at Mark & Graham

5. YSL Personalized Bold High Pigment Lipstick

YSL

For a little bit of luxury, gift your besties an iconic YSL lipstick tube that’s engraved with their names or initials. The customization costs just $5, and you could even add in a cute message up to 14 characters long. Choose from more than a dozen of the brand’s long-lasting shades that will leave lips feeling moisturized for up to 10 hours—no sticky feeling. It’s one lipstick they'll make sure they never lose.

$53 at YSL

6. Stanley Personalized Quencher H2.0 Flowstate Tumbler

Stanley

By now you probably know that the Stanley Quencher is the "It" emotional support water bottle of the moment. But did you also know that you can customize the stainless-steel cups with a laser engraving of monograms, text and cute graphics to make it truly theirs? This 40-ounce version of the tumbler is among the brand's most popular for a reason; it holds a ton of water, keeps drinks cold for hours, fits in cup holders and will ensure that your bridesmaids stay hydrated and hangover-free (well, to a point). And with the addition of their own personalized designs, your girls will always know just which one to reach for.

$55 at Stanley

7. Liquid I.V. Hydration Multiplier

$25 at Little Words Project

Speaking of hydration, everyone needs some extra electrolytes when a big celebration's on the agenda. These Liquid I.V. drink powders come in a ton of flavors, and feature plenty of electrolytes and vitamins that will help the whole gang bounce back after a particularly boozy night out. Buy a pack and disperse them in their bridesmaid gift bags, and they’ll be sure to thank you later.

~~$25~~; $23 at Amazon

8. Little Words Project Bridesmaid Bracelet

Little Words Project

Yes, some bridesmaid-branded items are a bit much, but when done right, they can be adorable and sentimental. That’s why I like this darling-yet-discreet friendship bracelet from Little Words Project. The handcrafted, crystal-beaded accessory will remind her of her bridesmaid duties without overdoing it, and she can keep it on as part of her funky arm stack long after the wedding's over.

9. Pinch Provisions Velvet Minimergency Kit

There's no more fitting time than a wedding to remember the Girl Scout motto: "Always be prepared." And this little pouch certainly rises to the occasion. It's small enough to fit in a purse, but somehow manages to contain everything your bridesmaids (or you) might need on the big day. Seriously, it has 21 must-have items, including hairspray, stain remover, hair elastics, a mending kit, safety pin, dental floss, bandage, bobby pins, pain reliever, antacid, and more. Honestly, you should probably snag one for yourself, too.

$22 at Amazon

10. Birdy Grey Jonny Pajama Set

Birdy Grey

Everyone loves a cute pajama set, and getting good-quality matching ones not only makes for great pics while you're all getting ready, but also gives them something they’ll actually sleep in when they get home. This particular short set comes in several different hues (so you can coordinate with your wedding colors) and is made of a breathable bamboo rayon fabric. You can even have the backs customized with their names or initials for a $6 charge.

$44 at Birdy Grey

11. L.L.Bean Boat and Tote

L.L.Bean

A classic L.L.Bean tote bag is the perfect thing to hold all their goodies, and the chance to get in on the trend of humorously customized Boat and Totes is too good to pass up. (My personal favorite is my friend’s that says “Hater” in red cursive font.) Whether you go with an inside joke from the bachelorette or their names or monograms, you can bet your BFFs will get good use out of these durable canvas bags that come in an array of colorful trims. They last for years, especially since they can just be tossed into the wash if they need to be cleaned.

$35 at L.L.Bean

12. Kate Spade Pearls Of Wisdom Studs

Kate Spade

These elegant pearl earrings are the perfect way for your bridesmaids to embrace the pearlcore trend on your wedding day. The gold-plated faux pearl studs also feature tiny little diamonds that will make them sparkle (as they deserve to). The gems are timeless, sophisticated and will go with pretty much any style of bridesmaid dress. Plus, they’re pretty budget-friendly given how fancy they look.

~~$49~~; $15 at Kate Spade Outlet

13. Anthropologie Lou Rota Nature Table Monogram Mug

IMO, you can’t go wrong with a monogram mug for any gift. It's personal by nature, but this vintage-inspired option from Anthropologie, made from beautifully glazed stoneware, feels even more so. Every initial option has a different motif that’s as special and unique as they are. I especially love the matching detail inside the mug that will make sipping their morning cuppa extra sweet.

$14 at Anthropologie

14. CraftsByAden Personalized Compact Mirror

Your bridesmaids can really see themselves getting ready for the big day with this sentimental compact mirror. Available in gold, rose gold, silver, black and nude pink, it can be customized with a name and choice of flower, as well as a message or quote on the back about how much they mean to you. Since it's cute, small and meaningful, it's the perfect pick for a bridesmaid proposal box.

from $6 at Etsy

15. Mint & Lilly Tie the Knot Bracelet

Mint & Lilly

Since she’s helping you tie the knot, this knotted initial bracelet is more than appropriate. It comes in gold, rose gold and silver finishes, with a charm of her initial dangling front and center. It's made of waterproof surgical grade stainless steel with 18k gold plating, so it's also something she can wear long after the wedding.

~~$58~~; $29 at Mint & Lilly

16. Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Socks

If you ask me, socks don't deserve their reputation for being a boring gift, especially not if we're talking about ones as plush and soft as these. Hear me out: These super cozy socks from Barefoot Dreams feel like slipping into a cloud, and are the next best thing to a spa day for your toes. They’ll ensure your gals won’t get cold feet the morning of the wedding, and are available in three cute colors they'll love padding around the hotel in.

$18 at Revolve

17. Tonymoly I'm Real Sheet Masks

Nothing says "treat yourself" quite like a sheet mask, so give your girls the gift of self-care. This fun variety pack includes a few different formulas that can help hydrate, brighten or soothe their skin. You can split up this pack of ten amongst the whole gang—and possibly keep one for yourself. Heck, you could even all do them together the night before the big day.

$26 at Amazon

18. Marc Jacobs Daisy Rollerball

Sephora

Help her smell delightful well beyond your wedding day with this compact rollerball perfume. I was personally gifted this in my MOH proposal box, and I love how light and floral the scent is, as well as the fact that it’s small enough to bring everywhere. Seriously, it’s always in my purse, and its TSA-approved size is perfect for traveling.

$36 at Sephora

19. Paper White Candles Bridesmaid Candle

Adorable as the bridesmaid-themed label is, your crew will fall in love with this coconut oil candle for the delicious scents alone. You can pick and choose your bridesmaids’ favorites, from herbal rosemary and sage to fittingly festive ones like wedding cake and champagne toast. They'll think of you every time they go to light it.

~~$11~~; $10 at Etsy

20. Papier Joy Wellness Journal

Papier

They've had to alter their schedules over the past few weeks—or even months—to align with your wedding-related plans, so the least you can do is gift your friends something to help them get back on track. This useful wellness journal has 12 weeks' worth of space to track goals, jot down feelings, express gratitude and more. For an extra special touch, you can customize the covers with each person's name and initials.

$35 at Papier

21. LoveMeetsCraft Custom Satin Robe

Half the fun of your wedding day is getting glam and snapping photos with your best friends the morning of—and having matching satin robes on would be picture perfect. You can customize these beauties down to the font and the thread color, but take my advice and skip adding the "bridesmaid" label. Instead, personalize the robes with their own name or initials, so they can wear it around the house, or on vacation, without it looking like they got separated from the rest of the wedding party.

From ~~$32~~; $14 at Etsy

22. Bubble Letter Monogram Necklace

Anthrpologie

Monogram necklaces are always chic, but this bubble letter option adds some extra pizzazz that can elevate any fit. The thick, wavy letters in 14k gold-plated brass have a groovy look that nods to the '70s, so if you've got a retro wedding vibe going, they'd be totally on-theme. Hand the necklaces out as tokens of your appreciation, and you can bet you'll catch your friends sporting theirs for years to come.

$48 at Anthropologie

23. HeartThm Custom Travel Jewelry Box

If your bridesmaids are traveling out of town for your wedding day, the least you can do is gift them something to stash their jewelry away. These travel jewelry boxes are available in five pastel color options and can be customized with their name and different flowers. It features spots for rings, earrings and hanging necklaces, so nothing will get tangled before she stands next to you down the aisle.

From ~~$20~~; $7 at Etsy

24. Da Bomb Bath Unicorn Bath Bombs

These glittery bath bombs will give them a little selfcare after a few weeks of wedding shenanigans. Handmade by a pair of sisters, each unicorn bath bomb comes with a surprise inside. And since it comes in an eight pack, you can split them amongst your bridesmaids so they can all enjoy a little luxury at bath time.

$25 at Amazon

25. Uncommon Goods Love You Trinket Dish

Your bridesmaids are your “buds for life,” which is why I think these cute ceramic dishes are perfect gifting. Each one is handcrafted using real flowers pressed into clay, making them truly one of a kind—just like your besties. They can use it to house their favorite jewelry, or any other bridal party trinkets they've received.

$28 at Uncommon Goods

26. TheWhiteInviteGifts Personalized Iced Coffee Cup

from $9 at Olive and June

Whether she sips on matcha or cold brew throughout the day, she’ll appreciate doing so out of her own custom glass. Each comes with a sealed bamboo lid to prevent spillage and a spot for a straw for easy sipping. Choose from different floral designs, name fonts and frosted or clear glass to best fit your squad.

From ~~$13~~; $10 at Etsy

27. Olive and June Long Lasting Polish

Olive and June

These long-lasting polishes from Olive and June come in a fun array of colors that are perfect for finishing off their bridesmaid look. From bright Barbiecore hues to more subtle nudes, you’ll find the perfect nail accent. Best of all, the high quality formula will keep nails chip-free, even during a particularly long toast.

28. Grace & Stella Gold Under Eye Masks

Late nights on the dance floor and after-party gossip seshes can wreak some serious havoc on those under-eyes. These depuffing eye masks, made with hyaluronic acid and amino acids, will give them just the boost they need the day after the reception. With 24 pairs in a pack, everyone can get in on the goods, and arrive to the morning-after brunch looking fresh and awake.

~~$35~~; $20 at Amazon

29. Bevaney Smile Face Slippers

After they kick off their dancing shoes, they’ll be happy to slip on these slippers that are guaranteed to bring a smile to their face. The thick cushioned soles are made with memory foam to provide cloudlike comfort, while the fuzzy material is said to be extra cozy, per reviewers. They are available in six different colored retro smiley faces, so you can pick out a different one to best suit each of your girls.

$17 at Amazon

30. Sugarfina Bubbly Bears

Bloomingdale's

Give them a little something sweet with these iconic bubbly gummy bears. Made with Dom Pérignon Vintage Champagne, these candies really pop thanks to the sweet and tart sugar crystal coating. Trust me, these four cubes won’t last long.

$38 at Bloomingdale’s

$38 at nordstrom

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The 20 Best Bridesmaids’ Pajamas, from Linen Button-Ups to Sexy Slips

Marissa Wu — 2024-05-14T11:00:00-05:00

When it comes to planning a wedding, sure, the dress, cake, shoes and floral arrangements are all important. Not to mention finding the perfect venue that doesn’t cost as much as your mortgage. But what matters most is the people who will stand by your side. One beloved ritual is getting ready with your bridesmaids, doing your hair and makeup while sipping champagne—in matching pajamas, of course. Here, I’ve rounded up 20 of the best bridesmaids’ pajamas, including my luxe silk pick, Clementine Organic Silk Pajama Set ($349), favorite linen set, Piglet in Bed Linen Pajama Shorts Set ($139) and affordable winner, the Uniqlo AIRism Pajamas ($40). When making my selections, I prioritized button-downs and tops that would be easy to remove without messing up your hair and makeup, along with comfortable materials and, of course, style. Be ready to scoop up a pair for yourself, in addition to your girls.

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The Top 10 Best Bridesmaids’ Pajamas at a Glance

Meet the Expert

Maisie-Kate Keane is a luxury bridal stylist and seamstress based in New York. She has extensive training and experience in the fashion industry, holding a degree in fashion design from Limerick School of Art and Design and having trained as a couture pattern maker. Keane has collaborated with department stores like Saks Fifth Avenue, magazines, celebrities and designers like Alexander McQueen on design and styling projects.

How I Chose the Best Bridesmaids’ Pajamas

To round up this list of bridesmaid pajama sets, I talked to Keane about features she would look for and recommend, anything she’d skip and the merits of choosing pajama sets over a robe. I also asked her to share brands her brides have purchased and loved. Considering her insight, I then looked for pajamas that fit the criteria and included several pairs I’ve worn over the past year and loved, too. My priorities were button-up shirts, camis and tanks that wouldn’t mess up your hair and makeup when it was time to get dressed, as well as materials (cotton, linen, silk and other soft, stretchy and/or breathable fabrics). Because if it’s not comfortable, why bother?

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1. Clementine Organic Silk Pajama Set

Clementine

I’m a big fan of Clementine’s silk, including their bonnets, pillowcases, scrunchies and eye masks. The brand sources 6A, 22 momme silk—aka the highest quality available—which is also GOTS-certified and made with OEKO-tex certified non-toxic dyes. The pajamas (along with the rest of the line) are plastic free. Buttons and other details are made from mother of pearl. The set is available in three colors and tops are outfitted with a breast pocket.

$349 at Clementine

2. Piglet in Bed Linen Pajama Shorts Set

Piglet in Bed

Planning a summer wedding? Hello, linen pajamas. I’ve been a big fan of Piglet in Bed’s new Tencel-linen blend sets, which have cute contrasting piping and lots of pockets. They’re available in 19 colors, but you can also buy tops and bottoms separately. These are great in warmer weather, especially if you run cold in the mornings. I find the combo of shorts with long sleeves is warm enough to keep me comfortable without overheating. If you’re between sizes, I recommend buying the top and bottom separately, and if you want something more fitted, size down.

$139 at Piglet in Bed

3. Birdy Grey Jonny Pajama Set

Birdy Grey

Birdy Grey is a doyenne for all things wedding party at a price that doesn’t make your eyes water. (I’m looking at you, affordable bridesmaid dresses.) There are a plethora of cute, fun pajama sets and robes in a variety of styles, materials and colors. I wear the Jonny set on repeat, especially in spring and summer. The material is stretchy, soft and machine washable. Plus, there are three pockets. Birdy Grey’s sizing is also more inclusive than others, ranging from XS to 3X.

$44 at Birdy Grey

4. PACT Staycation Pajamas

PACT

I’ve been wearing some variation of PACT’s cotton pajamas for about a year now and can attest that they are stretchy, comfortable and cute. PACT commits to using organic cotton and offsetting its carbon emissions. Additionally, the brand is Fair Trade- and GOTS- certified. I find that the shorts and short-sleeve tops are true to size, but if you opt for pants and long sleeves, I’d order a size down for a more fitted look.

From $38 at PACT

5. Uniqlo AIRism Pajamas

Uniqlo

Uniqlo was my very first pair of “proper” pajamas and I wore them to literal shreds. Now, the brand has an updated version featuring its AIRism technology. It promises to be cool to the touch, smooth to the touch and keep you dry if you’re a sweaty sleeper. There are plenty of pockets and the top is a button-down, making for easy removal that won’t mess up hair and makeup. At $40, they also clock in as the most affordable on the list.

$40 at Uniqlo

6. Nordstrom Moonlight Pajamas

From $50 at Abercrombie & Fitch

Nordstrom’s Moonlight Pajamas are a favorite among PureWow readers and staffers. In fact, our affiliate director, Pam Masin, gifted these to her bridesmaids. “They all rave about them to this day,” she says. “They are incredibly soft and breathable. My only regret is not buying myself a pair. Hot tip, if you can wait to purchase them during the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale that typically happens in July, the price should go down to around $50. (This is also when they tend to launch new colors.)”

$65 at Nordstrom

7. Abercrombie & Fitch Lace and Satin Pajamas

Abercrombie & Fitch

Of course, you want your wedding day to be free of drama, but what if it came in the form of these beautiful lace sleeves? The dainty trim adds texture and flair to an otherwise intense color, though black does render everything sleek. While the pajamas aren’t sold as a set, that gives you the option to choose between matching or contrasting pants and shorts. The pants are wide leg with a drawstring waist, while the shorts have an elastic band.

8. Printfresh Short Sleep Set

Printfresh

If you’re looking the best bridesmaids’ pajamas that are punchy and playful, Printfresh is the way to go. Their pajama shorts set has a relaxed fit and comes in a mind-boggling 29 different patterns, from champagne bottles and seashells to unicorns and leopards. The shorts are mid-rise with deep pockets, while the top is a button-up with piping and notched lapels.

$138 at Printfresh

9. Quince Silk Pajamas

Quince

Quince is known for its washable (and affordable) silk. Washable it is, as I’ve thrown my Quince silk blouse in the washing machine many times, and it always comes out looking good as new. They offer silk pajama separates that will run you about $100 total. While that’s a pretty penny for sleepwear, it’s a palatable price point as far as silk goes. Though there are no buttons on the sleep top, the halter neck is wide, allowing you to easily pass it over your heard.

From $50 at Quince

10. SilkSilky Belted Lapel Silk Pajama Set

SilkSilky

SilkSilky’s belted pajama set has a convenient design. The top opens like a bathrobe, and the sash is quicker to manage than a row of buttons. This set is made of 19 momme mulberry silk and comes in three colors: pink, grey and white.

~~$400~~; $170 at SilkSilky

11. Eberjay Mariana Robe

Eberjay

If you’re inclined to go the bathrobe route, PureWow Senior Director of Special Projects Rachel Bowie gifted her bridesmaids Eberjay bathrobes when she got married eight years ago. “They [seemed most practical for preserving our hair and makeup, while also being] pretty and matchy-matchy for pictures,” she says. “I got one for myself, too, in white, and only recently retired it from my closet. The thing I liked about this style was the quality: I knew it would be something great for photos, but also a lovely "’thank you’ gift that my friends could wear beyond the day. The material is SO soft!” While the exact design Bowie gifted her bridesmaids is no longer in stock, the Mariana Robe comes close, with its fluttering kimono sleeves and lace trim.

$148 at Eberjay

$148 at Amazon

12. Seline Lounge Monogram Pajamas

When it comes to the best bridesmaids’ pajamas, you can’t go wrong with a monogram. It’s a fun way to add a personal touch to something that can double as a “thank you” gift. Seline Lounge makes custom, handmade satin pajamas, with children’s sizing available if you want to include younger members of your wedding party. Two other bonuses: custom sizing and the ability to mix and match your top and bottom colors. The white pajamas also come with lining to minimize sheerness.

~~$49~~; $24 at Etsy

13. Leila Rose Studio Bridesmaids’ Romper

Want to do something different from traditional pajamas or a robe? Enter the romper. This design from Leila Rose Studio features an elegant, gleaming satin with a deep V-neck and elastic waistband. Your bridesmaids will be able to get in and out of the romper easily without disturbing their hair and makeup, and the romper won’t be prone to slipping or opening during the getting ready process. All rompers are made-to-order and available in 12 colors.

$34 at Etsy

14. Lulus Feathered Pajama Set

Bring a little glam to the getting-ready suite with some fun feathers. This stylish set from Lulus features feather cuff trims and rhinestone-encrusted buttons that give the look some razzle-dazzle. The relaxed fit and high elastic waist will accommodate many different body types, including taller frames. Reviewers have praised the pajamas as cute, comfy and comparable to other pairs running $400 or more.

$79 at Lulus

15. Anthropologie Ruffled Pajama Set

These flirty pajamas are a favorite for many Anthropologie shoppers, with one writing, “Feels super soft and expensive.” The material is incredibly comfortable, with ruffle accents on the pants and sleeves. There’s also a button-down top for easy removal. One thing buyers unanimously agree on and caution is that the pajamas run large, so sizing down is a good move. However, the roominess of the cut does allow them to double as great maternity PJs.

$68 at Anthropologie

16. Lulus Sleeveless Pajama Set

Looking for the best bridesmaids’ pajamas without sleeves? Lulus makes a flowy satin short set available in hot pink and ivory with black piping. The fabric isn’t stretchy but does fall loosely, and the high-rise, drawstring waistband is elastic. There’s a functional breast pocket to hold your phone and any makeup, and the top is a button-up.

~~$59~~; $45 at Lulus

17. Piyama Nicolette Sleep Set

Piyama

If you want to get matchy-matchy with your bridesmaids, Piyama’s Nicolette set is incredibly versatile. One bride reported that the medium size fit both her and her sister, who was seven months pregnant. The top is loose and flowy (some buyers did feel it was too voluminous), with a square neckline and ruffle accents. Meanwhile, the shorts have an elastic waist. The pajamas come in four colors, including white and floral patterns.

$89 at Piyama

18. Sleeper Feathers Pajama Set

Sleeper

Statement buttons. Detachable feathers. If you’re on the hunt for luxe bridesmaid pajama sets, Sleeper’s fits the bill with this chic, oversized ensemble. The pajama shirt has two patch pockets and piped lapels, and the set comes in four colors, including mint, black and white. The best part? The feathers are detachable, so you can wash these pajamas in the washing machine. (Just make sure to run it on the delicate cycle.)

$390 at Sleeper

19. J. Crew Camisole Pajamas

J. Crew

Camis also make great bridesmaid pajama sets, and I love this pair because the top has buttons. (Though, you could easily pull it over your head, too.) It’s a linen-cotton blend with adorable sky-blue stripes and two bow accents. “They wear well and are so light and comfortable in the summer months,” one buyer writes. Perfect for late spring and summer nuptials.

$99 at J.Crew

20. Intimissimi Silk Slip

Intimissimi

Channel everyone’s inner J.Lo with this sexy silk slip, available in 12 colors with lace trimmings. From sultry red to ivory, grey and mint green, there are plenty of options to express individual style, or pick your favorite so everyone can match. The V-neck and spaghetti straps make it easy to pass over your head without mussing the hair or smudging your makeup.

$99 at Intimissimi

What to Consider When Shopping for Bridesmaid Pajama Sets

Pajamas or robes? “It ultimately boils down to personal preference and the vibe you want to create for your special day, but I lean more towards pajamas,” says Keane. Her reasoning? “You don’t need to wear anything underneath, which will prevent any bra marks when your bridal party puts their gowns on. Additionally, pajamas bring a relaxed and cozy atmosphere to the getting ready process, whereas robes feel slightly more formal.”

As for the materials, she advises avoiding polyester satin or poly-mix fabrics, which can trap sweat. Keane also skips fabrics that crease easily, unless you want a rustic look. Finally, you’ll want to opt for lower necklines, as higher cuts may ruin hair and makeup. Remember: button-downs and elastic are your friends.

The 20 Best Wedding Clutches for Completing Your Bridal Look

Courtney Campbell — 2024-04-22T11:00:00-05:00

Once you have your wedding dress and shoes secured, you can finalize those accessories. Jewelry and a veil immediately come to mind, but don't forget the power of a great wedding clutch. If your gown doesn’t happen to have pockets (a girl can dream, right?), a clutch is essential for holding all your essentials like your phone, IDs, cash, gloss and more. While you’ll likely won’t be holding it the entire night, the bag should complement your wedding gown or reception dress, and I’ve rounded up 20 swoon-worthy options you’ll be happy to have by your side on your big day.

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The 20 Best Wedding Clutches at a Glance

How I Chose the Best Wedding Clutches

As all brides know, each wedding is uniquely planned to their style, and your wedding clutch should reflect that. To choose the best wedding clutches, I researched top rated and popular bags at a range of price points, touching on top trends and picking out timeless options that could be carried on your honeymoon and beyond. I looked for clutches that were large enough to fit essentials but not too big that they’d be hard to carry or take up too much space on a table. I also consulted a few brides and brides-to-be on options they looked at for their own wedding day to help compile this list.

1. Loeffler Randall Rayne Bow Pleated Clutch

$250 at Saks Fifth Avenue

Loeffler Randall's bow heels have been spotted on everyone from Sophie Turner to Margot Robbie, and they've become a comfy wedding shoe staple among in-the-know guests, but I say the brand's bow clutch deserves just as much applause. It's a statement bag that isn't overwhelming. Featuring a detachable crossbody chain, it’s the perfect size for keeping your cell phone and emergency kit closeby, just in case.

$250 at Revolve

2. Lulus Pearl Rhinestone Clutch

It’s all in the details. The combination of faux pearls, round rhinestones and beaded details create a scallop-like shape that is a dazzling addition to any wedding look. It’s quite roomy with a sidewall pocket, and there’s a hidden magnetic closure that quickly snaps closed, so you can get on the dance floor faster. There’s even a detachable silver chain strap for a crossbody look. I think it would look stunning paired with a simple, clean-lined gown.

$49 at Lulus

3. Boutique De FGG Flower Rhinestone Clutch

If you’re planning on making an extra statement with your bridal clutch, this is the bag for you. Covered in rhinestone-studded roses (5,000 to be exact!), this bag is bound to shine throughout the night. It comes in a few sparkly color options to best match your wedding palette and there’s a removable silver strap. While it's on the smaller side, you can still use it to house your phone for quick access for photo snapping at cocktail hour.

$86 at Amazon

4. Olga Berg Mrs. Glitter Acrylic Pod

Now here's an accessory that really underscores the day—and looks great in photos. This solid acrylic purse is eye-catching yet has enough space to hold a phone and wallet. You can opt to hold it throughout the night or wear it crossbody style, thanks to the removable strap. This would be a great bag for an engagement party or bridal shower, too.

$125 at Revolve

5. Kate Spade Gemma Crossbody

Kate Spade

While you might not be able to wear your wedding dress again, you can definitely wear this scalloped crossbody again. The cream-colored clutch is effortless bridal, but functional enough to be used in your day to day life. It also has bonus storage, like 12 credit cards slots and a center zip coin compartment that will be helpful for keeping everything extra organized.

$69 at Kate Spade Outlet

6. Anthropologie The Frankie Mini Clutch

If you only want a clutch that can hold your phone and a lipstick, this one will come in clutch. Despite its small size, you can still keep organized thanks to the inner slip pocket, quick frame closure and the detachable strap. The shiny braided exterior also means that it will sparkle as much as you do on the big day.

$68 at Anthropologie

7. Tuckernuck Slouchy Clutch

Tuckernuck

If you plan to have a tropical destination wedding or even getting married on the beach, this raffia clutch adds a nautical flourish without going full "under the sea" kitsch. The lighter color of the textured bag still makes it seem bridal, and a chunky chain strap makes it easy to hold or can be tucked in for that full clutch look. It has an oversized slouchy look that will hold all your wedding day essentials without losing its shape over time.

$148 at Tuckernuck

8. Charming Tailer Evening Clutch

For those who are already well past their initial wedding budget, this clutch adds sophistication without pushing things too far—aesthetically and financially. The simple oversized clutch has delightful pleated detailing paired with a detachable gold chain. It comes in several hues, but the champagne and white colors are especially bridal-appropriate.

$30 at Amazon

9. Cult Gaia Eos Box Clutch

The entire world will be your oyster with this pearl-covered bag. The iridescent clutch is encircled with bubbly pearls that offer a playful spin on a bridal classic. It’s a winner whether your wedding is beach themed or if you’re just feeling like the jewel of the night.

$328 at revolve

$328 at Bloomingdale’s

10. Nina Ivory Satin Concord Clutch

Nina

A satin clutch with a bejeweled clasp is a classic option to complement your wedding dress. The versatile look will work with most wedding designs, providing a sense of understated elegance. Plus, the pleated frame makes it easy to keep hold of during the reception while you’re chatting away with your guests.

$65 at Nina

$65 at Nordstrom

11. Olga Berg Beth Encrusted Clutch

$179 at Kate Spade Outlet

Any lacy or beaded wedding dress would be complemented beautifully by this stunning floral beaded option. Just check out the delicate crochet knit overlay, which houses a crystal and acrylic pearl embellishment. And the satin interior? Talk about wow factor.

$125 at Nordstrom

$125 at Revolve

12. Mango Pearl-Effect Clutch Bag

Mango

This clutch-meets-mini-bag combo has a shiny pearl exterior that’s made for any bride. It opens up completely in half to a satin-lined compartment that’s just large enough to house a phone and a few extra goodies. With a short strap that’s easy to hold, you won’t be dropping it on the dance floor, either.

$130 at Mango

13. YSL Uptown Clutch

Bloomingdale's

The YSL Uptown Pouch is an iconic bag that would look stunning at any upscale venue. With the classic YSL logo atop an envelope-style clutch, the cream shade will go well with a white wedding dress. It’s a heritage bag that you’ll want to use well beyond the wedding day, as well.

$645 at Neiman Marcus

$645 at Bloomingdale’s

14. Staud Tommy Garden Party Shoulder Bag

Bloomingdale's

Staud is known for its intricately beaded bags, and this one is fit for a spring wedding. Featuring delicate, floral beaded detailing that isn’t too flashy, it has a magnetic snap closure and an additional zippered interior pocket to stash away smaller items safely. While it does have a vegan leather handle, it’s still small enough to be held as clutch if desired.

$295 at Bloomingdale’s

$295 at Staud

15. Olga Berg Champagne Slimline Clutch

Tuckernuck

A champagne-colored clutch is a great alternative to a traditional white or off-white bag. Clean lines and minimal hardware means it won’t overpower the dress but rather complement it, especially with its streamlined look.

$85 at Tuckernuck

16. Kate Spade Love Shack Heart Crossbody

Kate Spade

You can truly wear your heart on your sleeve—er, wrist—with this adorable heart-shaped bag. It has a removable leather strap to be worn as a crossbody, but we like the idea of using the pearl handle on a wedding day. The interior is quite roomy to boot, for those of us who need more than just their phones on hand.

17. Lulus Fabulous Arrival Feather Clutch

There’s something fun and flirty about a feathered clutch, especially on your wedding day. Covered in long ostrich feathers, you’ll have the options to hold a thick pearl handle or use the thin silver crossbody strap. If you plan on having more of a party-style reception dress, this would be the perfect match.

$45 at Lulus

18. Babeyond Triangle Pearl Clutch

If you want to be a bit extra on your wedding day, why not embrace pearlcore and deck out your look in them? With a small tassel to grab, you’ll have fun tossing this small bag around as you rush to the dance floor, knowing your goods are safe in the satin-lined interior.

$29 at Amazon

19. Nina Emmy Clutch

Nina

Soft, ruched pleats give this otherwise plain clutch some subtle definition. Plus, its 9-inch by 6-inch size means you’ll be able to stuff the essentials, as well as a hair clip and foldable flats in there. Even better, there’s an optional chain strap for hands-free carry.

$78 at Nordstrom

$78 at Nina

20. Fontem Personalized Rosa Clutch Bag

This personalized clutch makes for an incredible bridal shower gift she can relish in on her wedding day. It has a classic leather exterior, but the lining can be completely customized for the bride-to-be with a note from a loved one or even her wedding vows. Talk about the perfect wedding keepsake.

$550 at Anthropologie

The 35 Best Mother-Son Dance Songs for Weddings

Emma Singer — 2024-04-17T21:00:00-05:00

The big day is approaching and there will undoubtedly be a dance shared between the groom and his mother…but to what song will they sway? From sentimental, slow dance tunes to upbeat dance tracks that will get the crowd going, here are our top picks for mother-son dance songs for weddings.

Slow Mother-Son Dance Songs

1. “This Must Be the Place” by The Talking Heads

Release Year: 1983
Genre: alternative, indie
Notable Lyrics: “I'm just an animal looking for a home, and /share the same space for a minute or two/And you love me 'til my heart stops/Love me 'til I'm dead”

This gentle Talking Heads song has a dreamy vibe, positive messages about love and a soft beat that’s perfect for swaying to on the dance floor.

2. “I Wish You Love” by Natalie Cole

Release Year: 1993
Genre: R&B
Notable Lyrics: “I wish you bluebirds in the spring/to give you heart a song to sing/and then a kiss, but more than this/I wish you love”

This poignant song has a tinge of sadness related to saying goodbye, but an uplifting message that captures the spirit of a mother’s well wishes to her son.

3. “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong

Release Year: 1967
Genre: jazz
Notable Lyrics: “I see trees of green/red roses, too/I see them bloom/from me and you”

This uplifting Louis Armstrong ditty is a favorite that will fill everyone, mother and son including, with nostalgic joy.

4. “In My Life” by The Beatles

Release Year: 1965
Genre: pop
Notable Lyrics: “though I know I’ll never lose affection/for people and things that went before/I know I’ll often stop and think about them/in my life, I love more”

Thoughtful, nostalgic and full of quiet love—this happy-sad Beatles song isn’t as upbeat as some of the other options on our list, but it’s very tender and quite pretty, too.

5. “Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole

Release Year: 1951
Genre: jazz
Notable Lyrics: “unforgettable in every way/and forever more/that’s how you’ll stay”

For mothers and sons who want to gaze into each other's eyes and really lean into the sentimentality of the occasion.

6. “(They Long to Be) Close to You” by The Carpenters

Release Year: 1970
Genre: pop, soft rock
Notable Lyrics: “On the day that you were born the angels got together/ And decided to make a dream come true”

Saccharine and cheesy? Yes. But maybe that’s what mother and son want for the wedding dance. Bring on the big feelings and maybe bring some tissues for the slow dance that’s in store.

7. “Twelfth of Never” by Johnny Mathis

Release Year: 1958
Genre: pop
Notable Lyrics: “You ask how much I need you, must I explain?/I need you like the roses need the rain.”

Here, classy, old-school vibes and Johnny Mathis’s silky voice combine to create a truly dreamy song that captures both the romance of the occasion, as well as the unbreakable bond between mother and son.

8. “Gentle On My Mind” by Glen Campbell

Release Year: 1967
Genre: folk
Notable Lyrics: “You’re moving on the back roads, by the rivers of my memory/And for hours you’re just gentle on my mind.”

Glen Campbell’s heartfelt folk song has a ponderous and nostalgic mood; it’s just right if you’re looking for a mellow dance song that’s poignant, but not too cheesy.

9. “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra

Release Year: 1961
Genre: jazz, pop
Notable Lyrics: “Someday when I’m awfully low/When the world is cold/I will feel a glow just thinking of you/And the way you look tonight.”

Another old-school favorite—this beloved Frank Sinatra tune exudes class and is a fitting expression of admiration that will make mom feel both beautiful and loved.

10. “Thank You” by Dido

Release Year: 1998
Genre: pop
Notable Lyrics: “And I want to thank you/For being the best thing I ever had.”

This straightforward expression of gratitude for mom is elevated by Dido’s angelic voice and the beautiful simplicity of the lyrics.

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11. “Right Down the Line” by Gerry Rafferty

Release Year: 1978
Genre: soft rock
Notable Lyrics: “You’ve been as constant as the Northern Star/The brightest light that shines/It’s been you, woman/Right down the line”

A major late ‘70s hit, Gerry Rafferty’s “Right Down the Line” is an atmospheric and pretty groovy tune with a powerful message that can be interpreted as a son-to-mother expression of gratitude and unremitting love.

Emotional Mother-Son Dance Songs

12. “Stand by Me” by Ben E. King and the Drifters

Release Year: 1961
Genre: soul, R&B
Notable Lyrics: “if the sky we look upon/should tumble and fall/or the mountain should crumble to the sea/I won’t cry, I won’t cry/no I won’t shed a tear/just as long as you stand/stand by me”

This classic from Ben E. King and the Drifters is a good choice for a mother-son dance, so long as both parties are comfortable getting a little misty-eyed, that is.

13. “Bridge Over Troubled Water” by Simon and Garfunkel

Release Year: 1970
Genre: pop, soft rock
Notable Lyrics: “all your dreams are on their way/see how they shine/oh, if you need a friend/I’m sailing right behind”

Simon and Garfunkel bring on the big feelings with their classic song “Bridge Over Troubled Water,” and let’s just say water will likely be spilling from a couple pairs of eyes by the time the dance is over.

14. “Lean On Me” by Bill Withers

Release Year: 1972
Genre: soul
Notable Lyrics: “lean on me/when you’re not strong/and I’ll be your friend/I’ll help you carry on.”

This beloved and oh-so sentimental Bill Withers song about steadfast friendship and unconditional love is a beautiful expression of the lifelong mother-child bond.

15. “Landslide” by Fleetwood Mac

Release Year: 1975
Genre: folk rock
Notable Lyrics: “well I’ve been afraid of changin’/’cause I’ve built my life around you/but time makes you bolder/even children get older/and I’m getting older, too.”

The vibe of this Fleetwood Mac song is a bit sad, but the melody is absolutely beautiful and the lyrics about growing up and accepting change certainly address empty nest feelings in a way that might be fitting for the occasion.

16. “A Song for Mama” by Boyz II Men

Release Year: 1997
Genre: R&B, soul
Notable Lyrics: “you taught me everything/and everything you’ve given me/I’ll keep it all inside/you’re the driving force in my life”

It’s all in the title—this Boyz II Men track is an unabashed ode to mama that’s sure to make any mother feel remembered and appreciated on her son’s big day.

17. "I'll Stand by You" by the Pretenders

Release Year: 1994
Genre: pop
Notable Lyrics: “when you’re standing at the crossroads/and don’t know which path to choose/let me come along/cause even if you’re wrong/I’ll stand by you.”

We probably don’t need to tell you that this song from The Pretenders has some really big feelings, vocals to match and lyrics that express a (somewhat desperate) devotion that could, perhaps, apply to a very strong mother-son bond.

18. "Everything I Own" by Bread

Release Year: 1972
Genre: R&B, soft rock
Notable Lyrics: You sheltered me from harm/kept me warm, kept me warm/.you gave my life to me/set me free, set me free/the finest years I ever knew/were all the years I had with you”

The ‘70s soft rock band, Bread, is famous for its unabashed sentimentality. Here, David Gates sings a very poignant ode to his deceased father, but the lyrics are a perfect fit for a mother-son relationship, too. If you’re looking for a melody that’s tender, slow and brimming with raw emotion, you can’t go wrong with this track.

19. “Child of Mine” by Carole King

Release Year: 1970
Genre: pop, folk
Notable Lyrics: “You don’t need directions/You know which way to go/And I don’t want to hold you back/I just want to watch you grow.”

This incredibly sentimental and beautiful song from Carole King, written from a mother’s perspective, will bring on the waterworks. Don’t take our word for it, though—just read the top comments on YouTube, one of which reads, “this was the song I sang to my perfect wonderful son as we danced the mother-son dance at his wedding. The lyrics were so real for us. He’s 30 now, but he will always be my baby.”

20. “Coat of Many Colors” by Dolly Parton

Release Year: 1971
Genre: country
Notable Lyrics: “Now I know that we were poor/But I was rich as I could be/In my coat of many colors/My mama made for me/Made just for me.”

Dolly Parton’s ode to her mother is a real tearjerker that speaks to the power of maternal love, present under any and all circumstances, and the profound effect it has on the child who receives it. (Pro tip: Make sure your mom wears waterproof mascara before you dance to this one.)

21. “Teach Your Children” by Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young

Release Year: 1970
Genre: country-rock
Notable Lyrics: “Don’t you ever ask them why?/If they told you, you would cry/So just look at them and sigh/And know they love you.”

Reassuring words can be found in the lyrics of this sentimental song from Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young. The takeaway? No love is lost on this happy occasion.

22. “Kathy’s Song” by Simon and Garfunkel

Release Year: 1966
Genre: soft rock
Notable Lyrics: “And as I watch the drops of rain/Weave their weary paths and die/I know that I am like the rain/ There, but for the grace of you, go I.”

I sing this gentle and poetic song to my children every night as a lullaby and would happily (and tearfully) dance to it at my son’s wedding. As such, you might consider it for a slow dance option that beautifully captures the bittersweet feelings of an evolving bond and the undying devotion of a mother to her son.

23. “You Ask Me To” by Waylon Jennings

Release Year: 1973
Genre: country
Notable Lyrics: “Feel simple love is simple true/There’s no end to what I’d do/Just because you asked me to/Let the world call me a fool/But if things are right with me and you/That’s all that matters.”

Waylon Jennings’ sincere lyrics can communicate a son’s loyalty to his mother, or vice versa. Indeed, the beauty of this twangy track is that it’s an expression of the reciprocity of love and the loyalty that goes hand in hand with it.

Upbeat Mother-Son Dance Songs

24. “I’ll Always Love My Mama” by The Intruders

Release Year: 1973
Genre: soul, disco
Notable Lyrics: “I’ll always love my mama/she’s my favorite girl/I’ll always love my mama/she brought me in this world.”

Here, a soulful disco track with lyrics about loving mom that leave no room for doubt.

25. “More Today Than Yesterday” by Spiral Staircase

Release Year: 1969
Genre: pop
Notable Lyrics: “I love you more today than yesterday/but not as much as tomorrow.”

Not much to explain here; if you’re looking for a powerful expression of everlasting love that will make you want to sing, this one fits the bill.

26. “O-o-h Child” by The Five Stairsteps

Release Year: 1970
Genre: R&B, soul
Notable Lyrics: “o-o-h child things are gonna get easier/o-o-h child things are gonna get brighter.”

Enjoy this upbeat celebration of things to come with enough soul to make the whole party want to sing along.

27. “Wildflowers” by Tom Petty

Release Year: 1994
Genre: folk rock
Notable Lyrics: “runaway, find you a lover/go away somewhere all bright and new/I have seen no other/who compares with you”

This wistfully happy tune is thoroughly loving—a perfect choice if you’re looking for a song that’s gentle, but in a way that doesn’t bring sad vibes to the dance floor.

28. “You Are the Sunshine of My Life” by Stevie Wonder

Release Year: 1972
Genre: pop. soul
Notable Lyrics: “you are the sunshine of my life/that’s why I’ll always be around/you are the apple of my eye/forever you’ll stay in my heart”

You can always count on Stevie Wonder to bring big emotion and beautiful vocals. Here, he sings about his overwhelming love for his wife, but mother-son duos will have no trouble relating to the sentiment.

29. “Happy Feelings” by Maze ft. Frankie Beverley

Release Year: 1996
Genre: R&B
Notable Lyrics: “happy feelin’s in the air/touching people everywhere/plenty love and everything/listen to the people sing.”

If you want to avoid some of the more heavy-handed songs (i.e., like the one just above), this is a great feel-good choice that boasts a celebratory vibe and a subtler, less personal message about love.

30. “We Are Family” by Sister Sledge

Release Year: 1979
Genre: disco, soul
Notable Lyrics: “all the people around they say yeah, yeah/can they be that close/let me state for the record/we’re giving love in a family dose.”

Leave it to Sister Sledge to serve up the feel-good, party vibes. There’s no slow dancing to this one, but if you’re looking for a family song that celebrates family, you can’t do better.

31. “I Say A Little Prayer” by Aretha Franklin

Release Year: 1968
Genre: gospel, soul
Notable Lyrics: “forever (forever), forever (‘ever)/you’ll stay in my heart/and I will love you.”

Aretha Franklin builds emotion in the refrain like a badass in this tender and passionate ode to unconditional and lifelong love. As a result, the song encourages a progression from slow, intimate dancing to more celebratory and carefree moves. In other words, it checks all the boxes.

32. “Home” by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros

Release Year: 2009
Genre: alternative, indie
Notable Lyrics: “Home is wherever I’m with you.”

Though it doesn’t come across as an expression of familial love necessarily, this passionate and somewhat theatrical track from Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros has positive vibes and lyrics that touch on poignant memories and unconditional love, plus a strong “home is where the heart is” message.

33. “It’s Wonderful to Be Loved by You” by Jimmy Ruffin

Release Year: 1969
Genre: R&B, soul
Notable Lyrics: “There must be a word that says how much I love you/One fulfilling word that shows how much I care/Wonderful, to be the world.”

This throwback tune is full of unrestrained love and unadulterated joy. It’s also sure to bring tearful smiles to the faces of both mother and son.

34. “I’ll Be There” by Jackson 5

Release Year: 1970
Genre: motown
Notable Lyrics: “With unselfish love that respects you/Just call my name and I’ll be there.”

Mother and son will always be there for each other—that’s the message delivered by this timeless classic from the Jackson 5. And we’re guessing it’s a helpful reminder for any mom whose son has just flown the coop for good.

35. “You’ve Got a Friend In Me” by Randy Newman

Release Year: 1995
Genre: pop
Notable Lyrics: “And you’re miles and miles from your nice warm bed/You just remember what your old pal said/Boy, you got a friend in me.”

Simple, sweet and totally happy—this bluesy tune was originally created for the first Toy Story movie and has since become a feel-good classic that boasts just the right amount of emotion.

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How to Plan a Wedding Dinner Party, Explained by Wedding Planners

Marissa Wu — 2024-04-03T13:00:00-05:00

Last year was the year of the anti-bride, with couples putting their own spin on weddings and throwing tradition by the wayside. That continues, as 2024’s trend forecast includes Western gothic influences, disco balls and the absence of bridal parties. Big, grand entertainment bonanzas are out; intimate and personal are in. And what’s a better way to bring things closer together than the wedding dinner party? Here, three wedding planners explain the concept and how to pull it off.

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What Is a Wedding Dinner Party?

A wedding dinner party might not sound that different from a reception, but it’s all about the execution. While the latter might often include things like a DJ and dance floor (cue the flash mob) in a big ballroom, the former is intimate with a focus on food and connection.

“Dinner parties tend to feel equal parts formal and comfortable,” Hall and Vanco explain. Valley adds, “[It] nods to the comforts of hosting loved ones at home—setting the table with special plates and napkins, dressing a room with soft candlelight and bountiful flowers, and cooking a dinner with love.” Wedding dinner parties are about comfort and intimate moments, a relaxed atmosphere and lots of lingering at the table over conversation, instead of barreling towards the dance floor with a brazenness only booze could fuel.

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How Many Guests Should I Invite?

The concept works well with fewer people—Hall and Vanco recommend a maximum of 50 guests. Now isn’t the time for a 300-person buffet reception. Remember: the dinner party is a personal experience. You want guests to feel like they’re coming to your home.

However, if necessary, it can be done with a larger party. This is where, Valley explains, you’ll need to lean into the thoughtful details.

“Creating smaller tables with less guests encourages more intimate conversations, and crafting a culinary experience rooted by a couple’s story all plays into a wedding dinner party experience,” she says. “Layering a place setting with artisanal plates, patterned napkins, and personal touches like hand-penned notes, photos, or a special recipe from the evening are all playful ways to lean into [dinner party].”

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Where to Host a Wedding Dinner Party

It comes as no surprise that Hall and Vanco have planned many wedding dinner parties at clients’ homes—whether that be the childhood or vacation home, or a family estate. “Using somewhere where you had all of our childhood holidays can obviously add to the special feeling of the day,” they note. For those of us who may not have space to accommodate 50 guests at home, consider a private dining room or restaurant buy-out. In the winter, both planners say you can’t go wrong with a venue that has a fireplace.

“In warmer months, a lush outdoor garden or a stone terrace at a private property would be lovely settings for a wedding dinner party,” Valley adds. “Couples are increasingly seeking out unique, untouched landscapes—such as secluded fields or pristine natural settings—to host outdoor ‘wild feasts’ or construct bespoke venues for exclusive use, often just for a single evening. Sometimes these are in an expansive backyard; other times, they’re in far flung destinations to really complement the ambiance and sensory experience of the cuisine they plan to serve.”

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How to Plan the Menu

A dinner party is an elevated affair, so consider doing a multi-course meal with beverage pairings, plus interactive offerings like tableside carvings, caviar service and mini cakes at each table, Hall and Vanco suggest.

You could also consider family-style service. “[It] can foster a more communal atmosphere and can be a unique bonding moment for every guest to savor each dish together,” Valley says. She also recommends incorporating a family recipe for a personal touch.

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Creating the Ambiance

Of course, what’s a dinner party without ambiance? Hall and Vanco call this component “everything” when it comes to a successful wedding dinner party. “We will always opt for candles over brighter light,” they say, noting that the mini lamp trend also works well.

At receptions, it can be common for large floral arrangements to sit on every table, but Valley recommends having understated decor that won’t impede guests’ ability to interact with others. “[Keep it] low and minimal,” Hall and Vanco advise. Valley emphasizes that decor and tablescapes really benefit from intentional details. Think mismatched personal and vintage heirlooms or uniform, elevated items.

As for the tunes? “Music should match the environment and energy that you envision for your party,” Valley says. Hall and Vanco will often suggest the music escalate with the menu.

Ultimately, a celebration like this is about connection. “When you have a smaller guest list, you can really be intentional about your overall guest experience,” Hall and Vanco say. Some clients have written each guest a personal note and given custom artwork at each place setting.

“Unlike a traditional reception where the focus may be on grandeur and entertainment,” Valley observes, “wedding dinner parties are a great way to prioritize intimacy and connection amongst guests.”

The ‘24-Hour Photo Freeze’ Is the Wedding Etiquette Rule We Need in Our Lives

Rachel Bowie — 2024-02-20T22:00:00-05:00

I first learned about the ‘24-hour photo freeze’ rule from U.K.-based influencer (and friend) Laura-Ann Barr. Barr attended a family wedding and shared a singular behind-the-scenes detail shot of the program on her Instagram Stories, plus a disclaimer: “The bride looks absolutely beautiful,” she captioned the pic. “I’ve loads and lots of wedding photos, but with accordance with good wedding etiquette, I’ll share them tomorrow. Believe me, she is worth the wait.”

This caught me off guard. I had of course seen a variety of methods employed to keep nuptials from going viral before the vows were even exchanged: Signs posted, no-phone rules. But this 24-hour photo ban was new.

Was it common practice across the pond? I decided to reach out to the source.

Barr quickly confirmed that her decision to hold on sharing any pics was self-imposed: “The bride didn’t formally request it, but it just seemed like a good thing to do out of respect for her big day,” she explained. “I didn’t request this at my own wedding, but it’s something I would have appreciated had the matter come up.”

And she reported another upside: Letting go of the urge to post every moment (the vows, the kiss, the first dance) meant that she was able to be more present. “The whole occasion felt much more meaningful,” she says. “I wouldn’t want to be a guest at a wedding where I have to leave my phone at the door—at this point, a phone is like carrying a coat or an umbrella. It’s an essential. I took photos of my family, of course, and of the bride. I just didn’t post them until the event was over.”

Myka Meier, etiquette expert and founder of Beaumont Etiquette, confirms this as a growing trend. “It gives couples a grace period to post their own pictures and I think it’s such a lovely idea,” she explains.

Additionally, she adds that if you aren’t sure how the couple wants to handle social media during their celebration, it’s OK to ask a wedding planner or the maid of honor ahead of the big day. “Some couples may want the attention and encourage you to post away with designated hashtags while other couples may prefer a social pause.” If you’re at all unclear? “Try the 24-hour photo freeze just to be safe. At the very least refrain from posting images of the couple themselves so that they have a chance to post that first look photo.”

7 Wedding Trends That Will Be Everywhere in 2024

Abby Hepworth — 2024-02-12T15:00:00-05:00

Weddings are centered around the unwavering love of a couple, the unity of families and the relief that months of stress, logistical coordination and clashes with future in-laws are coming to an end. From the moment one of you says yes, you’re sucked into the wedding industrial complex with the supernatural force of that Dyson you’re eyeing for your registry. But there are a few bright spots in the planning process that remind us that this is actually supposed to be fun. (You’re hosting a party, after all!) Enter these modern yet meaningful wedding trends that will make the day feel like yours, from disco decor to Champagne towers in place of cakes. We promise no one has to toss a garter.

1. Disco Balls and Groovy Nuptials

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According to Pinterest, searches for “groovy wedding” and “70s bride” are up 170 percent and 50 percent respectively. Disco balls specifically seem to be popping up on just about every dance floor, but also as decor on tables, as props in photobooths and even on invitations. Lean even further into those ‘70s vibes with neon signs, a sequined jumpsuit for the reception, a jukebox at the after party and lots of Bee Gees on your playlist.

2. No Bridal Party

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While mixed-gender bridal parties have been trending for a few years now, more and more couples appear to be skipping out on bridal parties altogether. The benefit is that all the attention can be focused entirely on the couple, and that friends, siblings and other potential bridesmaids/groomsmen can just sit back and relax like any other guest in attendance. Another option is to have your bridal party take seats in the first or second rows after walking down the aisle.

3. Colorblocked Invitations in Interesting Shapes

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Be prepared to see lots of bold, graphic invitations in bright color combinations, and cut to create interesting shapes when layered, hitting your mailbox in 2024. They can be curved into arches, cut into half-circles or even trimmed with wavy edges. As for colors, pretty pastels lend a more traditional vibe, while brighter hues can help play up a retro theme or even give a nod to the venue.

4. Western Gothic

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We definitely have Kourtney Kardashian to thank for kicking off this darkly romantic trend. But while the 2022 bride’s Italian nuptials definitely had more of a gothic Catholic vibe to it (the entire family was dressed by Dolce & Gabbana, after all), the 2024 version puts more of a western twist on things. Think draped lace, corsetry and wide-brim hats for the bride, and darkly-hued taper candles and moody, twisting florals for decor, with a whole lot of black, purple and red thrown in for good measure.

5. Champagne Towers

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Not everyone is a cake person, and with dessert alternatives growing in popularity, so too are moments designed to replace a traditional cake cutting. One of the most popular options? Pouring a bottle (or two) or bubbly over a Champagne tower. A word to the wise: Be sure to confer with your vendors and events team so your festive Gatsby moment doesn’t wind up a pile of shattered glass and a puddle of wasted prosecco.

6. Themed Weddings and Guest Color Palettes

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Funky dress codes are on the rise, ranging from simple black-and-white themes to over-the-top “space disco cowboy.” Not only are couples dressing in groovy or western gothic apparel, but they’re also asking guests to follow suit. It can be a fun way to further express your identity as a couple (a cowboy theme to match the rodeo bar where you met) or even play up the vibes of your venue (a ‘20s-era mansion with a ‘20s flapper theme).

7. Bow Stacking

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From cakes and table settings to hair-dos and dress details, bows are having a major moment in 2024. They’re particularly fun as décor, knotted over candle sticks, draped over chairs or tied around the stems of Champagne flutes. And you can adapt the trend to work for your personality and style;opt for neat, structured bows if you’re more traditional or looping, colorful ones if you’re more of a boho bride.

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Boomers Can’t Seem to Get on Board With This Intimate Millennial Wedding Trend

Abby Hepworth — 2024-02-05T06:00:00-05:00

Weddings just ain’t what they used to be. Seriously though, weddings have evolved at a rapid pace over the past decade or so to the point that a “typical” or “traditional” wedding is no longer quite so easy to define. You’ve got micro weddings, the rise of the anti-bride, couples skipping out on a wedding registry, weddings with gender-neutral bridal parties or even no party at all—these days, weddings can essentially take any form you like. And for many millennials that means keeping their ceremony limited to a select few followed by a big reception for everyone, even if their boomer relatives don’t approve.

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The Knot and Martha Stewart both note that exchanging vows in private or having a very small, intimate ceremony is a growing trend among millennial couples. For some this means limiting the guest list to a few special individuals (BFFs, grandparents, immediate family), or just parents and siblings. Or it could mean doing a totally private ceremony for just the couple with their officiant. But of the couples we talked to who plan to follow the trend (or already have), many noted that their boomer relatives weren’t as enthusiastic about it.

“When we first started planning our wedding and brought up the idea of maybe doing a private ceremony, my aunts made it very clear they would be upset to be left out,” said Amanda, 32. “To them, the most important part of the entire event is the actual ‘getting married’ part, they don’t care so much about the dinner and dancing afterward. It was important to them to watch me and my partner make our vows and say ‘I do’.” Indeed, many of the baby boomers we spoke to explained that the joy of attending someone’s wedding is to watch them get married. Ironically, some suggested this is even more true now that ceremonies are becoming more personalized and less formal.

Commenting on her daughters’ weddings, Judith, 75, said, “It was such a joy to watch my daughters exchange their vows with their husbands, and both had people they knew officiate, making the ceremony feel so personal and filled with love. I had numerous friends comment afterward on how lovely the ceremonies were and how special it felt to watch and be there. I think [couples] may be underestimating how many people want to actually watch [them] get married.”

For Enaoris, 36, she ended up trying to bridge the gap between her and her husband’s hopes and those of her mother-in-law, who had a lot of pushback and thoughts on the couple’s idea to do an intimate destination wedding. “She is old-school, more traditional, and really wanted us to have a huge wedding,” so that all their relatives and friends could join in the celebration. “She was not thrilled about the destination aspect [with a smaller guest list] because, as she said, ‘no one is going to be able to come’. We ended up with 60 people attending, which is really not so small after all!”

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Of course, for some couples the decision has less to do with breaking from tradition (or avoiding stage fright) and more to do with budget. “When we got married, we were working with a super small budget,” says Lauren, 33, “so planned to have our ceremony in our own backyard. But we didn’t really want to pack it with benches and a tent and other expenses that honestly would’ve just ruined the charm of the yard, so we did our ceremony in the afternoon with a super small group and then had a blowout party in the evening. We were able to do so many more things at the reception because that was effectively our entire budget. A few people did say they were sad to have missed the ceremony, but we did what we felt was best for us.”

Another couple we spoke with told us that their chosen location forced their hand. “We really wanted to get married up in the mountains,” explained Gen, 29. “I’d seen all these stunning photos on Pinterest (because of course I did) of couples up on a peak in their wedding garb but knew for a fact that my parents and other relatives would not want to, and in some cases couldn’t, hike all the way up there with us.” So instead, she and her husband made the trek with their officiant and photographer and the following day had a reception with all their loved ones at a nearby park—still outdoors, but far more accessible. To compensate, Gen’s parents and in-laws were invited to join them at the courthouse when they got their marriage license to make it feel extra special.

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While boomers do tend to be the group most put off by breaking with tradition (though this is by no means a universal truth), Kelly, 36, notes that it was actually her friends who made the biggest hubbub about her decision to keep her guest list to just immediate family. “Surprisingly, our boomer family members were pretty supportive! My family is based on the west coast and I think some of them were hoping for an excuse to come out to NY for a wedding, but we didn't get any pushback once we announced it would be a private event. It was actually a few of my friends that really pushed back, saying they would be sad to miss out on my special day and not see me walk down the aisle.”

In the end, of course, it is entirely up to the couple on how they want to celebrate and with whom. “I think millennials and Gen Z are more understanding of letting people do what they want or need to do,” said bride-to-be Emma, 27. “To be honest, our families (mine and my partner’s) don’t get along that great and I already have anxiety about how the reception will go. It was really important to me to have at least one part of the day be entirely mine (or ours, really), so I can be fully present to really connect and enjoy it. I’m getting a lot of commentary from various relatives who feel left out but my wedding is not for them, it’s for me and my fiancée.”

40 Fun and Sophisticated Bachelorette Party Ideas (That Don’t Involve Vegas or Penis Straws)

Emma Singer — 2024-02-01T18:09:00-05:00

If thoughts of a weekend in Vegas or a Bourbon Street bar crawl send chills down your spine, congratulations: You’re officially a grown-ass woman looking to plan a grown-ass bachelorette party. You’ve come to the right place—from zen-like retreats and activities that will make you feel truly pampered (hello, spa day) to fun outings and creative pursuits (sip and paint, anyone?)Without further ado, here are 40 unconventional bachelorette party ideas that you won’t block from your Facebook feed or cringe at for years to come.

1. A Weekend Yoga Retreat

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Great for: small groups, low-key socializing, destination parties

Instead of partying all night and sleeping ’til noon, incorporate some sun salutations into your girls’ getaway. (After months of planning you could probably use a good vinyasa flow, anyway). Turns out, there’s a whole site dedicated to finding these type of retreats, no matter your price point or party size. If an entire weekend of yoga seems a bit extreme, squeeze a session into one aspect of your trip—say, a weekend at the beach with a morning of downward dogs and setting intentions, followed by sparkling wine at lunch.

2. A Trip to the Spa

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Great for: small to medium groups, pampering, low-key socializing

Mail your gals a plush terry-cloth robe and an invite to the fanciest spa in town. Insider tip: Most spas offer discounts of 10 to 15 percent for groups larger than four or six. Try for a spot with a common space for everyone to hang out, but if not, at least schedule your pedicures together. Then revel in some glorious alone time during the hour-long massage.

3. A Wine Tasting Tour

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Great for: small to medium groups, daytime celebrations, low-key socializing

An afternoon at a vineyard is another great way to take the edge off—hello, infinite bottles of rosé—without any of the penis-straw-induced mayhem. The best part is that you don’t have to commit to an entire weekend. Chances are there’s a vineyard within driving distance from you. Just rent a bus or a limo (or a very kind fiancé chauffeur), book a fancy Airbnb and you’re all set.

4. A Group Cooking Class

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Great for: small to medium groups, virtual celebrations, two-part events

Everywhere from Sur La Table to your favorite patisserie holds some version of a cooking class. Start by picking the cuisine (classic Italian, sushi, layer cake—you name it), then do a little digging. The real selling point: It’s impossible to have drama on a full stomach.

5. A Group Dance Class

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Great for: small to medium groups, active parties, two-part events

If your friends aren’t afraid to poke fun at themselves, this one’s for you. Find a class that teaches the moves to one of today’s popular music videos. For example, DivaDance in New York City and Austin, Texas, holds classes dedicated to Beyoncé, Bieber and old school Christina Aguilera.

6. A Comedy Club

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Great for: small to medium groups, two-part events

A comedy club may seem one step up from Chippendales, but it's a recipe for hilarity—especially when the stand-ups know you're there for a bachelorette party (mother-in-law jokes abound). Call the club in advance and reserve a front-row table. After a few espresso martinis, you’re guaranteed to leave in stitches.

7. A Weekend of Glamping

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Great for: small groups, outdoor activities with luxe accommodations

If the pseudo outdoors is more your speed, then we highly recommend exploring an upscale camping site, where you can sleep inside without fear of bug bites, rocks in your back and wild animal attacks. Two thumbs up if you can score one in a national park.

8. A Scenic Day Cruise

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Great for: small to medium groups, low-key socializing, daytime celebrations

If you live near a body of water, sign up for a day cruise with your pals and enjoy a few hours of scenic views and socializing in a fresh and fun setting. Most boat tours serve adult beverages and food on board, and some companies offer private bookings, so you and your guests can have the whole vessel to yourselves. For a truly special experience, check out all the options and pick the swankiest one you can find.

9. A Cabaret Club

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Great for: small to medium groups, sexy vibes

Skip the male strippers and keep it classy with a night at a cabaret club where you can catch a performance that’s actually interesting. Live jazz music, Cirque-style acrobatics, seductive burlesque dancers and lively variety shows that serve up a little bit of everything—a dinner theater or cabaret club reliably has top-notch food, strong cocktails and memorable entertainment on the menu.

10. A Trip to an Amusement Park

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Great for: small to medium groups, thrill-seeking

Make it a destination party and book a few tickets to California or Florida for a resort-style Disney experience, or just head to a nearby Six Flags for the day (there are tons of ‘em). Either way, there’s no better way to celebrate the end of an era than with some nostalgic fun at a theme park with friends—you know, ‘cause you’re really never too old to enjoy the thrill of a rollercoaster and the greasy goodness of funnel cake.

11. A Music Festival

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Great for: groups of any size, free-range socializing

If the timing is right, score tickets to a music festival for you and your gang. It’s pretty hard to beat a bachelorette party that entails a whole weekend of dancing to live performances from not one but several of your favorite artists whilst surrounded by your favorite people. What to pack? Every hip and Insta-worthy outfit you own, of course.

12. A Hotel Slumber Party

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Great for: small groups, low-key socializing, pampering

Lounging in luxury robes, swimming in the pool, getting pampered at the spa, watching movies, enjoying five-star food and drink delivered to your room—a weekend or even a one-night staycation with friends at a luxury hotel is truly a treat. Just plan some games to play, so there’s additional fun to be had once everyone has availed themselves of the hotel amenities, and be sure to spring for the best and roomiest suite you can afford, so the whole group can party and crash in one spot. (Adjoining rooms will do the trick, too.)

13. A Disco Party

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Great for: large groups, at home, themed parties

No good concerts scheduled to coincide with your party date? No problem. Just turn a private venue (or your own pad) into Studio 54 for the night and queue up a playlist of 70s disco hits that will get everyone out on the dance floor. For best results, make sure the sound setup is topnotch, the decor is on point and the guests obey the Boogie Nights dress code.

14. An Axe Throwing Party

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Great for: small to medium groups, active parties, two-part events

Sure, it’s a fun team-building exercise with officemates, but this high-energy activity is even more enjoyable among the chosen company of your bachelorette party. Best of all, most axe throwing venues serve a full menu that includes craft beer and cocktails, and the pastime itself is totally safe (and much easier than you think after a quick intro course from a pro), so you needn’t worry about the event ending in tragedy.

15. A Weekend Ski Trip

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Great for: small groups, destination parties

Head to a ski resort for some winter weather thrills, complete with a cozy lodge stay so the crew can unwind after a day on the slopes with movies, games and plenty of hot (preferably spiked) beverages. Psst: A vacation rental with a hot tub is kind of a must.

16. An Escape Room Party

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Great for: small to medium groups, virtual celebrations

There’s nothing quite like bonding with your besties by trying to escape a locked room with them. But seriously, escape rooms are stimulating and fun—and the teamwork required to crack the code and break free really does bring folks closer. Book an in-person escape room session for your bachelorette party, or invite guests to your place to participate in a virtual experience. Either way, you can count on everyone present being fully engaged.

17. A Private Movie Viewing

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Great for: medium to large groups, two-part events

Here, a laid back party idea that involves renting out a theater, or (weather permitting) setting up a projector screen in the backyard, for an intimate viewing experience that takes place somewhere a little less ordinary than the living room couch, yet still doesn’t require every guest to keep their lips zipped for the entirety of the event. As for the movie pick, feel free to lean into the occasion with a cheesy rom-com, or perhaps take advantage of the opportunity to make your friends watch any offbeat flick you’ve been dying to see—you really can’t go wrong, so long as there’s an abundance of food and beverage.

18. A Brunch Party

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Great for: at home, small to medium groups, low-key socializing

Make it a daytime affair with an oh-so sophisticated brunch party where guests arrive dressed in their Sunday best to wash down a mouth watering spread of morning and lunchtime favorites with bottomless Champagne cocktails. An expertly curated brunch menu, a solid playlist and perhaps a few, post-meal parlor games are all you need to ensure a successful bachelorette bash.

19. A Dinner Party with a Private Chef

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Great for: small to medium groups, at home, low-key socializing

Dinner parties are divine…unless you’re saddled with the chore of cooking, serving and cleaning up, that is. A bachelorette party only happens once (one hopes), so it’s perfectly reasonable to splurge on a house call from a professional chef who can handle the dinner, while you focus on the party.

20. A Paint and Sip Party

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Great for: small to medium-sized groups, at home, virtual parties

Bring in a professional artist to teach you and your guests some basic techniques and then let your creativity (and a few glasses of chardonnay) take over. With good wine and even better company, this low-key event is sure to be a hit, even if the finished canvases are more comedy than fine art.

21. Distillery Tour

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Great for: small to medium groups, two-part events, low-key socializing

If wine tasting isn’t your speed, consider a (literally) stronger alternative and head to a distillery instead. The process is actually pretty interesting and a tour can be quite informative. Plus, everyone will get to sample the goods—whiskey, moonshine, what have you—so it’s a fine way to get everyone in the mood to party some more afterwards.

22. Bowling Party

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Great for: small to medium groups, low-key socializing

Bowling is kind of a perfect party sport—namely because it’s not crazy competitive, everyone has to wait for their turn, thus allowing ample time for socializing, and every bowling alley has beer on tap. Rent a lane or two, pass around the frosty brews and let the good times roll.

23. Drag Show

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Great for: medium groups, party vibes

Find a drag show near you and you and your crew are guaranteed a good time. Best of all, if you give advance notice that a bachelorette party is taking place, there’s a good chance the performers will pull the bride-to-be on stage for a little extra fun.

24. Karaoke Night

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Great for: small to medium groups, party vibes, at home

Rent a room at a nearby karaoke bar or set up your own karaoke system at home—either way, everyone will be ready to let loose and belt it out after a drink or several. The end result is a memorable night of silly fun (and potentially terrible singing).

25. Dim Sum Dinner

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Great for: any size group, low-key socializing

Do your research and pick the best spot in Chinatown for a fun and interactive meal featuring a wide array of yummy bites. Plus, the Chinese dim sum tradition is known to be a social affair that’s well-suited to low-key celebrations.

26. Murder Mystery Party

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Great for: small to medium groups, themed party

Watch Clue to get inspired and then choose from a huge selection of different murder mystery themes (you can find a host of fun, downloadable options here) and let the detective work begin. Just be sure to bring in some decor to set the dark mood and consider serving cocktails and hors d’oeuvres that fit the theme. After all, it’s hard to solve a crime on an empty stomach.

27. Picnic Lunch

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Great for: any size group, low-key socializing

What better way to connect with your friends before the big day than with a picnic in the park? Obviously, this idea is dependent on the weather—but if the bachelorette party is planned for the warmer months, it only makes sense to take advantage of the sunshine and fresh air. Plus, all you need to do is stock a couple coolers full of wine, beer and other beverages and make it a potluck-style event so one person doesn’t have to supply all the food.

28. VIP Museum Tour

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Great for: medium groups, arts enthusiasts, low-key socializing

For a bride-to-be who would appreciate a celebration that involves a dose of art and culture, Museum Hack is a company that offers VIP bachelorette party tours at some of the most renowned museums in major cities (Chicago, NYC, LA, San Fran and D.C.). The tours are customizable and involve scandalous secrets relating to the exhibits, plus games of your choice, photo opps and even the option to pop a few bottles while you’re there. Pretty neat, right?

29. Pole Dancing Class

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Great for: small to medium groups, active parties, two-part events

A strip club is probably not on your bachelorette party radar, but pole dancing probably should be—namely because it’s a great workout (keep it up and you’ll have abs of steel on your wedding day) and a super fun and decidedly sexy way to learn a new skill while connecting with a group of girlfriends. Our recommendation? Head to a wine bar for a Champagne toast or hit up a Russian bathhouse (i.e., banya) to relax in the steam room when the class is done.

30. Trivia Night Party

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Great for: medium groups, low-key socializing, at home

You can always find a local bar that’s hosting a trivia night, but we think the better way to go is to host a more intimate event at home, so that the trivia questions can really be all about the bride-to-be. Come up with quiz questions that touch on her interests, guilty pleasures and shared memories. Bonus points if you have prizes on hand for everyone who gets a right answer and a bigger reward for the winner of the game.

31. Pool Party

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Great for: medium to large groups, at home, low-key socializing

A pool party is a no-brainer for a summer bachelorette party and it’s also a very budget-friendly way to pull off the celebration, too—provided you or someone you know has a pool in their backyard, that is. Invest in festive pool floats, set up a margarita bar and maybe score some bachelorette-themed merch for every guest to sport, and you’ll be good to go.

32. Pottery Painting Party

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Great for: small groups, low-key socializing, arts enthusiasts

Artistic brides-to-be might consider taking their squad to a local ceramics shop that has a paint-your-own option. Pretty much every pottery store that offers this creative activity will let you rent the whole place out for a special occasion and most likely allow you to bring in a few bottles of bubbly, too. If you’re looking for a fresh take on a paint and sip party, this one fits the bill.

33. Rock Climbing Party

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Great for: small to medium groups, two-part events, active parties

Here, another idea for those who want to work up a sweat with their squad. Rock climbing gyms will happily host groups, and often at a discounted rate. The adrenaline-fueled activity also provides a great endorphin rush so everyone will be in the mood to keep the party going at whatever bar or restaurant you head to next.

34. Laser Tag Party

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Great for: medium to large groups, two-part events, active parties

This throwback activity has stood the test of time—namely because it’s still as fun as you remember to run around in the dark with a laser gun. It’s also an excellent way to bond with your besties, since there’s teamwork involved. Once you’ve wrapped it up, bring the group to a bar or back to your pad for some drinks and an opportunity to socialize.

35. Roller Skating Party

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Great for: medium to large groups, two-part events, active parties

Go retro with a roller rink visit and you’ll have a dance party on wheels. Bonus points if you insist on an 80s or 90s dress code. Most importantly, prepare for a workout and definitely pick a place where the group can enjoy some food and bev afterwards.

36. Arcade Party

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Great for: any size group, two-part events

Yet another throwback activity with nostalgic vibes, an arcade party is a great way to interact with a group of friends over some light competition and loads of entertainment. Plus, there are photo booths and prizes built into the experience so it’s sure to be memorable, and once the gaming is over, everyone can grab a bite to eat and enjoy a little low-key socializing.

37. Volunteer Party

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Great for: small to medium groups, two-part events

The excess and trashiness of a Vegas bash is not your speed, so why not go a different direction entirely and gather a group of gals to spend some time giving back to the community with you. There are countless volunteer opportunities around so you can easily find one that speaks to you, and the activity is proven to promote happiness and bonding among participants. After everyone has done some good for others, celebrate with some Champagne at a venue of your choosing.

38. Beach Party

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Great for: any size group, low-key socializing

Invite your wedding party for a day of sunbathing, swimming and catching up on the sand. Make sure there are frosty drinks and plenty of sandwiches, and consider activities like boogie boarding, beach volleyball and frisbee. The main benefit of a beach party is really just that anything goes and nobody goes broke. You can even schedule it for the evening hours and do the whole bonfire thing.

39. Barbiecore Party

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Great for: medium to large groups, themed parties

Take inspiration from the biggest blockbuster film of 2023 and go full Barbie with the theme of your bachelorette party. It will be kitschy, fun and very pink (like, even the cocktails and food). Just be sure to get the playlist right and pick a venue that can accommodate a large, carefree crowd.

40. Paintball Party

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Great for: medium to large groups, active parties, two-part events

Much like laser tag, but a little more hardcore—paintball involves teamwork, strategic thinking and a whole lot of active fun. Battle it out with your besties in the field and then call a ceasefire for food and drinks at a favorite spot to refuel and enjoy some post-game socializing.

Bachelorette Party FAQs

Who Pays for a Bachelorette Party?

Good news, brides-to-be: You don’t have to pay for any of the expenses related to your bachelorette party. Typically, the entire cost of the affair is covered by the attendees, who will pay their way and all chip in to cover you as well. That said, bach party planning is usually a collaborative process—namely because all the invitees need to actually be able to afford their share and the overall budget must be set accordingly. And let’s just say, money has been a little tight for many as of late (ahem, inflation). For this reason, our list of creative bachelorette party ideas mostly steers clear of lavish celebrations that require guests to pony up for pricy airfare, lodging and everything else, and features low-key party ideas that will make the bride-to-be feel plenty special without making the whole wedding party go broke. (Thoughtful, right?)

Who Plans It?

Traditionally, bachelorette parties are planned by the maid of honor with some degree of collaboration from the bride-to-be. That said, anyone in the bridal party can volunteer to take on the task and it’s not at all uncommon for the bachelorette to just plan the get-together herself when it’s a low-key gathering. Ultimately, the more modern intention behind a low-key bachelorette party is simply to enjoy some QT with friends who you might not be able to connect with fully during the hubbub of the actual wedding.

Who Gets Invited?

There are no hard and fast rules here. Typically, bachelorette party invitees include all members of the bridal party, plus any other close friends or family members you want to celebrate with. It’s traditionally a ladies day/night out type of thing, but there aren’t rules about that either—so feel free to invite plus ones and best guy pals, and structure the guest list however you see fit.

What Do You Do at a Low-key Bachelorette Party?

As we hinted at above, a low-key bachelorette party really just refers to any non-destination celebration (i.e., a party that doesn’t require attendees to take a full-blown vacation with you). A low-key bach party can be limited to a single day (see, brunch party), or it might still involve a full weekend of festivities, as with a hotel staycation or yoga retreat. In other words, a low-key bach party is just a more money-conscious version of the traditional thing—and what you do at one really just depends on where the event is taking place, as well as the bride-to-be’s personal party style (i.e., tame or wild). That said, you can typically expect a main activity, some party games and, more often than not, plenty of booze.

35 Wedding Hairstyles for Short Hair, From Old Hollywood Glam to Boho Chic

Marissa Wu — 2024-01-20T14:00:00-05:00

You’ve picked out the perfect wedding dress (or suit), booked a makeup trial and found a pair of comfortable heels that will let you rage on the dance floor. Now, all you need to figure out is what to do with your hair. Weddings are marathon events, so it’s key to find something that both complements your outfit and won’t be completely undone by the time you make your sparkler exit. Don’t have long locks? That doesn’t mean you’re out of options. From buns to braids and everything in between, get ready to say “I do” to these 35 wedding hairstyles for short hair, recommended by stylists.

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Updos

1. French Roll

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When it comes to wedding hairstyles for short hair, it doesn’t get more chic than the French Roll. According to Henningsen, this updo is best done on second-day hair refreshed with texture spray or dry shampoo, which will add to the “undone” look.

To style, gather hair at the nape of the neck like you would for a low ponytail, before twisting the ends upward. “Once you reach the crown, start to coil the twisted hair into a roll,” she explains. “Allow the roll to be loose and tousled and use hair pins or bobby pins to secure the roll in place, crisscrossing the pins for added stability. Gently pull on the sides of the roll to create a softer, more casual appearance. Don't worry about achieving a perfectly sleek look; the charm of a French roll is in its effortless style.”

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2. Soft Low Bun with Waves on Top

If you have shoulder length hair, this wedding hairstyle is a fun way to give you a volume boost. Those with straight hair will need to start by adding waves throughout. (Henningsen recommends using a barrel waver.) If your hair is already wavy, this is a great way to embrace your natural hair texture, which can be enhanced with texture spray. Then, part your hair as desired, pulling it into a low ponytail and swirling it into a bun. To create the top, “Gently pull on the hair at the crown to create a bit of volume and soften the waves at the top,” Henningsen explains. “This adds to the overall relaxed and romantic feel of the hairstyle.”

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3. Low Swirl and Bun

Wedding hairstyles for short hair don’t have to be boring or complicated. Here, a delicate swirl of hair in front adds just the right amount of flair, and it couldn’t be easier to do. Prep your hair with a styling product of your choice—Henningson likes to use a mousse on short hair. Section off a front portion of your hair for the swirl and curl it, leaving it out of the bun to frame your face. Alternatively, you can work it into the bun by twisting the piece into a small coil towards the nape of your neck, Henningson explains.

“Use bobby pins to secure the swirl in place. If your hair is short and some ends stick out, you can leave them loose for a slightly messy and playful look.”

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4. Chignon with Crown

Buns and chignons can be great wedding hairstyles for short hair, just keep in mind their size will depend on the length of your locks. The key to this hairstyle, according to Scalia, is creating a soft ponytail that will give the illusion of more volume. That, and some mousse if your hair is on the finer side. To create the crown, tease or curl pieces of hair at the top of the head (what Scalia calls the “horseshoe” section) to create texture as you tuck and pin them around the bun. Finish with hairspray.

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5. Wavy Bun

For this hairstyle, prep your strands with a product that will add shine and definition. (Scalia recommends Kérastase’s L’Huile Originale.) Before creating the bun, separate some sections of hair and curl them for a wavy texture. Then, pull it all into a ponytail and pin the ends in place to create the bun shape.

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6. Swirled Bun with Teased Top

If you want some lift on top but your hair is short, Scalia says you’ll need an extension piece and a volumizing blow out to achieve the style. Be sure to prep your hair with texture spray to help create additional volume. A leave-in conditioner will help give definition to the sections of hair used to create the swirl effect.

“Tease or backcomb the top part of the hair and make a base at the bottom of the nape,” he says. “With your extension(s), wrap around the ponytail and from there create the bun.” The swirl is created by taking two sections of hair from either side and crisscrossing them over the bun.

7. Short Updo with Hairpins

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The updo is one of the simplest wedding hairstyles for short hair—and you can probably do it yourself. “Using a soft finish hairspray, smooth and tuck the sides and back. Then, secure the ends with bobby pins,” Korab says. “Use decorative hair pins to enhance the look.”

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8. Looped Updo

To achieve this style, Korab advises using an oil or cream to help the hair loop through smoothly. She also finds it helpful to loop the hair through a bobby pin to guide it during the weaving process.

9. Wavy French Roll

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The secret to the waves in this French Roll is a large curling iron. After you’ve curled your hair, run a comb through to soften the ringlets into waves. To construct the hairstyle, Korab explains, “Comb the hair to one side, placing pins to hold it in place. Wrap the hair around your hand to create the roll and use large hair pins to secure it.”

10. Simple Chignon

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“Chignon” is just the French term to describe a bun. (It may bring to mind Brigitte Bardot.) Depending on the length of your hair, the bun can be high or low. To create the look, Korab advises prepping the hair with a soft-finish hairspray before combing it into a ponytail and securing the bun with hair pins.

11. Low Bun and a Delicate Hairpiece

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Take a page from Meghan Markle and accent a low bun with a delicate hairpiece. This can be a fascinator, hairpin, barrette, even the now-ubiquitous bow. Korab recommends using a hair donut to make the process even easier. Secure the bun with hair pins before adding your accessories.

12. Small Chignon with Floral Accent

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Korab’s secret to nailing the floral accent is to use an odd number of flowers and keep them to one side of the chignon. "Lightly spray the base of the flower with hairspray to create some tack,” she adds. Secure them with pins.

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13. Messy Bouffant with Loose Bun

A good bouffant is all about volume, and for that you’ll need texture spray and paste, Korab says. The first step is to create a messy bun (the hair donut comes in handy here as well), and then use the paste to piece out the ends for a messy-cool look.

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14. Tousled Chignon

The tousled chignon is one of several wedding hairstyles for short hair that works better on second day hair. To create the look, Bautista says to curl the hair, before setting it with a light to medium hold hairspray or texture spray. Gather it into a low ponytail, but instead of pulling the hair all the way through on the last pass, create a doughnut shape and let some of the curls hang loose. Pin the bun on both sides to hold.

15. Voluminous French Roll

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Anything French has us saying “oui, oui” and this updo is no exception. It’s got that inexplicable charm that makes it elusively chic. “To create this look, blow dry the hair smooth and tie into a low ponytail,” Bautista explains. If desired, you can use a 1.5-inch curling iron to loosely curl the ends. Then, twist the hair upward, tucking it against the head and securing with pins. "To set the French roll, spray with medium to strong hold hairspray.” Top with an accessory and you’re good to go.

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16. Volumized Waves with Low Loop

Here’s proof that something doesn’t have to be complicated for it to be good. With some volume spray, a curling iron and quick bun, you have a sophisticated wedding hairstyle that makes the most of locks at any length. Bautista advises applying a volumizing spray to your roots before blow drying to get maximum lift. Then, finish with a 1- to 1.5- inch curling iron to create the loose waves.

17. Sleek Low Bun

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If any of these wedding hairstyles for short hair are the definition of “low maintenance,” it’s the sleek low bun. “There’s nothing more beautiful than showing off the features of your face with a sleek, chic updo,” Staehle says.

18. Side Updo

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The secret to this romantically swoopy updo is to swirl the hair as you pin it up, Bures explains. Securing the style with hair pins will give it additional detail. “This works especially well for brides with chin-length hair,” she says.

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19. Boho Bun with Loose Ends

“This is the perfect ‘done but undone style’ for the bride who wants to appear effortlessly chic,” O’Connor says. To start, she asserts that it’s important to build texture and volume before pulling your hair into a bun. “Follow your eyeline to create a mid-height ponytail,” she advises. You want a billowing, loose ponytail. Secure the bun and then pull out pieces until you have your desired shape, then set with hairspray.

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20. Teased Updo with Hairpins

This updo is open for interpretation: make it a bun or a ponytail or a variation that suits your fancy. O’Connor recommends pearl or embellished hair accessories to elevate the look beyond the basic bobby pin.

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21. Chignon with Tendrils

Pulling out a few tendrils gives this classic chignon a playful, undone vibe. To create the look, O’Connor says a good base is important, especially if you want a sleek look. (Though, the above photo shows that tousled is also a solid choice.) If your hair is too short (it’s best if you have five inches of length or more), go for extensions. For shiny locks, apply hair oil before tying the hair in a ponytail at the nape of the neck.

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22. Messy Waves with Mini Buns

Whether you want one topknot, dual space buns or a cluster of baby buns, this wedding hairstyle is fun. Use a 1.5-inch curling iron to give your hair loose curls, leaving the ends straight. O’Connor recommends spraying the curls with wax spray for added texture and lift. Then, pin your bun(s) into place and accessorize to your liking.

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23. Bridal Bob with Barrettes

The bob is one of the wedding styles for short hair you can easily do yourself. According to Korab, all you need is heat protectant and a hot iron to add waves, plus your favorite hair pins. She loves the convenience of a hair waver, while we’d vote for the T3 Ceramic Curling Iron). For additional volume and texture, give your hair a spritz of texture spray before securing it with barrettes.

24. Vintage Bob with Deep Side Part

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If there’s one wedding hairstyle for short hair that will always remain a classic, it’s the vintage bob that brings Old Hollywood glamour. Take a page from Zendaya at the 2023 SAG awards and add a dramatic, deep side part. The key to obtaining the sensual “S” wave of the hair is, according to Bautista, a one-inch curling iron. Make sure to pin and set the curls in the same direction. After they’ve cooled, use a wide-tooth comb to brush them out gently.

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25. Fun and Flirty

If your directives are “fun and flirty,” try this unfussy style that’ll hold its own on the dance floor. Staehle styles this look by starting with a volume or texture spray and then using a beach waver or curling iron for an “I woke up like this” look.

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26. Tuck One Side

“Whether you wear it straight or curly, tucking one side brings a little drama to a short hairstyle,” Staehle says. Secure the tucked side of your hair with a decorative pin or fun twist to hold.

27. Blunt-Cut Bob

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While it seems like the shag is everywhere, you can never go wrong with the blunt-cut bob. Plus, you have plenty of styling options to choose from: blown out, sleek and shiny, curled, wavy, half-up, the list goes on.

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28. Twisted Half Updo

We love the sweet simplicity of a twisted half updo, which provides just the right balance of structure and flow. To achieve the look, Henningsen advises starting with dry hair and applying a texture spray or dry shampoo. Create a high ponytail with a section of hair from the crown of your head. Loop the hair through the ponytail for the twist effect and set with hairspray. (Her favorite is the Leonor Greyl Laque Souple.)

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29. Half-Up Wavy Lob

Wedding hairstyles for short hair can’t get much easier than this. If your hair is lob length, curl it with a large or medium barrel curing iron and give it a few spritzes of shine spray, Scalia says. Then, take two pieces of hair on either side of your head and pull them back into a half-up ponytail, creating a knot that’s secured by a pin.

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30. Twisted Shoulder-Length Half-Up with Balayage

We love a good half-ponytail, and this wedding hairstyle is a fun way to show off your balayage. Korab recommends prepping your hair with a serum to create a sleek, shiny look. “Take a diagonal back section on the side and loosely twist back and secure with a pin,” she explains. “Do the same on the other side. Loosely pull the twist out to create a relaxed look.”

31. Half-Up Bouffant with Tight Ringlets

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Retro wedding hairstyles for short hair are always sure to infuse timeless elegance into your bridal look. For the half-up bouffant, use a medium or large round brush to blow out your hair. Bautista uses rollers to set the sections and ensure the volume holds. She says that you can either back-comb and tease the hair or use a hair piece to create the bouffant. Then, use a curling iron with a small barrel to create tight ringlets throughout.

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32. Half-Updo with Side Tresses

When it comes to wedding hairstyles for short hair, it’s safe to say none are short on the Old Hollywood glam. O’Connor creates this look by blow drying hair that has been prepped with a mousse to ensure volume and hold. Use a one- or quarter- inch curling iron to add curls and then pull up half the hair, teasing the back and securing with hairspray. “Cover the teased hair with a strand to make sure everything looks smooth for your wedding photos,” O’Connor advises. “Finally, pull out your desired face-framing pieces and use your curling iron to redefine the hair.”

Braids

33. Tousled Side Braid

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This messy, lived-in look is great for a boho or woodland fairy wedding and is easy to style. Start by parting your hair and using a brush to smooth out the tangles. Then, choose the type of braid you want. Options include the Dutch braid, French braid, fishtail or the traditional three-strand.

“For a tousled look, a loose three-strand braid or a fishtail braid works well,” Henningson says. “Gently pull on the sections of the braid to loosen it and create a more voluminous and textured look.”

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34. Half Braid

Another good option for lob-length hair is this half braid. The trick, Scalia explains, is to create texture by prepping your hair with mousse, blowing it out and curling it.

“Don’t curl those ends, otherwise it will lose some of the length and the shape,” he cautions. Secure the half-braid with pins before combing out the strands. If your hair is dry, he recommends finishing with hair oil to give it more shine and polish.

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35. Relaxed Waves with a Dutch Braid

You don’t need extraordinarily long hair for this wedding hairstyle, even shoulder-length hair will do. “Start by adding a wave to the hair for texture,” Korab explains. “Next create the Dutch braid.” To finish the look, gently pull out a few strands for a more relaxed look.

How to Choose Your Wedding Hairstyle

When it comes to one of the most important days of your life, you want to make sure you choose a wedding hairstyle that will make the day seamless.

“When we help brides decide on a hairstyle, we consider the environment of the ceremony, whether it’s indoors or outdoors, and if it’s outside near the ocean air, inland where there’s less humidity or high on a hilltop where wind plays a factor,” Bures explains. “If it’s indoors, there’s more flexibility in the controlled environment for glam waves or a simple down-do, and there’s less worry about the waves falling, getting tangled or losing their shape early on.”

Millennials Aren’t Wearing Their Wedding Rings. Is That a Bad Thing?

Rachel Bowie — 2024-01-18T13:37:00-05:00

I’ll admit that my wedding ring wearing habits have changed since the pandemic. These days, I only wear mine for a handful hours at a time and only for certain events—when I go into the office (about once a week) or for dinner with a friend or date night with my spouse.

Maybe it’s the fact that I now largely work from home. Maybe it’s the fact that my engagement band has gotten just a tiny bit too snug, especially on humid days. But whatever the cause, when my parents—who are nearing 50 years of marriage—recently shared that they had to have their rings cut off their fingers to be resized, I felt the smallest bit of shame: Is it odd that I often don’t even have mine on?

I was also curious: Is my ringless habit indicative of a larger trend? Do other couples need a special occasion to parade their rings around town? Or are they wearing their bands 24/7, and I’m the weirdo?

And so, I polled 1,000 PureWow readers to find out. A whopping 65 percent (nearly 650 respondents, all married women) shared that their ring-wearing habits have been impacted by the pandemic, with many reporting that they’re wearing their rings based on occasion instead of setting-and-forgetting.

The reasons were varied, ranging from, “I don’t put any jewelry on when I work from home,” to, “it gets in the way of daily tasks like cooking, doing dishes and laundry,” which women are presumably doing more of now that they’re home more often. Another explanation seemed particularly of the moment: “Wearing my wedding ring is part of getting dressed. If I’m not getting dressed to go out, then I won’t put it on.”

PureWow readers aside, this trend is clearly becoming more mainstream among my millennial and gen x counterparts. Take Meghan Markle, who recently made headlines for bopping around the Invictus Games sans engagement ring. Beyoncé also chooses to go without. (As an alternative, she has the Roman numeral “IV” tattooed on her ring finger.) Even Gwen Stefani—who is happily married to Blake Shelton—recently appeared on Jimmy Kimmel and remarked that she accidentally left her wedding ring at home. Oops.

But is this shift away from wearing a ring bad? Does it make me any less married if I leave mine on my nightstand?

Elaine Swann, the founder of the Swann School of Protocol, says absolutely not. Today’s rings are more elaborate than what previous generations chose to wear, she maintains, which makes it harder to pair them with everyday attire or even justify sporting them ‘round the clock. “Folks are approaching life from a more casual perspective than previous generations,” she adds. “If a woman trades her wedding ring for a cocktail ring for a night out, no one thinks anything of it.”

There’s also no evidence that non-ring-wearers see their romantic commitments as any less secure. "A ring finger absent of a wedding band still symbolizes singleness; however, there are some nuances to consider,” Dr. Jacquie Del Rosario, a marriage coach, says. “It’s a red flag and an indication of trouble if a partner intentionally chooses not to wear their ring in public spaces, but as our virtual worlds increase and routines become more varied, what matters is that you consider the context of your decision to wear—or not to wear—your ring.”

In other words, it may be a problem if you take your ring off to go to a bar, but it’s probably fine if your husband takes his off for two days while working on a house painting project.

More than anything, Swann says it’s important not to make any assumptions. “Sure, people might get caught up in gossip at the sight of a ringless finger—certainly this happens for celebs—but in most cases, it isn’t cause for judgment or something unacceptable; it’s a reflection of a modern society and its flexibility.”

17 Wedding Suits for Women That Bring All the Glam and Confidence

Marissa Wu — 2024-01-11T09:00:00-05:00

The anti-bride called, and she said a wedding suit for women is totally groundbreaking. (Unlike florals for spring.) Yep. We are officially in the era of wearing pants at weddings—from the formal jumpsuit to the ladies’ tux. It’s easy to see why. Pants make you feel powerful. And styled well, a wedding suit can be just as—if not more—dazzling than any princess gown you could have dreamed up. Here, we’ve rounded up 17 wedding suits for women, including the Alexander McQueen Leaf Crepe Jacket and Pants (from $2,290) that evoke a certain Princess Kate, the very French Sandro Tweed Jacket and Trousers (from $580) and the stylist-fave LaPointe Sequined Crop Top and Trousers (from $1,990). We also sat down with luxury bridal stylist Maisie-Kate Keane to talk about how to wear a bridal tux, from tailoring to accessories, so that there’s absolutely no question about who’s wearing the pants.

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Meet the Expert

Maisie-Kate Keane is a luxury bridal stylist and seamstress based in New York. She has extensive training and experience in the fashion industry, holding a degree in fashion design from Limerick School of Art and Design and having trained as a couture pattern maker. Keane has collaborated with department stores, magazines and celebrities on design and styling projects.

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1. LaPointe Sequined Crop Top and Trousers

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It’s not a party without sequins or feathers, and this LaPointe ensemble brings all the sparkle and drama required for a wedding day. Given the volume of the sleeves, you’re better off skipping a jacket. This cream-colored number features a cropped top and low-rise pants with ephemeral ostrich feather embellishments that add shape to the slim-cut silhouette.

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2. Alexander McQueen Leaf Crepe Jacket and Pants

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Sure, we can’t all afford to look like Kate Middleton on a daily basis, but if you’re in the mood to splurge, a wedding is as good an excuse as any to do it. Turns out, Kate’s famed bridal gown designer, Alexander McQueen also makes stylish suits. We love the brand’s Leaf Crepe jacket with its asymmetric hem and useful side flap pockets. Pair it with the matching trousers and skip the blouse—the blazer stands on its own.

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3. Sandro Tweed Jacket and Trousers

Sandro

From the textured tweed to the beaded trims and functional pockets, there’s a lot to love in this wedding suit by cult French brand Sandro. The high-waist trousers feature patch pockets and flared legs with pleats that will pair well with your most comfortable heels. The blazer is on the fitted side, so don’t be afraid to play with a more voluminous blouse.

Buy the Jacket ($580)

Buy the Trousers ($395)

4. Cinq à Sept Khloe Blazer and Allen Shorts

Cinq à Sept is one of Keane’s favorite brands for a well-tailored wedding suit for women. The blazer takes the rather traditional tweed fabric and gives it a trendy twist, with frayed trims and ruched sleeves. Meanwhile, the bouclé shorts keep things flirty—perfect for a warm spring wedding. Finish the look with a silk or satin blouse or cami to change up the textures.

Buy the Blazer ($395)

Buy the Shorts ($225)

5. SuitShop Tuxedo

SuitShop

If you’re looking for a classic wedding suit for women, you can’t do better than a tux, the ultimate formalwear. SuitShop offers a relatively affordable, well-made option with an inclusive size range from US 00 to 28. It also provides petite and tall sizing. The smart tailoring, satin accents and shawl lapel make it a go-to pick for a courthouse wedding, elopement, gala and all of life’s formal occasions.

Buy It ($249)

6. J.Crew Helena Blazer and High-Rise Trousers

J.Crew

Maybe you have a summer wedding, but shorts aren’t on the docket. Enter: this linen option from J.Crew. The blazer is designed with a gently nipped waist, and the linen-blend fabric doesn’t wrinkle. Both the trousers and blazer have functional pockets, and the fabric is a more sustainable, plant-based material that provides just enough stretch.

Buy the Blazer ($198)

Buy the Pants ($148)

7. Alexander McQueen Cropped Jacket and Bootcut Trousers

Alexander McQueen

Talk about a wedding suit for women that’s a total showstopper. This blazer is a statement-maker all on its own—a cropped, boxy number with wide peak lapels. It even manages to squeeze in a slit pocket on the chest. Pair it with the designer’s ivory bootcut trousers, which have pockets and prim traveler’s creases. They’re simple, but that’s a good thing—they’ll let the blazer do the talking.

Buy the Jacket ($2,090)

Buy the Trousers ($990)

8. BOSS Jawana Blazer and Tezuki Pants

Buy the Blazer ($645; $419)

No buttons? No problem. This wedding suit is tied with a bow—literally. The self-tie is adjustable and closes the blazer like a wrap sweater, which creates lovely draping. Notched lapels and a pocket detail polish the look. Meanwhile, the high-waist, straight-leg pants have an elastic waist so that you look sharp but stay comfortable.

Buy the Pants ($348; $244)

9. J.Crew Devon Blazer and Sydney Pants

J.Crew

The double-breasted blazer is a classic wardrobe staple you’ll be wearing long after you say, “I do.” The nipped waist and notched lapels give it all the hallmarks of a timeless piece. Pair it with the brand’s Sydney pants, a cropped style with a wide-leg silhouette.

Buy the Blazer ($248)

Buy the Pants ($148)

10. Sézane Christie Jacket and Matheo Trousers

Sézane

The hip French brand Sézane, known for its sweater bar, also makes a sharp suit that expertly blends great tailoring with their signature flair. When it comes to putting together a wedding suit for women, our vote is on the Christie Jacket and Matheo Trousers. The slightly oversized, fully lined jacket is double-breasted with four tortoiseshell buttons, three pockets and buttoned cuffs. Meanwhile, the pants feature Italian pockets and broken pleats. Cool French girl, who?

Buy the Blazer ($225)

Buy the Pants ($175)

11. SuitShop Tan Suit

SuitShop

Not falling for stark white? SuitShop’s tan suit calls to mind milky coffee but is still creamy enough to evoke wedding vibes. It’s constructed using the brand’s eco-stretch fabric for comfort and breathability. There are four functional pockets (including an interior one where you can stash those vows), marbled buttons and a notched lapel. The mid-rise pants are ankle length with two-inch side slits and a split waist that make it easy to alter.

Buy It ($224)

12. Cinq à Sept Keegan Jacket and Jaycie Miniskirt

Cinq à Sept

We can’t get enough tweed, as evidenced by the fact that everyone seems to want a Chanel-inspired jacket. But let’s do away with tradition in favor of wispy fringe and fun patch pockets. The matching bouclé miniskirt has giant slant pockets and is a flirty alternative to pants.

Buy the Jacket ($395)

Buy the Skirt ($295)

13. Banana Republic Alyse Blazer and Norte Pants

Banana Republic

Given that last year was the year of the anti-bride, chucking white out the window is perfectly acceptable. Who says you can’t stand out in, say, a beautiful burgundy hue or emerald green instead? This velvet option from Banana Republic will have all eyes on you. The velvet is buttery and shiny, made from a blend of viscose and silk. Peak lapels, multiple functioning pockets, plus petite and tall options sweeten the deal. Whether you wear this at the rehearsal dinner, ceremony or reception, you’re sure to turn heads.

Buy the Blazer (~~$280~~; $120)

Buy the Pants (~~$180~~; $55)

14. Ungaro Cleo Jacket and Carolina Pants

Don’t feel like holding a bouquet? Try wearing it instead. Ungaro’s fun floral appliqué jacket has blooms running up the notched lapels. Meanwhile, the flared pants have floral lace insets on the cuffs.

Buy the Jacket ($795)

Buy the Pants ($595)

15. Balmain Double-Breasted Jacket and Shorts

Searching for a wedding suit for women with a nautical bent? We can’t help but ogle over Balmain’s double-breasted jacket and shorts. The gold button detailing makes an otherwise neutral outfit pop, and there are functional pockets galore.

Buy the Jacket ($2,590)

Buy the Shorts ($1,290)

16. Cinq à Sept Khloe Demin Blazer and Jeans

Don’t be fooled. White elevates anything, denim included. After all, who could ever resist the power of a good pair of white jeans? Not us. That’s why we’re crushing on this denim blazer and jeans from Cinq à Sept. The single-breasted blazer has three-quarter ruched sleeves and welt pockets, while the straight-cut jeans are stretchy. Lots of dancing and extra cake, here you come.

Buy the Blazer ($395)

Buy the Pants ($295)

17. HEYMIMISISTERS Oversized Blazer and Pants

HEYMIMISISTERS

From a homewear brand to purveyor of the three-piece, suit, HEYMIMISISTERS knows a thing or two about good tailoring, which shows in their bridal line. This oversized suit features a blazer with padded shoulders and notched lapels, while the high-rise palazzo pants add flair. The ensemble is balanced by the fitted vest, should you choose to wear it.

Buy the Blazer ($270)

Buy the Pants ($190)

Can I Wear a Suit as a Bride?

“A suit is a great solution if you are a bride who is playing with the idea of going the non-traditional route, whether that means wearing something vintage, colorful or donning a well-tailored suit,” Keane says. As we’ve seen with the anti-bride trend, the most important aspect of your big day is that it’s about you.

“Suits ooze confidence and personality when tailored and styled correctly,” she continues. “It’s such a statement to be able to wear something traditionally designed for a man and feel just as beautiful as any other bride on your wedding day.”

When shopping, Keane recommends going for padded shoulders, embellishments or embroidery associated with your nuptials to add a little personalization. She also notes that tailoring is of the utmost importance.

“Choose a tailor who has come with recommendations, one who listens to your needs and ultimately creates something you feel amazing in, while also allowing your personality to shine through,” she advises. “A great tailor will transform a suit into a piece of art within a few fittings.”

What Is the Best Fabric for a Wedding Suit?

The best fabric depends on your location and the time of year. “If you’re getting married in a tropical country or a warmer climate, you’re going to want to go for a breathable fabric that allows you to stay cool, such as linen or cotton,” Keane explains. “For colder climates or in a more formal event space, opt for a wool or silk-wool mix that will keep you warm and hold a more formal structure. You can always make the design more interesting by choosing a contrasting lapel, tuxedo stripe and buttons in a velvet, silk or a grosgrain.”

What Do Women Wear Under a Suit for a Wedding?

“Three-piece suits can sometimes feel too heavy and restricted,” Keane says. “It varies depending on the dress code, but my general guideline is to stick to a maximum of two tailored pieces. If you choose to wear a waistcoat/vest with pants, skip the jacket. Alternatively, if you decide on a single-breasted jacket paired with pants, go for something playful underneath, like a sheer shirt, an embellished cami or a cropped top with a feathered hem. If you love the look of a double-breasted jacket with pants, opt for a chic and minimalist approach and wear nothing underneath.”

What Are the Best Shoes and Accessories to Style with a Wedding Suit?

“I love a killer stiletto with a suit and a fun statement clutch,” Keane shares. “Something embroidered with a reference to the wedding location such as Olympia Le-Tan’s designs or an over-the-top embellished clutch will easily add some personality to your outfit.”

As for jewelry, Keane recommends avoiding drop earrings and sticking to studs and cluster to avoid competition with the collar. When styling your hair, try adding some metallic floral pins or a crystal headband.

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Everything You Need to Know About Wedding Dress Cleaning and Preservation

Emma Singer — 2023-12-24T06:00:00-05:00

Searches for ‘wedding gown preservation’ have gone up by 135 percent on Pinterest, according to the Pinterest x Zola 2023 Wedding Trends Report—and if you have recently tied the knot or plan to in the near future, you might be among the growing number of people who want to learn more about the service. Good news: We got the full scoop on wedding dress cleaning and preservation, including details on cost, timing and storage, so you can make an informed decision about the future of your dress.

Meet the Experts

What Is Wedding Dress Preservation? And How Does It Work?

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“Wedding gown preservation is a specialized process designed to clean, treat, and store a wedding dress to maintain its original beauty over an extended period,” explains D’Alessandro, adding that “the goal is to prevent yellowing, discoloration, and fabric deterioration, thus allowing brides to cherish and potentially pass down their gowns as heirlooms.” Per the experts, this involves thoroughly cleaning the dress, carefully inspecting it for stains and damages, and packaging it in a museum-quality preservation chest with acid-free tissue paper to protect it from environmental factors. “The preservation process takes about two weeks and brides must ensure it is stored properly in order to avoid any environmental damage,” says Ogunye. (But more on storage requirements later.)

Wedding Dress Preservation vs. Dry Cleaning: What’s the Difference?

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There are many factors that distinguish a wedding gown specialist from a dry cleaner. While both wedding gown preservation and dry cleaning involve cleaning garments, they serve different purposes. “Dry cleaning is a more general cleaning process, primarily focused on removing visible stains and dirt. A wedding gown preservation specialist, on the other hand, is more comprehensive, specializing in treatment aimed at preventing long-term damage and preserving the dress to its original condition for lasting memories,” says D’Alessandro.

All wedding gowns must be cleaned before they’re preserved, and if you’re wondering whether or not the cleaning alone is sufficient, Ogunye has some advice: “If you're planning on wearing your wedding dress in near-ish future (say for a second celebration or a vow renewal on your one-year anniversary) a simple cleaning is recommended for the time being. However, if you're hoping to have your gown's beauty last long-term so it can be passed down to a loved one, [the full preservation package] is the way to go.”

What Brides Should Know About Wedding Dress Preservation

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When to Preserve

Provided you’re not planning on wearing the dress again anytime soon, both experts tell us that it's wise to initiate the preservation process as soon as possible after the wedding. Per Ogunye, it’s a near certainty that there are some stains or contaminants on your dress after the celebration and D’Alessandro emphasizes that the longer those linger, the harder they are to remove. Still, D’Alessandro notes that it’s worth reaching out to a specialist even after an extended period of time. “As wedding gown specialists we have worked with gowns that are decades old and have had wonderful results,” she says. In other words, if a precious heirloom has come into your possession, it’s never too late to treat it right.

What It Costs

Wondering how much it will cost you to preserve your wedding gown for posterity? According to D’Alessandro, “the cost of wedding gown preservation can vary based on factors such as the gown's material, complexity, and the provider you choose, [but that] brides can expect to pay between $400 and $900 for professional preservation services, on average.” So yes, it’s an investment—and one that might make you flinch after having shelled out for a fancy dress and the wedding itself—but if you want that beautiful gown to last for years to come, preservation is well worth the cost.

Storage Tips

Both experts agree that, once preserved, the dress should be stored in a cool, dark, and dry place where temperature and humidity levels are relatively stable (i.e., under the bed or on a closet shelf is good, an attic or basement not so much). Additionally, D’Alessandro recommends that the preservation box be kept flat, and only covered by cloth if you like…[but never wrapped] in plastic, as the dress needs to breathe.

So can you take a peak whenever you want to walk down memory lane? D’Alessandro recommends that the dress only be unwrapped by a professional if it needs to be inspected or handled. “As part of our guarantee, when you or someone else would like to wear the gown again, we, or anyone in our association, will take the dress out of the preservation chest and press it at no additional cost,” she says. Ogunye, however, tells us that brides are welcome to remove the dress from the chest whenever they wish in order to avoid a permanent crease—but we’re guessing you don’t want to go too crazy with that, lest you undo the costly preservation work. Either way, your best bet is to consult the professional who provided the preservation services before you revisit your dress.

7 Tips to Remember When Meeting with Your Wedding Florist

Brianna Lapolla — 2023-12-15T08:00:00-05:00

Ever wish you had a fairy godmother to help you plan your wedding? Enter our new video series, Aide of Honor, dedicated to helping a young couple, Kaitlyn and Matt, navigate the planning process with ease. Created in partnership with Samsung, the series showcases how the new Samsung Galaxy S23 Ultra is the best way to immortalize wedding planning milestones and memories, as well as help you stay organized and make decisions along the way. Watch the full video on Kaitlyn’s floral appointment here.

Talk to anyone who’s had a wedding and they’ll tell you that the flowers were a surprise in more ways than one, from budget to availability. When you consider that it could cost you around $100 to send a bouquet to your friend for their birthday, the money piece kind of makes sense. But then you throw in other factors such as seasonality, number of guests and deadlines, and it’s a recipe for hidden disaster—that is, if you’re unprepared. Luckily, we got the scoop from two wedding florists who laid out everything you need to know ahead of your very first floral appointment. Here are their top tips for achieving your dream aesthetic.

1. Have Your Details Ready

Much like your dress, or hair and makeup, you likely already have a vision for what you want your wedding flowers to look like. Althea Wiles, owner and creative director of Rose of Sharon Floral Design Studio emphasizes the power of photos advising clients to bring several examples of bouquets and centerpieces they admire, noting what they like and dislike about each. “Words like ‘whimsical,’ ‘boho,’ and ‘classic’ can have different interpretations, so visual references will ensure that you and your florist are on the same page,” she says.

There are also a few helpful additions to have ready before your consultation. “Basic information about the venue, estimated guest count, and date are all important,” advises Rachel Cho, owner and creative director of Rachel Cho Floral Design. Details like a floor plan, on-site contact, and the timing of different events during the day will make the consultation more efficient with fewer costs and surprises down the road. If you haven’t yet chosen your venue, it may be best to hold off on the florals until you do.

2. Are My Desired Flowers In Season?

If you’ve always dreamed of an explosion of white peonies, but your wedding is set for October, it’s going to cost a pretty penny. “Choosing flowers that are out of season could inflate the cost of your flowers considerably,” says Cho. That doesn’t mean it’s impossible, but seasonal growing conditions and demand will make things a bit harder. When overall budget matters, it may be wise to stick to in-season flowers.

3. Leave Room for Creativity

“While it's crucial to be clear about what is most important to you—whether it’s color, style or a specific flower—it’s equally important to allow your florist room for creativity,” says Wiles. Embracing collaboration and being open to the florist’s suggestions could help cut down on costs if your original choice isn’t in season.

4. Use Your Phone to Take Notes

Sure, your Samsung Notes app is great. But you know what’s even better? Being able to annotate an actual photo. The Samsung Galaxy S23 Ultra comes with a S Pen so that you can quickly jot down reminders about flower names, colors and curations. We love this idea because it makes referencing your photos post-appointment that much easier.

5. Understand Your Vendor’s Deadlines

“We always do our very best to accommodate any last-minute changes, but there does come a point where those changes become much more difficult to achieve,” says Cho. For example, if special flowers need to be ordered, they likely need to be ordered at least a week in advance of your wedding day. “If you want an additional several items at the last minute, this could present a greater challenge, not to mention additional preventable costs if your vendor needs to source something at a higher price locally,” adds Cho.

6. Consider the Total Price, Including Decor and Set Up

Wedding flowers are often one of the more pricey elements of the big day, but it’s for good reason. “The entire process of designing, curating, delivering, setting up and creating your event takes a village, and there are considerable fees for labor that go along with the cost of flowers,” says Cho. “We often tell our NYC clients to expect to spend $75-$150 per guest on your floral budget.”

There are also costs you may not have thought of right off the bat, such as additional fees to break down the arrangements at the end of the night—overnight work comes at a premium, notes Cho.

7. Should I Tip?

When tips are expected everywhere from the coffee shop to the nail salon, it’s understandable to wonder if it applies to wedding flowers. The fact of the matter: some clients do, some clients don’t. Cho’s opinion? “While it’s not required, it’s a classy thing to do. Your vendors want nothing more than to make sure you have the most perfect day, and put their hearts and souls into making sure that happens.”

7 Tips to Avoid Any Wedding Day Hair and Makeup Regrets

Brianna Lapolla — 2023-12-13T08:00:00-05:00

You have a vision for the wedding dress, the venue and the flowers—now it’s time to tie it all together with the hair and makeup. Whether you’re someone who never leaves the house without a full beat and blowout, or you prefer an au naturale approach, your bridal look is all about being comfortable in your own skin. And no one knows how to deliver what you want better than the hair and makeup pros you select for your dream day. So, we caught up with everyone from master stylists to lead makeup artists on the best ways to achieve the vibe you’re going for, without any mishaps or regrets to speak of.

1. Start Your Research Early

Don’t leave your hair and makeup to the very last minute, because experts book up rather quickly, especially during busy wedding months. “Many of them are already booked up to a year in advance. If you wait until the last minute to book, you risk your first choice being unavailable,” says Ashley Nichole Gibson, owner and lead makeup artist at Paraposh.

2. Ask for Referrals

Gibson emphasizes that real-life referrals from friends and family make everything easier. It’s also just as important to hear what friends and family didn’t like about their experience, so you know what to watch out for. Don’t have a personal referral? Ask other industry professionals such as wedding planners, photographers and florists. “They know who their previous clients have liked working with and are aware of stylists that are experienced, well-respected, and reliable,” adds Gibson.

3. Schedule a Trial

This might seem fairly obvious, but it’s a must to ensure you feel comfortable with your team and that everything goes smoothly on your big day. However, what you may not know is that a bridal trial will cost you. “While this is generally not included in the price of your wedding day package, it’s a good time for you to ask questions about what products they use and why, and how well they listen to what you want,” says Gibson. If you can swing the extra cost, Becca Raziuddin, Director of Artist Education at Blo Blow Dry Bar advises to do a trial with more than one hair stylist or makeup artist so you’re not locked into the first one you book.

4. Take Photos!

If you do end up scheduling a trial, do not forget your phone. The Samsung Galaxy S23 Ultra is ideal for this experience because it comes with a 200MP camera, the highest resolution on a phone to date. This comes in handy when capturing hair details and testing how your makeup looks in different lighting. We recommend bringing a friend along to your appointment and putting them in charge of this task.

5. Stay True to You

It can be tempting to try something new from your Pinterest board, but Dawna Jarvis, master stylist and business strategist advises to stick with what feels like you. “Your wedding day isn’t the time for a complete style overhaul. Pick something that’s you, amped up a notch. You want to look in the mirror and still recognize yourself,” she says. That means, don’t wear your hair down if you typically wear it pulled back, and don’t try a heavily-contoured makeup look if you’re more of a BB cream and lip balm person.

6. Prep Is Paramount

Perhaps the easiest, but most important way to prep both hair and skin is to hydrate in the days, weeks and hours leading up to your wedding. “The more water you drink, the plumper your skin will look and the more hydrated your hair will be,” says Kenna Ehman, co-owner and master stylist at Kenna Kunijo. Hydration will make your makeup sit better and will give you a glow that no products can.

When it comes to hair, Jarvis emphasizes cleanliness. “Don’t show up with super dirty hair—it’s a nightmare to style. But too clean isn’t great either; it slips and slides all over the place,” she says. “Aim for that sweet spot where your hair is clean but still has some natural texture to it.” Treatments are also fair game, but Ehman advises against getting a haircut too close to your big day, “Your hair will look its best when it doesn’t have such a fresh, blunt end look. Instead, go in for a clear gloss, deep conditioning treatment and/or scalp treatment about three weeks before,” she says.

7. Touch-Ups Are Key

Your wedding day is a marathon, not a sprint, so planning for touch-ups between the “I do” and the party is a must. “The ceremony and reception are almost two separate events and you want your hair and makeup to look great for both,” notes Raziuddin. “Sometimes hair can fall and makeup can smear during the ceremony so having someone there for touch-ups is always advised,” she adds.

25 Formal Jumpsuits for Wedding Season That’ll Make You the Second-Best Dressed Person (After the Bride, of Course)

Marissa Wu — 2023-12-11T20:00:00-05:00

You got invited to a black-tie wedding, but you want to buck tradition and eschew the evening gown. Then, it’s time to find a formal jumpsuit for wedding season that will dazzle during cocktail hour. And you’d be surprised at all the options—from velvet (which is extremely popular right now) to jacquard, there are a plethora of designs in myriad fabrics and patterns to choose from. Here, we’ve rounded up 25 options so good, you won’t have second thoughts about not wearing a dress. A few of our favorites? The Lilly Pulitzer Kavia Jumpsuit ($218) that leans into the bow craze; Ieena for Mac Duggal Wide-Leg Jumpsuit ($398) that brings us straight to 1970 and lulus Classy Charisma Jumpsuit ($75) with its subtle, floral jacquard print. We also discuss formal jumpsuit do’s and don’ts with fashion stylists and wedding experts who offers tips on how to wear your new outfit so that you’re dressed to the nines.

The Top 10 Formal Jumpsuits at a Glance

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1. Lilly Pulitzer Kavia Jumpsuit

Lilly Pulitzer

Bows are everywhere right now, and we love how this jumpsuit has one that catches the eye immediately and adds texture to an otherwise monochromatic outfit. “This is so easy to style,” says PureWow associate SEO editor Marissa Wu. “I love that it has functioning pockets, and the bow is such a fun touch without feeling overwhelming.” The jumpsuit has an elastic back for extra comfort and adjustable straps. Note that the brand runs long, so expect to tailor the pant legs, Wu says. At 5’6’’, she still had several inches of fabric removed.

$218 at Lilly Pulitzer

2. JS Collection Crepe Jumpsuit

This wide-leg crepe jumpsuit has a sleek mesh neckline accented with an abstract bow, creating a prim and formal look. The material is stretchy, meaning you can get down on the dance floor, and the jumpsuit is lined. Do note that the brand runs large, and it’s advised to size down.

$198 at Nordstrom

3. Ieena for Mac Duggal Wide-Leg Jumpsuit

Time to bust out those disco moves with this dramatic, ‘70s-inspired jumpsuit. It’s available in five bold colors, including chartreuse, pink and royal blue. Don’t worry, it comes in black, too. The pleated satin will shine under the light and the extremely wide-leg cut will swish with every step. The plunging neckline and back only add to the glamour.

$398 at Nordstrom

4. lulus Fashion Agenda Jumpsuit

Pull on this burgundy velvet jumpsuit and it’s like you walked straight out of Hollywood’s Golden Age. With its plunging, heart-shaped neckline and wide-leg silhouette, we’re certain it’s something Marilyn Monroe would have worn and pulled off perfectly. Tip: Use a curling iron to style your hair in the icon’s signature curls (or try hot rollers) and swipe on a bold red lip to complete the look.

~~$68~~; $48 at Nordstrom

5. lulus Power of Love Jumpsuit

Hearts will flutter at the sight of this lulus jumpsuit, which features a—you guessed it—fluttering, V-neck tier that adds movement. A high, fitted waist flows into relaxed, wide leg pants. Other features we love: It’s stretchy (bring on that second piece of wedding cake) and it has no-slip strips so you can get down on the dance floor. It’s available in seven colors, including orange, magenta, emerald and navy.

$68 at lulus

6. Endless Rose Tweed Blazer Romper

It’s impossible to think of tweed and not call to mind Chanel. The fabric seems to be everywhere these days, and for good reason. It’s distinct, making a subtle, though remarkable statement—especially when it comes in the form of a sparkly, double-breasted romper. With its preppy lapels, button cuffs and sharp tailoring, it’s a high-fashion inspired look that will make you the second-best dressed (after the bride, of course).

$320 at Anthropologie

7. Lilly Pulitzer Rosalie Jumpsuit

Lilly Pulitzer

With a corset bust and heart-shaped neckline, this Lilly Pulitzer Rosalie jumpsuit was made for a princess. As with other Lilly Pulitzer designs, the pants run long and there’s an option to let out the hem for additional length. Expect to need hemming if you’re under 5’7’’. The jumpsuit is made from satin back crepe that drapes well against the body. A textured belt and soft bow round out the look.

$238 at Lilly Pulitzer

8. lulus Enchanting Touch Jumpsuit

OK, we’ll say it. This jumpsuit is sexy. From the low halter neckline to the royal blue velvet, it screams, “look at me!”. The bodice gives way to a flirty open-back, and the high waist, wide-leg pants will create movement as you walk. (Or strut.) The hem is ankle length, so don’t be afraid to complete the look with a pair of comfortable heels to add some height.

$72 at lulus

9. Hutch Faux-Feather Jumpsuit

With the rise of the anti-bride trend, the wedding suit is gaining traction. We’re head-over-heels for this Hutch Faux-Feather Jumpsuit, which has an embellished neckline that adds just the right amount of movement and texture to this monochrome look. The form-fitting silhouette has a high waist and tapered leg for a flattering cut. How’s that for bucking tradition?

~~$328~~; $262 at Anthropologie

10. Reformation Fiorella Jumpsuit

This statement-making jumpsuit from Reformation features a dreamy, drapey cowl neck and adjustable spaghetti straps that plunge into an open back. The fit is relaxed throughout, so pair it with a belt for a more defined shape or leave as is. The wide-leg pants are pleated, giving a little structure, and there are pockets.

$278 at Reformation

11. Audette Jayde Jumpsuit

A problem with monochrome outfits is that everything can run together...unless you do it right. The Audette Jayde jumpsuit is a prime example of monochromatic done right. The key: adding texture in the fabric, as seen in the pleats and cuff of the singular sleeve. We also love the extreme boot cut of the pants, which lend a retro vibe to the outfit.

$298 at Anthropologie

12. Kay Unger Indira Jumpsuit

Designer Kay Unger is known for her jumpsuits and this floral maxi, with its simple but elegant bateau neckline, is one for the books. The ruched bodice gives way to a sweeping skirt overlay that reveals sleek cigarette pants reminiscent of Audrey Hepburn’s signature style. And it’s true that this ensemble exudes grace and good taste, just like the starlet.

$378 at Nordstrom

13. lulus Unbelievable Energy Jumpsuit

Want to party like Daisy Jones and the Six? Totally possible in this feathery creation. No wonder the name of the design is “Unbelievable Energy.” But if the thought of feathers and sequins seems scratchy and stiff, think again. The jumpsuit is a stretchy mesh knit with a fitted bodice that will stay in place, even as you shimmy and shake on the dance floor. What are you waiting for? Pull out your tallest platform heels and get groovin’.

$94 at lulus

14. Elliatt Mira Jumpsuit

On the prowl for a formal jumpsuit for a wedding that feels like it could be a painting? This Elliatt Mira design fits the bill, evoking the sharp lines of Cubism (think Picasso before he distinctly became...Picasso). We love the fun pleating, bold lines and fluttery peplum cut that keeps things breezy.

$298 at Anthropologie

15. Zara Fluid Jumpsuit

Zara

This formal strapless jumpsuit will make you feel like a street style influencer. A diagonal fluttery top extends from the hip to the knee, providing shape, movement and most importantly—coverage. Because who wants to worry about how their pants look when they go for seconds at the buffet? There’s also an accompanying cape you can style in various ways: drape it backwards over the neck, loop it through your elbows like a stole or use it to tie your hair back. Creativity and self-expression are the name of the game here.

$60 at Zara

16. BCBGMAXAZRIA Ruffle Jumpsuit

Strut your stuff in this BCBGMAXAZRIA creation, which features an eye-catching tiered tulle skirt. The bonded bodice has a back cutout with a contrasting silver zipper. Underneath the skirt are cigarette pants that hit the ankle. Add some sky-high heels and you’re ready to walk the runway. (Or, you know, just down the aisle.)

$428 at Revolve

17. PerZeal Off-the-Shoulder Jumpsuit

Weddings can get pricey, fast—even as a guest. That’s why scoring a formal jumpsuit without forking over your left arm is a cause for celebration itself. This stylish off-the-shoulder design with a bat wing cape sleeve is a glorious $20. It comes in a dizzying 17 colors, including burgundy, black, pink, purple and blue. And it’s definitely something you can repurpose for other dressy occasions so it doesn’t gather dust in the back of your closet.

$20 at Amazon

18. House of Harlow 1960 Brianza Jumpsuit

We love crushed velvet because of its shimmery, patterned texture as seen in this House of Harlow 1960’s Brianza jumpsuit. The one-shoulder design creates a pleasing diagonal line, and ruched detailing in the bust adds extra dimension. It comes in just one color—navy blue—and has wide-leg pants that drape comfortably against your body.

$198 at Revolve

19. Lilly Pulitzer Zemira Jumpsuit

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You’re sure to draw eyes in this Lilly Pulitzer jumpsuit, whose hue is aptly named Amaryllis Red. Whether you opt for a sophisticated knot or classic bow, its self-tie belt cinches the waist. We also appreciate the gold chain straps, which lend the piece metallic flair. As with the other Lilly Pulitzer pieces, expect to have this hemmed.

$248 at Lilly Pulitzer

20. lulus Classy Charisma Jumpsuit

We’re big fans of jacquard because it’s a fun and subtle way to have patterns and texture on fabric while keeping the look monochrome. This lulus jumpsuit features a floral pattern on satin with a surplice neckline and darted bodice. Gathered shoulders and cuffed long sleeves add flair (and a little warmth). A self-tied sash accents the waistline. The jumpsuit is available in black and emerald.

$75 at lulus

21. H&M Dressy Jumpsuit

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It’s a blazer. It’s a suit. It’s a...smartly tailored jumpsuit. This dressy pick from H&M is a great pick for a formal wedding with the promise of a life after the party. Pointed lapels, shaping darts and button-accented cuffs will have you looking sharp. Not to mention the concealed front snap closure that keeps everything secure. And there are also so many pockets—five to be exact.

$75 at H&M

22. L’Idée Cinema Jumpsuit

L’Idée’s Cinema jumpsuit was made for the silver screen, so consider this your excuse to treat your wedding invite as a red-carpet event. The jumpsuit’s many show-stopping qualities include plisse fabric that adds texture and catches the light beautifully, while providing movement as you walk. There’s also a deep back cutout detail, high waist and fluid pants. The jumpsuit comes in seven fun, eye-caching colors, such as red, fern green, flamingo pink and sunset orange.

$395 at Revolve

23. Zara Pleated Jumpsuit

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Make no mistake. This is a formal jumpsuit that will fit the vibe of any dressy occasion, including weddings. But we also love that it’s more relaxed in shape, with its fluid collar creating more of a tunic top rather than something that’s overly structured. The waist is elastic, and the matching tonal belt plus the pleated wide legs provide an elevated touch that brings the jumpsuit from everyday wear to special occasion ready.

$80 at Zara

24. Chicyes Bodycon Jumpsuit

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Dress? Jumpsuit? Can’t decide? This bodycon option offers the best of both worlds: a form-fitting jumpsuit with a partial skirt that shows off your silhouette. The jumpsuit is available in eight colors with varying designs, ranging from asymmetric sleeves to rhinestone-embellished halters. The fabric is stretchy and smooth for a comfortable fit. Certain designs also include a large tonal belt and buckle for added visual interest.

From $36 at Amazon

25. Zara Lace Jumpsuit

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This formal jumpsuit will make you do a double take. The exterior is a beautiful lace pattern, layered on top of a matching liner that creates a deep V-neck in the front and back. A self-styled bow closes the high collar in a soft, delicate finish.

$129 at Zara

What to Consider When Shopping for a Formal Jumpsuit

When shopping for a formal jumpsuit, there are several things to keep in mind. First is the material. If you plan on tearing up the dance floor, a stretchy piece may be more comfortable than a jumpsuit that’s more fitted and structured. You’ll also want something secure, so if you’re going strapless, make sure there’s some grippy lining that will hold it up while you scream Taylor Swift lyrics under the disco lights.

Another thing to consider is the season. You’ll either want to invest in a nice coat or choose a long-sleeve jumpsuit. (Better yet, do both.) And because it’s formal wear, keep in mind that you may need to bring it to the tailor for adjustments. Just be sure to give yourself enough time leading up to the event to have the alterations made. Nothing’s worse than wondering if you’ll get your clothing back in time before the event.

Lastly, be considerate. If you’re entertaining a piece that feels extremely loud or may not fit the color palette of the wedding, run it by the bride before you buy it. That way, you don’t have to worry about upstaging anyone.

Can a Jumpsuit Be Formal?

Absolutely. Ha shares that jewelry and shoes are two other ways to really polish the look. Try statement earrings (bold or elegant) or embellished heels to bring the outfit to life. When it comes to the heels, Terranova advises choosing one with a tapered toe or going for a strappy sandal in warm weather.

Schuppler recommends styling the jumpsuit with faux fur, whether it’s a jacket or stole, and let it hang over your shoulders. “Add a structured embellished evening clutch or small handbag and finish your look with a metallic pump or strappy heel in silver or gold,” she advises. Terranova echoes the recommendation, adding that if the bag pulls in a coordinating detail from your jewelry or shoes, it will make the outfit pop.

“It’s ok to have fun with color and details like sparkles or bows,” she notes about accessories. “For a higher necklines you want to go with a bold earring, and pair an open neckline with a statement necklace or a necklace/earring set. Feel free to add a wrap or a beautiful jacket draped over your shoulders if needed for warmth.”

Is It OK to Wear a Jumpsuit to a Wedding?

Yes, it is OK to wear a jumpsuit to a wedding. Schuppler has observed that this outfit choice has gained popularity over the years. "This season, jumpsuits of all colors and styles are filling the stores and most of them are meant strictly for formal occasions,” she notes.

Terranova says that it’s important to keep in mind the formality, fabrication and fit. “For a formal wedding be sure to look for a quality fabric, a wider pant leg and details like a tailored tuxedo lapel or satin trim,” she advises. “Once you have your shoes, it is important to have the length of the pants tailored appropriately so that the fabric does not gather and drag at your feet, which can look messy.”

Can I Wear a Jumpsuit to a Black-Tie Wedding?

“As we’re all aware, wedding fashion norms and traditions have completely changed in recent years, embracing new styles for both brides and their guests,” Keane says. “Jumpsuits are a great way to allow wedding guests to make a bold statement while still looking as chic as any other guest. Whether you prefer for a well-tailored tuxedo jumpsuit with a contrasting silk lapel and power shoulder or opt for a jumpsuit with an elegant cape and deep V-neckline; the versatility of a jumpsuit can give you the added drama that’s often missing in a simple gown.”

Schuppler tells PureWow that black is the safest option, but you can also go for jewel tones, like sapphire, ruby and emerald. Also consider the fabric. Ha says that higher-quality materials like silk, satin and crepe are all great picks for formal occasions. Above all, good tailoring is key.

“Steer clear of busy prints and overly casual materials such as stretch jersey or lightweight cotton prone to creasing,” Keane advises. “Opt for fabrics such as silk chiffon for a summer wedding or silk velvet for winter and incorporate details such as bows, rhinestone trims and beautiful draping to ensure your jumpsuit is wedding-appropriate.”

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8 Tips for Wedding Dress Shopping That No One Tells You

Brianna Lapolla — 2023-12-08T12:00:21-05:00

You’ve likely thought about your dream wedding dress from the moment you got engaged (OK, let’s be real, way before that). While guests typically only see the finished product as it’s gliding down the aisle, a lot goes into selecting the final look. Aside from the standard tips like saving countless inspiration photos and poring over bridal lookbooks, there are a few expert-level considerations that make the whole process more seamless. We spoke to three bridal experts to demystify the wedding dress shopping experience and make finding the dress as stress-free (and dare we say, fun?) as humanely possible. Get your Samsung Notes app ready…

1. Do Your Research

If you’re like us, you already have a Pinterest board and Instagram folder for dress inspo. But when it comes to the shopping experience, Malinda Macari, owner and stylist, Your Dream Bridal advises picking two to three stores, max, that are in line with your budget and vibe. Julie Sabatino, professional bridal stylist and founder of The Stylish Bride adds, “You want to make sure that what they carry is a good fit for you in terms of sizes and price point. If the information isn’t readily available on their website, I suggest calling to find out. There is nothing worse than showing up to a wedding dress appointment and learning that there isn’t anything there that fits your needs.”

2. Be Open-Minded

Your aforementioned Pinterest board may be stacked with inspiration of exactly how you want your dress to look. But it’s important to try on a range of styles and shapes, even if you don’t initially think you’ll like them. “Wedding dresses are different from anything you’ve ever purchased before and you might be surprised at what you end up gravitating towards. I can’t tell you the number of times a bride has selected the exact thing she said she didn’t want,” says Sabatino.

It’s also important to consider the location of your ceremony when trying on dresses, because your original vision may not be practical. Certified Wedding & Event Planner Emily Coyne says, “If you’re getting married in the mountains, a lace dress is likely to attract leaves and sticks. Similarly, a long veil may prove challenging in a windy, outdoor setting. A fuller style with many layers can be too toasty for a hot summer ceremony.” Being open to other options will ensure you’re set up for success on the big day.

3. Honesty Is the Best Policy

Be honest about your budget, if/where you have shopped before, your favorite dress, whether you’ve already bought another dress, if you have more appointments or even that you have zero intention of buying a dress that day, notes Macari. In other words, nothing is off-limits. “Telling us that your budget is more than it really is, or saying you are unsure just because you want to try on dresses is a recipe for heartbreak. Falling in love with a dress over-budget isn’t fun for anyone” she adds.

It’s worth noting that you should also be honest with yourself about your total dress budget before beginning, which means the gown itself, fittings, veil, undergarments, shoes and accessories. “They’re often more expensive than you’d expect,” says Coyne.

4. Wear the Right Undergarments

“This is important for a few reasons. First, your own comfort. Your stylist will likely be helping you with the dress, so consider wearing something you don’t mind being seen in,” states Macari. “Second, opt for full-coverage underwear or boyshorts versus a thong. Fuller coverage styles are more sanitary and help dresses slide off and on more easily if you’re prone to nervous sweats.”

And when it comes to color and fabric, nude, seamless and high-waisted are the trifecta. “This will help to prevent any lines, bumps or grooves seen through a fitted dress or a dress that is too small,” she adds.

As for a strapless bra? Macari advises to leave it at home, because you won’t ever wear one with the dress (most have cups sewn in during the alteration phase). However, pasties are okay if you prefer to cover up a touch.

5. Use Photos to Your Advantage

After a while, all the dresses can start to blend together in your mind—it’s beneficial to take photos of them all so you can remember each. This is where the Samsung Galaxy S23 Ultra comes in handy. It comes with a 200MP camera, the highest resolution on a phone to date. This is key when photographing dresses in order to pick up on all the small details (lace, beading, buttons, etc.)

Sabatino’s pro tip: “Take [photos] from the same angle and position whenever possible. This makes it easier to compare looks when you move on to the next.” She also advises using a collage app to compare photos side-by-side. “This is an invaluable tool when comparing and contrasting what you like about each,” adds Sabatino. “You may be surprised by what is revealed.” (P.S. The Samsung Galaxy S23 Ultra has this feature built right in!)

6. Come Feeling Pretty

You may not have a clue about what you want for wedding hair and makeup at the time of your dress appointment. But coming a bit more made up than usual can help you visualize your dress. “Unless you know for sure you're wearing your hair down, put your hair up in a nice pony or bun. That way it's also easier to get dresses off and on without your hair getting in the way,” says Macari. She also advises wearing very light makeup and avoiding any foundation or concealer on the neck to keep the dresses clean.

7. Invite Three People, Tops

Scoring a seat at a bridal appointment is the ultimate honor, but if you’re the bride, make sure you don’t go overboard with the invitations. Lots of people equals lots of opinions about what looks best, and it can get overwhelming for the bride-to-be, who already has their own opinions and desires. “The best appointments are the ones where the most important top three people are there. That way, the opinions you get are of your closest and most trusted,” says Macari. Our tip: If anyone’s missing, you can always video call them in!

8. Consider Tweaks, But Keep Them to a Minimum

Once you find a dress you love, Coyne suggests asking how it will look bustled. “There is more than one way to bustle a gown, and each with a different look, so it’s advantageous to ask what all the options are,” she says. “It’s also completely okay to get the opinion of multiple tailors.”

Some tweaks, like bustling, are necessary. But Sabatino warns against going crazy. “Whenever possible, we advise our clients to select a dress that they love as it is. Minor tweaks here and there are fine, but don’t try to make too many changes. If you find yourself trying to redesign it, it probably means it’s not the one.”

These Are the 10 Best Honeymoon Destinations of 2024

Marissa Wu — 2023-11-29T09:00:00-05:00

You've got something old, something new, borrow and blue. (Or, hey, maybe you hopped on the anti-bride wedding trend.) Now, the real fun begins: planning your honeymoon. Where will you go? Backpack through Asia? Spend a week sunbathing in the Seychelles? Why not take advantage of this opportunity for a truly once-in-a-lifetime adventure? If you need a little more inspiration, Club Med analyzed search data to compile the 10 best honeymoon destinations of 2024. From Tunisia to Denmark, Jamaica to Portugal, these cities have raked in the most search volume and are unsung locales brimming with art, culture and wildlife that can’t be overlooked. So read on—and start packing.

1. Kingston, Jamaica

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Sitting at the top of the list is Kingston, the capital of Jamaica. Your first stop: the Bob Marley Museum, where you can see the legendary musician’s guitar and other artifacts. Then, weave your way through Coronation Market (guide recommended) to pick up souvenirs, fresh produce and a variety of crafts. Coffee afficionados will appreciate a tour of the Blue Mountains, while music lovers will want to head to the live music nights at Regency Bar and Lounge for everything from reggae to jazz. Lastly, be sure to stop and tour Life Yard, a Rastafarian community and urban farm filled with street art.

2. Reykjavik, Iceland

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If seeing the Northern Lights is on your bucket list, then a trip to Reykjavik is an absolute must. The best time for viewing is September to April, but if that timeline doesn’t fit your travel plans, worry not. Simply head to Perlan, a sprawling nature museum with a futuristic glass-domed restaurant and cocktail bar. Here, you can enjoy a Northern Lights show in 8k, plus a real indoor ice cave and 4k planetarium. Another can’t miss (literally) in the city? Hallgrimskirkja. The Lutheran church’s distinct spire towers over the city skyline and is the largest church in the country. Named after country’s most revered poet, Hallgrímur Pétursson, it also possesses Iceland’s largest organ. Head over for panoramic views of the city, mountains and ocean.

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3. Bridgetown, Barbados

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For those who fancy a Caribbean vacation, look no further than Bridgetown, Barbados. After you’ve finished sunbathing on Browne’s Beach and exploring Carlisle Bay, hop around town to discover the city’s rich history. First stop: the Barbados Museum and Historical Society. The UNESCO World Heritage Property is a former 19^th century military prison that now houses over 500,000 artifacts. Separately, there is the Garrison—a former British military base—which is currently the headquarters of the Barbados Defense Force. It is also a public recreation area and home to the Barbados Turf Club, which hosts the popular Gold Cup horse racing event every year. The last itinerary stop is Nidhe Synagogue and Museum, a pastel pink structure which also holds the title of one of the Western Hemisphere’s oldest synagogues. The grounds also include artists’ workshops and a café.

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4. The Algarve, Portugal

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The Algarve is the southernmost region of Portugal known for its dazzling beaches and golf courses. Here, you’ll find iconic whitewashed fishing villages perched on hillsides and sparkling crystal waters. The best part? Mild, sunny weather all year round—which means you can honeymoon here any time. The city of Faro is considered the region’s point of entry, and you’ll want to begin your tour at the Arco da Vila, a neoclassical arch that was part of an original Moorish wall. From here, you’ll be led down the old town’s cobbled streets. Stop in at the municipal museum, housed in an 16^th century convent, to see the busts of Roman emperors and a second-century mosaic, among other attractions. The 13^th-century Faro cathedral is also a can’t-miss example of Renaissance and Baroque architectural styles. To see more of the Algarve, head to the cosmopolitan outpost of Portimão and stop at Lagos, home of the Ponta da Piedade rock formations.

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5. Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

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This honeymoon destination has a reputation for glittering white sand beaches and clear blue waters—just the place to go windsurfing, kayaking, sailing and zip lining. The city’s famous Coconut Coast boasts a strip of luxe, all-inclusive resorts where relaxation is the only thing on the itinerary. You’ll want to take a trip out to Saona Island, 12 miles from the mainland. It’s the country’s most significant turtle-nesting site and incredibly popular visitors’ destination. Here, you’ll find towering coconut trees and pristine beaches, as the island is sparsely populated. Indigenous Eyes Ecological Park & Reserve is another locale you don’t want to miss. The 1,500-acre private nature reserve is a subtropical forest home to over 500 species of plants and 12 freshwater lagoons.

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6. Marbella, Spain

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If any place knows how to have a really good time, it’s Marbella. After all, it’s home to Puerto Banús, a luxury port known for its rollicking nightlife and mega-yachts. But don’t worry, there are still plenty of other things to do besides party every night away. Head back to the city’s Andalusian roots with a stroll through the 15^th-century Old Town. It’s rife with shops, cafes and restaurants. Start at Alameda Park and then be sure to hit the Dalí statue, town hall, Moorish walls and Marbella castle as you weave your way through the streets. The Iglesia De La Encarnación is another point of interest, as the 17^th-century church was built on top of a mosque, thus retaining those style elements in addition to its Renaissance and Baroque architecture. Early birds will like to start their mornings meandering down the promenade before the crowds arrive. Grab a coffee from one of the vendors and wander along the beach.

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7. St. Moritz, Switzerland

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St. Moritz is where the rich (and sometimes famous) go to play in the wintertime. And now, you can too. While you can visit in warmer months, it’s nearly a disservice not to visit in the winter, seeing as the town has hosted the winter Olympics twice. Aside from the usual cold-weather activities like skiing and ice skating, you must pay a visit to Badrutt’s Palace, a legendary hotel, if not to stay then at least to eat. The place to be is King’s Social House, where the dress code is dress to impress. And for an unforgettable spa experience, you’ll want to book yourselves into Ovaverva, which offers panoramic views of the Upper Engadine mountain in addition to beauty treatments, massages and saunas.

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8. Copenhagen, Denmark

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Say the words “European honeymoon” and Paris, London and Rome will instantly fly to mind. But how about Copenhagen? The Danish capital promises everything you love about the continent, but with its own flair. Start with Rosenborg Castle in the city center. Built in the 1600s as a summerhouse for Christian IV, it now houses the Danish treasury. Continue on to the National Museum of Denmark’s Copenhagen outpost, one of many across the country. Here, you can discover Denmark’s origins, from prehistory to the Vikings, Middle Ages and the Renaissance. As for that promised out-of-the-box experience, look no further than CopenHill, a heat and power waste-to-energy plant. The cool caveat: It’s also a recreation facility with some of the best views in the city. So if you fancy skiing, snowboarding, sledding, climbing and rappelling in an urban oasis, look no further.

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9. Djerba, Tunisia

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The defintion of “multicultural” is probably the island of Djerba in Tunisia. If you want a truly unique honeymoon, come explore its Mediterranean beaches and whitewashed desert towns, all strongly influenced by an amalgamation of Berber, Arab, Jewish and African cultures. Put these three towns on your itinerary: Houmt Souk, Borj el Kebir and Midoun. The first is the island’s main city, and Old Town is rife with vendors hawking hand-painted pottery, jewelry and carpets. Though if you’re a ceramics fanatic, the village of Guellala is really the place to be. It’s home to hundreds of potters known for their creations. You’ll also want to spend some time in the 16^th-century fishing village of Borj el Kebir—climb the ramparts for amazing views. Lastly, foodies will appreciate, Midoun, a market town known for its restaurants that serve a mixture of Spanish, French, Moroccan and Sudanese flavors.

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10. Paris, France

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Paris, the City of Love, is still a popular honeymoon destination—with good reason. The architecture is beautiful, the food is renowned and there’s never a dull moment, from the Louvre Museum to walking on the Seine and seeing a show at the Moulin Rouge. But if you want a local’s experience, you’re best off strolling the artsy neighborhood of Canal Saint Martin (with a stop for pastries at Du Pain et Des Idées) or the up-and-coming La Villette in the 19^th arrondissement.

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How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring, According to an Expert

Rachel Gulmi — 2023-10-06T09:00:00-05:00

Your Pinterest board is beautifully curated with your favorite engagement ring styles. You’ve tried on rings just for fun to see what looks best. You’ve secretly taken mental notes on every ring you’ve come across in your daily life. In short, you think you know exactly what you want. But let us tell you from experience, going through the process of buying said ring is a bit more involved than you’d think. Ahead, we’re offering up the five best tips on how to choose the one (the ring, silly), according to an expert.

Meet the Expert

Lisa Bridge is President and CEO of Ben Bridge Jeweler, a jewelry company with over 110 years of experience. As a fifth-generation leader, Ms. Bridge and her team of Personal Jewelers put an emphasis on bringing customers high-quality, responsibly sourced jewelry and exceptional personal service. Ben Bridge delivers expertise by having more Certified Gemologists than any other jeweler in the country, as well as many Registered Jewelers, so it should come as no surprise that they offer infinite customization and design abilities in their stores.

1. Set a Budget

First things first, and most importantly, come up with your budget. Before setting your budget, know that there are no hard and set rules about how much you need to spend on an engagement ring. It’s simply about what you can and feel comfortable paying (friendly reminder: no engagement ring is worth sinking yourself into debt). Your budget will also help narrow down the variety of ring options to choose from. Another important thing to decide is if you will pay in full right away or finance the ring. Hot tip: Head to your local Ben Bridge store to learn about their variety of financing options. Either way, your budget will be your guiding star through the buying process.

2. Nail Down the Style

As you already know, there are tons of engagement ring styles, from a timeless classic to cool and modern. When you’re determining the ring style, consider the type of jewelry you already wear (is it dainty or bold?), your lifestyle (are you very active with your hands?) and your fashion choices (casual or eccentric?). Answering these questions will immediately narrow down the styles that are the best option for you. And if you’re still feeling unsure, Ms. Bridge says, “Trust your instinct. Wait for a ring style to speak to you—you’ll know it when you see it. Ask yourself if it feels right and trust your answer.”

3. Choose a Diamond

The best part if you ask us. When picking a diamond, the first thing to decide is its shape. The most popular cut is a round diamond thanks to its brilliant sparkle, while princess and emerald cut diamonds offer a modern, symmetrical look. There are also pear-shaped diamonds for a more unique look or ovals, which give you a tad more surface area than the classic round. Once you’ve got your shape, consider the Four Cs: carat, cut, color and clarity.

4. Find the Perfect Ring

Now that you’ve chosen a diamond, you’ll need to find the setting. Here is where you’ll use all the information you gathered about your personal style. “If you are very active or use your hands at work, opt for a style that is set lower or perhaps utilizes a bezel setting that would protect and secure the diamond,” Ms. Bridge recommends. On the flip side, you can opt for a statement setting with accent diamonds or intricate details.

You’ll also want to consider all this information for deciding how the diamond is secured in the ring. For instance, a sturdier halo setting would be a better option than a prong setting for someone whose ring might take a beating. Then, move on to the metal type. The four most common choices are white gold, yellow gold, rose gold or platinum, which is the most durable metal. Choose your metal color to accent the color of the stone and don’t be afraid to mix and match.

Finally, move on to ring size. The best way to get sized properly is to go to a jeweler and have them do it for you. If that isn’t an option, Ben Bridge offers a handy printable ring sizer to help approximate the measurement. And if you don’t get the sizing right, most ring settings can easily be resized.

5. Purchase the Ring

After what feels like one thousand decisions, you’re ready to make it legal. A reminder at this stage: Don’t forget to get the ring insured. This is a major purchase, and you want to make sure you are protecting it properly. Lastly, Ms. Bridge says, “Remember this is your ring and should be expressive of you and your love. It’s okay if it doesn’t speak to everyone else, as long as it brings you joy.”

3 Unique Proposal Ideas Inspired by True Stories

Rachel Gulmi — 2023-10-05T12:52:57-05:00

Ah, wedding proposals. Instagram would have us believe it’s always the bigger, the better. But if proclaiming your love in front of thousands of strangers isn’t your cup of tea, don’t fret—there are plenty of thoughtful ways to propose to your future forever-person that don’t involve a Jumbotron. We’ve partnered with Ben Bridge Jeweler, a family-run jewelry company with over 110 years of experience, to share three tasteful and unique proposal ideas from our very own PureWow staffers, plus timeless jewelry options inspired by each.

The Real (Estate) Grand Gesture

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My boyfriend (now husband) and I had always dreamed of having a little mountain house one day. During Covid, we lucked out with both of us working remotely and mortgage rates being so incredibly low. We found our perfect ski house in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. When we closed on the house in February 2021, our realtor had a lovely basket of beers from local breweries as a “welcome home” gift waiting for us at the house. He hung around to help us enjoy them and as the evening approached, I noticed my boyfriend getting increasingly annoyed. I thought maybe he felt the realtor was overstaying his welcome and I decided he was being a grouch.

A few hours later after the realtor left, he told me to stand in front of the fireplace and he’d set up the camera so we could send a video to our families. I went to walk over and when I turned around, he was getting down on one knee with the ring in hand. After I said yes and we had FaceTimed our friends and family, he told me he had been planning to do it at sunset, but the beers and the realtor had other plans, which explains why he was getting so annoyed. One year later we got married, up in the mountains, of course. —Mary R.

The Perfect Impromptu Moment

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My now-husband and I met our senior year of high school so we had already been together for ten years (!!!) before getting engaged. We were never in a rush-rush but I was growing a little impatient and decided to broach the topic while we were dogsitting at my parents and laying poolside over Labor Day weekend.

The obsessive planner in me explained how he had to time it right because I didn’t want a long engagement (a year was ideal) and I really wanted to get married in the fall so depending on when he proposed would basically dictate when the wedding would be. He said he was waiting for the perfect moment and wanted it to be super special, and I told him I didn’t need a whole to-do and that I’d be happy if he did it right then and there.

He went inside to grab a drink and I sat on the steps of the pool dunking my legs in to cool off. When he came back outside, he came right up to me, kneeled down and attempted to open the ring box but was shaking so much, which is so unlike him. I was so confused and remember asking “What are you doing?” and he said, “You said you would be happy if I did it right here, so I am.” He was still shaky so I helped him open the box while I was in a state of total shock. I mean, I was literally still in the pool but it really couldn’t have been more perfect. — Rachel G.

The Magical Winter Wonderland

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Our engagement happened on one of the coldest days of the year—I think it was a low of 16 degrees outside. My husband’s plan was to propose to me at a park in his hometown that we often frequented over the course of our 8-year relationship (we met in college). However, knowing that a frigid day was in the forecast, he was smart and started planting the seed early.

See, his family was planning to move soon, so on the drive from NYC back to his childhood home, he started playing the nostalgia card. You know, “This will be one of the last times we’re back here,” spiel. So, when it came time for him to invite me to said park in the freezing weather (under the guise of walking the family dog), I of course felt badly and reluctantly agreed.

Although we had been together for ages, the engagement was a complete surprise. We had talked about it, but I really didn’t want to orchestrate it and after agreeing it was our next step, I tried to put it out of my head. So, when he paused mid-walk, turned around and got down on one knee in the middle of a snowy field, I was stunned. I don’t remember a thing that was said (other than an empathic “yes!”) and I think I was in a daze the whole way home...until I opened the door to see my whole family who had traveled to be with us for the celebration. I’m not typically an emotional person, but he really got me that day. — Angela P.

Raise Your Glass: The Champagne Diamond Is 2023’s Sparkliest Engagement Ring Trend

Marissa Wu — 2023-10-04T12:00:00-05:00

If this is the year of the anti-bride, then naturally, the next thing to fall by the wayside after “something blue” is the engagement ring. Specifically, the traditional diamond. While gemstones are popular (partially thanks to Princess Diana’s iconic stunner), the one stone jumping to the forefront this season is the champagne diamond.

According to Google Trends, search interest for this piece of jewelry hit its peak last January, and now jewelers are starting to see the effects. VENVS founder Haley Biemiller has seen an uptick in requests for the champagne diamond in custom designs as well as ready-to-wear this year, and with all the buzz over “quiet luxury,” it’s poised to fit right in. Here, Biemiller explains everything you need to know, including what differentiates the champagne diamond from clear diamonds and how to pair them with different metals.

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Haley Biemiller is the co-founder of the LGBTQ+ owned jewelry brand VENVS, which specializes in non-traditional unique jewelry for non-traditional couples. VENVS often works with innovative stones and settings, including gemstones and “imperfect” diamonds.

What Is a Champagne Diamond?

Warm, sparkling, bubbly. Like a glass of Moët & Chandon, a champagne diamond bears its name because of the resemblance to its refreshing (and sophisticated) counterpart. Biemiller says that diamonds with warmer tones fall into this category, including browns, reds, oranges and yes, that lukewarm champagne color. But don’t get them mixed up with the pure yellow diamond, which is intense and unmistakable in its shade. (The most dazzling example of the latter is probably the Tiffany Diamond.)

How Is a Champagne Diamond Formed?

Though this stone bears a name that suggests it’s a cut above the rest, it’s not so. In terms of formation, champagne diamonds are mined, too. Biemiller notes that in the mining process, diamonds are separated out by color. Champagne diamonds, like salt and pepper diamonds, aren’t clear enough to be sold as a more traditional diamond.

So, What’s So Special About Them?

Quiet luxury has been making the rounds thanks to the wild popularity of Succession. Defined by neutral tones, high quality and a price tag to match, the trend is all about keeping things on the downlow. Loud, flashy logos and designs need not apply.

“Champagne diamonds are a cool way to add a bit of color to your engagement ring while keeping it a bit neutral,” Biemiller notes. "Champagne diamonds are a more unique stone compared to the typical diamond you see frequently, while keeping those nice, muted, warm tones that are reflective of the colors you wear in your everyday life.”

Are Champagne Diamonds Less Expensive Than Regular Diamonds?

When shopping for a diamond, the 4Cs (cut, color, clarity, carat) of the stone will affect the pricing, and that remains true for the champagne diamond. Biemiller says that pricing is more or less the same as it is for clear diamonds. However, because it is darker in color, you can get away with a less expensive, lower-quality diamond (for example, one that has more inclusions), than you would with a clear diamond, because the coloring will hide the imperfections.

How to Pair Them with Skin Tones, Metals and Settings

While there’s no hard and fast rule that you must match your skin tone to your diamond, doing so can be a nice touch. As previously noted, the color of champagne diamonds can vary, ranging from orange with yellow undertones, to dark cognac, peachy pinks and rose.

“To match your skin tone [with a diamond] would be similar to how you would match a foundation,” Biemiller says. “Do you need a cooler hue that has maybe a little bit more yellow in it? Do you need something that’s rosier, leaning more towards that pinkish red side, or do you need something neutral, which I would say is kind of more along the lines of the brown.”

In terms of setting, Biemiller is a fan of the monochromatic palette and leans towards pairing this stone with gold. “If you're choosing [stones with] oranges and yellows, I would stick with yellow gold because it looks nicer together if you're choosing a stone more towards the warm side.” For diamonds with pink, brown and red undertones, she recommends rose gold.

The one thing Biemiller will steer away from is white gold with a champagne diamond because the former is a bit too cool, she believes, to complement the stone.

“It’s almost leaning towards blue, which I find looks best with clear diamonds or the dark salt and peppers that are almost like black or gray.”

However, she finishes by saying that, as with everything else concerning an engagement and a wedding, this is all personal preference. Dying for white gold and a rosier champagne diamond? Do it. Looking for a stone that contrasts your skin tone? Why not?

If you’re having trouble deciding, Biemiller says you can’t go wrong with a stone that leans towards a brownish-pink, which she says goes well with all skin tones. She also shares that the most popular stone shape is an oval cut with a halo, though solitaires have done well, too.

Hot Tip: Ditch the Vintage Look

One thing Biemiller has observed is that people shopping for the champagne diamond often believe it has to have a vintage setting. (Think Art Deco or Art Nouveau.) That’s because jewelers will frequently sell the diamond in antique- or vintage- style designs, but that doesn’t mean you have to go along with it, especially if you’re designing your own.

“[I tell] people if that is not their style setting-wise, but they still love the look of the champagne diamond, you can kind of go the opposite spectrum and do something modern and cool or even simple, just like a solitaire,” Biemiller says. "I just don't want people to get stuck thinking that they have to have that kind of ring to make their champagne diamond look good.”

67 Father-Daughter Songs That Just Might Start the Waterworks

Nakeisha Campbell — 2023-09-14T11:00:00-05:00

You've gone back and forth with your partner for the last couple of months deciding on the best song for your first dance and landed on something show-stopping. But, you're still at a loss for your special father-daughter number. Where to start...? Is dad a fan of smooth jazz or is he more of a country guy at heart?

From hip hop chart toppers like "Daughters" by Nas or "Mockingbird" by Eminem to classic rock jams like "Brown Eyed Girl" by Van Morrison or "She's A Rainbow" by the Rolling Stones, there's a little something for everyone on this list. Country. Blues. Pop. Jazz. Spotify is your oyster. (You can even see our dedicated playlist here.) Some of the 67 best father-daughter songs will have you shedding a tear or two, while others will have you putting on your dancing shoes, but all of them will make you want to run home and hug your dad.

1. “Father and Daughter” by Paul Simon

Release Year: 2006
Genre: rock, pop
Run Time: 4:11

Paul Simon’s soothing, velvety voice lends depth and a nostalgic quality to this simple tune about a father’s unabiding love.

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2. “Unforgettable” by Natalie Cole (ft. Nat King Cole)

Release Year: 1991
Genre: jazz, R&B
Run Time: 3:30

The silken voices of Natalie Cole and Nat King Cole make an unforgettable impression in this dreamy duet, which pays tribute to the father-daughter bond. It’s like a warm blanket and a glass of wine all rolled up into one song.

3. “Your Daddy Loves You (for Gia Louise)” by Gil Scott-Heron

Release Year: 1980
Genre: jazz, funk, soul
Run Time: 3:16

Stripped-down and honest, Gil Scott-Heron’s voice shines in this touching tune about the challenges of marriage and the strength of parental love.

4. “You Are the Sunshine of My Life” by Stevie Wonder

Release Year: 1972
Genre: R&B, soul
Run Time: 2:58

Stevie Wonder hits all the right notes (as always) when singing about the apple of his eye. Although the song was inspired by his wife at the time, the heartfelt lyrics fit the father-daughter theme just fine.

5. “Gracie” by Ben Folds

Release Year: 2005
Genre: alternative, indie
Run Time: 2:38

Maybe it’s the melodic piano or perhaps the tender and earnest singing—all we know is that Ben Folds brings us to tears with this open letter about a father’s love for his daughter.

6. “Winter” by Tori Amos

Release Year: 1992
Genre: piano rock, alternative, indie
Run Time: 5:42

Tori Amos conjures childhood memories whilst paying tribute to fatherly wisdom in this soft and dramatic tune.

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7. “I’ll Be Your Man” by Zac Brown Band

Release Year: 2015
Genre: country
Run Time: 5:48

The acoustic guitar and subtle country twang will lure you in, but brace yourself for the power ballad level of emotion when Brown sings the chorus: “I thought I knew love before you came into my life.”

8. “Isn’t She Lovely” by Stevie Wonder

Release Year: 1976
Genre: R&B, soul
Run Time: 6:34

Stevie Wonder wrote this song to express the awe and delight he felt upon the birth of his daughter, Aisha and, as you’d expect, this declaration of love has lots of soul.

9. “Daddy Could Swear, I Declare” by Gladys Knight & the Pips

Release Year: 1997
Genre: funk, soul
Run Time: 3:43

Gladys Knight, one of the R&B greats, paints a portrait of a charming and lovable man in this upbeat ode to daddy. Spoiler: This one will make you want to dance—great for getting more feet on the dance floor.

10. “You’re a Big Girl Now” by The Stylistics

Release Year: 1975
Genre: funk, soul
Run Time: 4:38

Turn up the Philly sound with this smooth track from the Stylistics, which is packed with all the sentiment you’d expect from a song about a father watching his little girl become a woman.

11. “You Are My Sunshine” by Johnny Cash

Release Year: 2003
Genre: country
Run Time: 3:16

“You Are My Sunshine” became popular 30 years prior to this recording, but Johnny Cash does the song justice like no other. The lyrics here suggest more of a romantic love—but when it comes to the chorus, you’d swear it was a father singing to his little girl.

12. “Daddy” by Beyonce

Release Year: 2003
Genre: R&B
Run Time: 4:58

Beyonce recounts fond childhood memories while singing the praises of her papa for the love he gives in this subdued, but poignant ballad. Bottomline: This lowkey listen hits all the right notes.

13. “September When It Comes” by Rosanne Cash ft. Johnny Cash

Release Year: 2003
Genre: country
Run Time: 3:40

Family and mortality are the subjects of “September When It Comes”—the last duet Rosanne Cash recorded with her legendary dad before his death. The result is a heart-wrenching and beautiful goodbye that will bring you to tears.

14. “Fathers & Daughters” by Michael Bolton

Release Year: 2015
Genre: pop/rock ballad
Run Time: 3:29

No one can belt out the sentimental stuff quite like Michael Bolton. Case in point: This moving ballad about a father-daughter relationship, which he wrote for the motion picture of the same name.

15. “Kind and Generous” by Natalie Merchant

Release Year: 1998
Genre: alternative, indie, pop
Run Time: 4:01

That’s right, one of Natalie Merchant’s biggest hits is in fact a heartfelt ‘thank you’ to her dad for the generous love he has given—and it’s hard not to sing the same tune.

16. “Lullaby (Goodnight, My Angel)” by Billy Joel

Release Year: 1993
Genre: pop rock
Run Time: 3:34

The ‘Piano Man’ memorializes his love for his daughter with this touching lullaby: “Someday we’ll all be gone / but lullabies go on and on / they never die / that’s how you / and I will be.”

17. “It’s for My Dad” by Nancy Sinatra

Release Year: 1998
Genre: vocal pop
Run Time: 3:30

There’s personality and poignancy in this cheeky and oh-so tender love song and—Nancy Sinatra’s characteristically seductive singing voice notwithstanding—there can be no confusion about who it’s for.

18. “Daddy Lessons” by Beyonce and The Chicks (2016)

Release Year: 2016
Genre: pop, folk, world & country
Run Time: 4:47

Beyonce goes back to her Houston roots with this song about a gun-toting, but tender father figure and the wisdom he passed onto his little girl. The end result is a rollicking ode to dad.

19. “Hero” by Mariah Carey

Release Year: 1993
Genre: pop ballad
Run Time: 4:17

This one is for all the dads who are heroes (and all the daughters who adore them)—just don’t try to sing it on karaoke night, unless you're up for a challenge! If you're looking for fun karaoke songs or something a bit easier, maybe skip the Mariah track and opt for something a little less vocal gymnastics.

20. “My Darling” by Wilco

Release Year: 1999
Genre: alternative rock, folk rock
Run Time: 3:38

A jangly, dream-like lullaby with indie-music appeal, loads of father-daughter tenderness and lyrics any dad can relate to: “Grow up now / Please don’t grow up too fast / And be sure / To make all the good times last.”

21. “I Will Walk with You” by John Fogerty

Release Year: 2004
Genre: rock, pop
Run Time: 3:02

A straightforward but powerful country ballad in which John Fogerty professes his undying love for his daughter, and vows to stand by her side through thick and thin.

22. “Wind Beneath My Wings” by Bette Midler

Release Year: 1988
Genre: pop ballad
Run Time: 4:53

Bette Midler belts out a heartfelt expression of gratitude for the loyal hero who made her who she is...and that can only be dad, right?

23. “Papa Don’t Preach” by Madonna

Release Year: 2009
Genre: electronic synth-pop
Run Time: 4:29

Alas, the story here doesn’t end with “you always taught me right from wrong.” File this one under difficult father-daughter talks.

24. “Daughter” by Loudon Wainwright III

Release Year: 2007
Genre: folk, country blues
Run Time: 3:32

An uplifting chord progression, a dose of wry humor and lots of fatherly love are on the menu in this sweet ditty about a dad’s role in his daughter’s life.

25. “Daddy’s Little Girl” by Michael Buble (2002)

Release Year: 2002
Genre: easy listening, traditional pop, jazz
Run Time: 3:44

The lyrics “You’re sugar, you’re spice, you’re everything nice,” might be lacking in originality, but Michael Bublé does score points for sentiment. Plus, he croons so beautifully here, you could mistake him for Bing Crosby.

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26. “Brown Eyed Girl” by Van Morrison

Release Year: 1967
Genre: rock, funk, soul
Run Time: 3:03

If you ignore the part about making love in the grass, this Van Morrison classic has all the hallmarks of a touching father-daughter tribute, including fond memories of running, skipping and playing together. (Yeah, we’re a little confused, too, but hey, it’s a great song!)

27. “First Man” by Camilla Cabello (2019)

Release Year: 2019
Genre: pop ballad
Run Time: 3:48

The pop star slows it down with a sentimental love song for her dad, complete with dramatic piano accompaniment and home video footage from her childhood.

28. “Sweet Pea” by Amos Lee

Release Year: 2006
Genre: folk rock, country rock
Run Time: 2:09

This little number about familial love boasts lots of Americana charm and an upbeat melody that will put a swing in your step.

29. “She’s a Rainbow” by The Rolling Stones

Release Year: 1969
Genre: psychedelic rock, classic rock
Run Time: 4:11

The subject here is up for interpretation, but we think this cheery psychedelic track can easily pass for a father’s celebration of his daughter’s beauty.

30. "Cécile, Ma Fille” by Claude Nougaro

Release Year: 2015
Genre: jazz
Run Time: 3:29

A beautiful chanson with a little swing to it, this French number is an ode to the love a (once-reluctant) father feels watching his daughter grow up—and it will make you swoon.

31. “Papa Can You Hear Me?” by Barbara Streisand

Release Year: 1983
Genre: vocal pop
Run Time: 3:30

Bring out the tissues, friends: Babs’ piece de resistance from her title role in Yentl is a powerful lament that will make you want to call your dad.

32. “When You Need Me” by Bruce Springsteen

Release Year: 1998
Genre: pop rock
Run Time: 2:54

When it comes to putting fatherly love into words, the Boss nails it: “If you miss me, I’ll be there / to brush the sunlight from your hair / I’ll be there to guide you when trouble walks beside you / If you need me, I’ll be there.”

33. “To Know Him Is to Love Him” by Amy Winehouse

Release Year: 2007
Genre: funk, soul, pop
Run Time: 2:24

Phil Spector was inspired by the words on his father’s tombstone when he wrote this love song; Amy Winehouse’s soulful rendition is gorgeous tearjerker.

34. “Papa Don’t Take No Mess” by James Brown

Release Year: 1991
Genre: funk, soul
Run Time: 4:23

James Brown touches on the flaws and strengths of his father with this funky and irreverent celebration of papas. The takeaway? “Papa got a whole lot-ta heart.”

35. “Mockingbird” by Eminem

Release Year: 2004
Genre: hip hop, rap
Run Time: 4:10

It’s no secret that Eminem has a soft spot for his daughter, but his devotion to fatherhood is really on display on this track, in which he raps a heart-wrenching and thoughtful missive to both his biological and adoptive daughters. Cue the waterworks.

36. “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra

Release Year: 2015
Genre: big band, swing, vocal
Run Time: 3:21

This one’s a go-to pick for the father-daughter dance at weddings, but the heartfelt sentiment will strike a chord on any occasion.

37. “Your Joy” by Chrisette Michele

Release Year: 2007
Genre: hip hop, funk, soul
Run Time: 4:32

The sparse acoustic guitar is an ideal accompaniment to Chrisette Michele’s soulful voice in this song, which explores both the changes in a father-daughter relationship. The one constant? “You’ll always be my father / and I’ll always be your joy.”

38. “God Only Knows” by The Beach Boys

Release Year: 2012
Genre: surf pop rock
Run Time: 2:55

Though the lyrics are simple, you’d be hard pressed to find a better expression of the devotion and love a father feels for his daughter—and the melody is pretty hard to beat, too.

39. “You’ve Got a Friend” by James Taylor

Release Year: 1976
Genre: pop rock
Run Time: 4:28

James Taylor gives voice to this sweet and sentimental number written by Carole King about unwavering friendship and support—you know, the kind a daughter gets from her dad.

40. “Sweet Child O’ Mine” by Guns N’ Roses

Release Year: 1987
Genre: hard rock
Run Time: 5:56

Axl may have written this about a girlfriend, but this track is ripe with expressions of love that fit the theme. Turn it on and rock out with your dad.

41. “Daddy’s Hands” by Holly Dunn

Release Year: 1991
Genre: folk, world & country
Run Time: 3:29

String instruments give an extra sentimental touch to this country song about the many ways in which a daddy’s hands work to give love, comfort and security to his daughter.

42. “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong

Release Year: 1968
Genre: jazz, blues
Run Time: 2:19

A wistful number full of quiet joy and fatherly musings: “I hear babies crying / I watch them grow / they’ll learn much more than I’ll ever know.”

43. “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

Release Year: 2001
Genre: folk, world & country
Run Time: 3:31

This cover from Hawaiian artist Israel Kamakawiwo’ole makes the melodic song from the Wizard of Oz sound like a lullaby sung by a father to his daughter.

44. “That’s How Strong My Love Is” by Otis Redding

Release Year: 1992
Genre: funk, soul, R&B
Run Time: 2:24

Per the usual, Otis Redding hits all the right notes with this song about boundless love. Father-daughter dance anyone?

45. “There Goes My Life” by Kenny Chesney

Release Year: 2004
Genre: country, folk
Run Time: 5:02

This song starts off with a man’s reluctance to embrace fatherhood. We’ll let Kenny tell you what happens next: “That mistake he thought he made / covers up the refrigerator / Oh yeah, he loves that little girl.”

46. “I Learned from You” by Miley Cyrus and Billy Ray Cyrus

Release Year: 2006
Genre: pop rock
Run Time: 3:23

This pop-country ballad duet covers the valuable lessons Miley learned from her father as well as said father’s struggle to let go.

47. “Daughters” by Nas

Release Year: 2012
Genre: hip hop
Run Time: 3:20

Father-daughter relationships can be fraught during the teen years, but the love is always there. Don’t take our word for it, though—just ask Nas.

48. “Wildflowers” by Tom Petty

Release Year: 1994
Genre: rock
Run Time: 3:10

Tom Petty’s Wildflowers album has some sexier songs, but the title track isn’t one of ‘em: Sweet, wistful and upbeat, this carefree ditty sounds like it was written by a doting dad for his daughter (even if it wasn’t).

49. “My Girl” by The Temptations

Release Year: 1965
Genre: funk, soul
Run Time: 2:45

A breezy, cheerful Motown classic that expresses the kind of tender love girl-dads feel on the regular.

50. “Ain’t That Love” by Ray Charles

Release Year: 1957
Genre: funk, soul
Run Time: 2:53

The inimitable Ray Charles describes with swing and soul the love and protective instinct every father feels for his daughter.

51. “Through the Years” by Kenny Rogers

Release Year: 1981
Genre: pop ballad
Run Time: 4:46

This sweet and sentimental ballad has a romantic vibe, but as an ode to enduring love it fits the bill.

52. “Dance with My Daughter” by Jason Blaine

Release Year: 2015
Genre: country
Run Time: 3:35

Get ready for a Canadian with a country twang to tug on your heartstrings with this number about wanting to cherish every moment with his daughter.

53. “There You’ll Be” by Faith Hill

Release Year: 2007
Genre: electronic, rock, pop
Run Time: 3:40

From the original soundtrack for Pearl Harbor comes this sweeping song about loss and the love that still remains.

54. “How Sweet It Is (to Be Loved by You)” by James Taylor

Release Year: 1976
Genre: soft rock
Run Time: 3:35

Another excellent option for a father-daughter dance, this uplifting song is all about ‘sweet love and devotion.’

55. “Coal Miner’s Daughter” by Loretta Lynn

Release Year: 1971
Genre: country
Run Time: 3:00

Here, a moving spoken-word account of a hard-working father who made sure his children were never wanting for love.

56. “Song for Dad” by Keith Urban

Release Year: 2002
Genre: country, rock, folk
Run Time: 3:56

In this song, Urban sings about his late dad's positive influence, noting that he sees a "little more of [his] father" in himself each day. It’s a great way to show your dad gratitude for his wisdom and guidance.

57. "The Best Day" by George Strait

Release Year: 2000
Genre: country
Run Time: 3:24

This feel-good tune tells a beautiful tale about a son’s relationship with his dad, but daughters will find this just as relatable. Strait sings, “Dad this could be the best day of my life / Been dreamin' day and night / About being like you / Just me and her / Watching you and mom I've learned / I'm the luckiest man alive.”

58. "Just the Two of Us" by Will Smith

Release Year: 1997
Genre: hip hop, electronic
Run Time: 5:15

In this heartfelt tribute to his son, Trey Smith, Will raps, “If the world attacks, and you slide off track / Remember one fact, I got your back.” The music video, which features images of proud fathers bonding with their kids, will also melt your heart.

59. "Daughters" by John Mayer

Release Year: 2003
Genre: rock, blues
Run Time: 3:57

This blues rock track is a call for all fathers to “be good to their daughters” while raising them, since it will impact their adult relationships. Not surprisingly, it earned Mayer a Grammy for Song of the Year.

60. “Dance with My Father” by Luther Vandross

Release Year: 2003
Genre: hip hop, funk, soul
Run Time: 4:26

Fair warning: This one’s a tearjerker, so you might want to keep some tissues nearby. Vandross wrote the song as a tribute to his late father, singing about his childhood and their most memorable moments together.

61. "Make You Feel My Love" by Bob Dylan

Release Year: 1997
Genre: rock, blues
Run Time: 3:31

This Dylan ballad speaks to the ache in a parent's heart when their child is going through something difficult and the lengths they would go to protect them and make it better, providing love and safety when everything seems bleak.

62. "My Girl" by The Mamas and the Papas

Release Year: 1967
Genre: pop rock, folk rock
Run Time: 3:33

Even though we've already included "My Girl" by The Temptations on this list, it would be a crime to not include The Mamas and the Papas cover of this song. It's groovy, twinkly and perfect for getting the crowd to bop along. If the ‘70s is more your speed, this song is the perfect marriage of dad's old-school taste and your timeless nostalgia.

63. "Forever Young" by Rod Stewart

Release Year: 1988
Genre: pop rock
Run Time: 4:08

Originally released by Bob Dylan in 1966, "Forever Young" was written as a lullaby for his son Jesse. It centers around a father who hopes his child will be resilient and happy despite the trials and tribulations that life throws at them. This Rod Stewart version is perfectly synth-y as any good ‘80s track would be.

64. "How Sweet It Is (to Be Loved by You)" by Marvin Gaye

Release Year: 1965
Genre: funk, soul, R&B
Run Time: 2:57

A Motown classic that's all about how comforting it is to be able to come back to your person. The one who will always be there for you no matter the struggles you're facing. Sounds like 'Dad' to us.

65. "Lean on Me" by Bill Withers

Release Year: 1972
Genre: funk, soul
Run Time: 4:18

If your dad's your rock and your go-to person for everything, "Lean On Me" makes so much sense. For obvious reasons.

66. "You're My Best Friend" by Queen

Release Year: 1975
Genre: pop rock
Run Time: 2:50

As we grow up, sometimes our parents become out best friends. Queen knows that all too well with this rock number.

67. "Child of Mine" by Carole King

Release Year: 1970
Genre: folk rock
Run Time: 4:02

We owe a lot of what we know to our parents, but we might see things differently as we get older. King's song is an ode to those growing pains and appreciating those differences. "Although you see the world/ Different than me/ Sometimes I can touch upon/ The wonders that you see/ And all the new colors/ And pictures you've designed," she sings.

If you'd like to take a peek at all the songs in one place, we've gathered them in a convenient Spotify playlist for easy listening. Now take that well deserved bow.

20 Fall Wedding Colors You’ll Want to Incorporate Into Your Color Scheme, Stat

Marissa Wu — 2023-08-17T10:00:00-05:00

You know the saying. “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” Well, today’s brides are bucking all tradition, and that very much includes color. While all shades of orange seem to be the trend, there are so many more that will add a zesty burst of color to your nuptials. Here, wedding industry experts share 20 fall wedding colors that are vibrant odes to the season. Say goodbye to something blue and “I do” to shades of lavender, burgundy and green.

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1. Rich Burgundy

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Goes with: dusty rose, charcoal gray, golden yellow

“Offering an aura of refinement, the convergence of rich burgundy and delicate, dusty rose transcends mere color to evoke that elevated, romantic feel that’s perfect for a fall wedding,” Engle shares. “This pairing takes deep, fervent reds drawn from dahlias and harmonizes them with the effortless, tender blushes that are inherent to anemones.” She predicts seeing burgundy hues used in floral arrangements and bridal bouquets, as well as backdrops and furniture. Expect dusty rose to be a dominant color in makeup (though we love a bold, burgundy lip), linens, bridesmaid dresses and other design accents like place settings. Not a fan of the monochromatic palette? Burgundy also pairs well with colors like charcoal gray and golden yellow.

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2. Deep Emerald

Goes with: peach, aubergine, ruby, ivory, beige, chartreuse

If you’re searching for something timeless, Butler says that you can’t go wrong with jewel tones—and deep emerald green will always be a winning color. It’s data-backed, too: according to Pinterest, searches for “emerald green and rust” are up 1,050 percent. From bridesmaid dresses to table linens and chargers, the color has the power to elevate even the simplest of details. “Depending on style and preference, emerald can be paired with a variety of shades of green such as celadon and chartreuse, or simply paired with white and ivory hues in a variety of fabrics, [like] velvet, for a simple yet elevated design,” she says.

3. Gray-Blue

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Goes with: ivory, tan, brown

Maybe bold colors aren’t to your taste. For those in that camp, Radomski recommends a soft gray-blue hue. It’s ideal for neutral lovers who want a hint of color. “The subtle shade pairs perfectly with a palette of ivory, tan and brown, adding just a touch of color and creating a scene reminiscent of a quaint and charming beach town.”

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4. Earthy Green

Goes with: ivory, mustard yellow, terracotta

Green is predicted to be an in-demand color this fall, and no wonder, with the woodland fairy wedding trend popular with Gen Z. And, according to Zola, the search for “sage green gifts” is up 31 percent. “Inspired by autumn ferns, the marriage of earthy green and pristine ivory resonates as a masterpiece of wedding design, akin to the artistry found within the natural world,” Engle says. “This composition [combines] deep, enigmatic greens with the purity of ivory and white for a sophisticated ambiance and timeless look.” She suggests incorporating these colors into your invitation suites, from calligraphy ink to parchment, as well as attire. Other suitable colors to pair with earthy green include mustard yellow and terracotta.

5. Plaid

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Goes with: any solid base color

While plaid isn’t a pattern that exactly screams “wedding,” hear us out. “We’ve noticed more plaid patterns adorning the tables at this season’s best gatherings,” Radomski reveals. “A preppy and sophisticated choice, plaid is a subtle way to introduce pattern and movement to your tablescape, especially when used with softer shades.” She recommends a light-green plaid for an easy transition from summer to fall.

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6. Terracotta

Goes with: desert sand, cactus green

Butler predicts that this fall will see an abundance of what she calls the “rustic desert” palette. That’s no surprise, given that burnt orange has all but replaced “something blue” and that the search for “terracotta men’s suits” are up 175 percent, per Pinterest. “This palette captures the essence of a certain landscape, and as more couples wed outdoors taking to southern destinations like Texas, it offers the ability to blend in with the natural scenery so that you, your guests and your love are the true focal points,” she says. “These subtle colors can be brought into bridal makeup, and muted cactus green makes for a soft linen that can draw the eye [to your menu]. We also expect to see terracotta decor and vases paired with desert sand accents for a neutral lover’s paradise.

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7. Ruby

Goes with: pink, blue, black, light grey

As Butler puts it, “jewel tones never go out of style.” Ruby (created by mixing red and black) is a deep, sultry color that shows the devil is truly in the details: stationery envelopes, bow ties, bridesmaid dresses, bouquets—even that daring swipe of a red lip. Pair it with the aforementioned emerald green, light grey, or pink if you prefer a monochrome color palette.

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8. Soft Pink

Goes with: deep blue, olive green, teal, gray

Engle loves the pairing of soft pink with a deep blue. "The union of deep blues and soft pink heralds a harmonious balance that’s tailor-made for wedding party attire,” she says. “These colors can inspire floral arrangements, whether voluminous like hydrangeas or simple and subtle, as well as wedding cake decorations and reception lighting.”

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9. Chocolate Brown

Goes with: olive, mustard yellow, soft ivory

“Brown is the new black,” Butler declares. “In fall weddings, we expect to see a take on earthy, chocolate brown.” She notes that interior designers will use the shade to create a cozy and inviting atmosphere that complements other neutral tones. Butler recommends pairing it with olive green, mustard yellow or soft ivory. “Inspired by the great outdoors and reflecting the warmth and beauty of the natural world, this palette is perfect for upleveling bridesmaid dresses and groomsmen attire, creating a pop on the dance floor, and adding a unique but simple touch with a stripe in a linen.”

10. Mustard Yellow

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Goes with: navy, cornflower blue, emerald green, mauve, light pink

Given the fact that mustard yellow pairs with five other colors on this list, it’s only fitting that it should have its own turn in the spotlight. It goes well with shades of blue, like navy or cornflower, or pinks—mauve and light pink are good picks. And yes, it even pairs with jewel tones for a deep, rich palette. From tableware and linens to flowers and accessories, there are many ways to weave this happy hue into your wedding color scheme.

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11. Dusty Rose

Goes with: burgundy, sage, juniper, emerald, ivory, navy

Engle paired dusty rose with burgundy, allowing the delicate shade to complement a more intense red. Should you wish to stray from a monochrome color scheme, try varying shades of green, which is a complementary color to pink—sage, juniper and emerald all come to mind. Choosing ivory will create a soft, delicate aura, while a color like navy will up the contrast.

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12. Lavender

Goes with: eucalyptus green, tangerine orange, bronze, cool white

You might be getting married in the fall, but you can still evoke the height of summer with a lavender color palette. While lavender can be paired with a variety of colors, like tangerine orange and cool white, Engle recommends eucalyptus green to bridge the seasons. “A delicate dance representing the transition into fall, this color spread offers the elegance of lavender incorporated as gentle purple into bridal makeup and bridesmaid dresses, as well as floral arrangements gracing the wedding arch, paired with the verdant charm of eucalyptus green for groomsmen attire, layered tablescapes and bridal bouquets to match the groom’s style. It's a tribute to the interconnectedness of nature's rhythms and the timeless celebration of love.”

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13. Desert Sand

Goes with: terracotta, cactus green

This neutral color was one of three in Butler’s “rustic desert” trifecta. A neutral with red undertones, it pairs well with her recommendations, terracotta and cactus green. Alternatively, try going monochrome with various shades of beige, or with dusty pastels for a soft, ethereal look.

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14. Deep Blue/Sapphire

Goes with: pale blue, pastel green, lemon yellow, light purple

Continuing the parade of jewel tones is sapphire blue—which, for any royal fans, we know has Princess Diana’s stamp of approval. Engle proffered this suggestion as the perfect pairing for dusty pink, but as a primary color, blue goes with pretty much anything. Pale blue, pastel green, lemon yellow, light purple...the combinations are endless. Because it can function as a neutral, feel free to let it be a main player in your design—backdrops, curtains, furniture—and accent with the lighter, brighter, bolder colors.

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15. Ivory

Goes with: red, orange, yellow, pink

Another versatile color on this list is ivory, which is already paired with five other suggestions. While those colors include cooler shades of emerald and gray-blue, it also goes exceptionally well with warmer hues in both saturated and dusty, pastel versions. Think details, like flowers, invitations, makeup, and accessories in reds, oranges, yellows and pinks.

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16. Gold

Goes with: burnt orange, dark blue, brown, mustard yellow

“Burnt orange and gold resonate as a reflection of the hues that grace espalier apples and pears, casting an embrace of autumnal warmth over your celebration,” Engle says. “Fall weddings often embrace the beauty of the bountiful season, and incorporating these natural hues into floral arrangements and decor can create a festive, abundant atmosphere that mimics the nostalgia of falling leaves and gentle shimmers of changing foliage.” Think about incorporating the color palette into your glassware for dazzling, sun-lit tablescapes.

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17. Copper

Goes with: white, pink, turquoise, black, blue, brown

According to Pinterest and Zola’s 2023 Wedding Trends Report, the search for copper groomsmen’s ties is up 30 percent. This color is warm and metallic with a rustic feel. Incorporate it into your reception tablescapes (swap out that silverware, maybe?), floral arrangements and paper goods. (What’s not to love about a rich, copper-colored ink?) And, of course, it’s great for accessories, from ties to shoes and headpieces.

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18. Olive Green

Goes with: chocolate brown, blue, gray, plum, blush pink, tan, rust

Butler recommends an olive green and chocolate brown pairing, but you don’t have to commit 100 percent to earthy tones. For a brighter color combo, try blush pink, tan or a lighter shade of blue. On the other hand, you can lean into the richness of rust or terracotta—two other favorites on this list.

19. Rust

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Goes with: muted blue, mustard, gray

Clearly, orange is a popular color this year, with many variations ranging from terracotta to burnt orange, and now rust. “Rust and other shades in the red family may not seem like the obvious choice for a wedding, [but] we’ve been seeing an increased demand for these statement colors,” Radomski shares. You don’t have to commit 100 percent, though. A little goes a long way. Case in point, this gorgeous floral tablecloth. “[It] achieves a look that is somehow both subtle and daring.”

20. Hot Pink

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Goes with: orange, black, yellow, cyan, cream

You can’t escape Barbiecore. And given that the Greta Gerwig-directed film has crossed the $1 billion mark, it’s not going anywhere anytime soon. Per Pinterest, the search for “hot pink wedding colors” is up 465 percent. “If you’re feeling very bold, we recommend pairing the already-punchy color with another bright hue, such as orange, to create a set-up that reflects the happiness of the occasion you’re celebrating,” Radomski says. From flowers to glassware and even the food, there are myriad ways to incorporate this color into your wedding.

This Is the Year of the Anti-Bride: Wedding Professionals Break Down 2023’s Latest Trend

Marissa Wu — 2023-07-28T12:00:00-05:00

Micro weddings. Eco-friendly wedding guest favors. Something rust, instead of blue. It seems that everywhere, couples are finding ways to break with tradition—lace, personalized favors and ten-tiered cakes that taste like cardboard begone. So, it’s no surprise that, according to Pinterest and Zola’s 2023 Wedding Trends Report, this is the year of the anti-bride wedding. From food trucks and CBD bars to holographic manicures and bowling after-parties, these ceremonies defy convention. That’s why we turned to a wedding planner, makeup artist, cake designer and weddings editor to break down the trend and exactly what you need to make it your own.

Meet the Experts

What Is the Anti-Bride Wedding Trend?

A quick search for “anti-bride” on Pinterest and you’ll find nary a garter in sight. Instead, it’s rife with ‘90s instant camera snaps (with blinding flash), soft-goth lug-sole boots, wedding pantsuits, cheeky cakes and tiny bouquets filled with unexpected blooms. In short, it’s unpredictable and hard to pin down.

“Think of this trend as the rebellious sibling of traditional weddings. She is sassy and has a kick-ass approach to celebrating love, where all the rules are thrown out the window like last year’s bouquet toss,” notes Gilleo. People are chucking cookie-cutter options in favor of decisions that feel more authentic to themselves. It’s about “saying goodbye to aspects of traditions that no longer mean anything to them, replacing them with details that symbolize and represent their union in a way that is unique,” Gray says.

So, what makes the “anti-bride” and “anti-wedding” so appealing? It’s the opportunity to break free from customs and be given the creativity to create something that reflects the couple’s personalities and values. “They’re trying less and less to conform to society or familial standards and do something that feels fresh,” says Butler.

Who Is It For?

“This trend is for everyone and allows for any detail to be personalized and 100 percent unique,” Drye says. “The anti-wedding trend encourages couples to plan the wedding they really want and not the wedding they think they should have.”

Butler observes that platforms like Pinterest and Instagram have saturated the conversation with trends and etiquette. And while we love a trend as much as anyone, they aren’t exactly the definition of timeless...or you.

“The anti-wedding sentiment is taking the reins and making your day supremely personal,” Butler shares. “We find most couples leaning toward this trend are a bit more modern than conventional. They often look for more of a celebratory party than the formalities of a wedding ceremony and reception. They may be a bit more daring when it comes to travel, fashion, art and culture.”

How to Plan an Anti-Bride Wedding

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1. The Timeline, Decor & Venue(s)

“Planning-wise (decor, venue, etc.), the hallmark is literally doing whatever the heck you want. No rules,” Drye declares. “Instead of a traditional reception, I’ve seen couples take their friends on a tasting train through Napa Valley. I’ve also seen couples who weren’t into music and dancing host another form of entertainment for their reception, such as a magic show, roller skating or bowling.”

Butler adds that couples are also getting unconventional with their timeline. Some will choose to get married earlier in the day, with a brunch reception to follow, while others have split the festivities over several days.

“We would encourage our couples to look outside of Pinterest and wedding blogs/publications,” she says. “[Ask yourself], ‘what do you do for fun on the weekends? Where do you like to travel?’ Then, insert a wedding into that—this will help you achieve clarity on the perfect ‘anti-wedding.’”

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2. Fashion

If you’ve typically balked at the idea of a wedding dress or have always dreamed that your wedding would also be a smaller version of Paris Fashion Week, the “anti-bride” camp is where you belong. Drye has observed that couples are gravitating toward looks that might not be associated with nuptials—whether that’s grabbing something off-the-rack or just an outfit they feel good in.

On the other hand, some of Butler’s clients have treated their wedding like a runway. “Multiple looks seem to be the norm—[including] bedazzled, floral prints, color, pant suits [and] blazers,” she says.

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3. Glam

As with everything else associated with the “anti-bride,” there’s no conventional makeup look to describe it. For Gilleo, it’s all about bringing out the person’s individuality and self-expression.

“It’s about letting your inner beauty and unicorn shine through and choosing a look that feels best for you,” she says. “Most of my clients want to go with a beautiful, natural, soft and timeless look, however, I’ve had a few clients also want vibrant and bold products that make heads turn faster than a bridezilla’s meltdown. We’ve had a few fun looks using glitter and glue on sparkles that could light up a disco ball."

The look isn’t complete without freshly manicured nails, and Gilleo says it’s time to ditch that French mani.

“I’ve seen many clients this year go fun and have funky nail art, from holographic designs to glitter and prints. Don’t be afraid to let your nails be the loudest party guests. The key to nailing the anti-wedding look is to stay true to yourself and have fun with it.”

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4. Cake

Is cake out? Depends. Butler has seen many clients ditch the traditional wedding tiers in favor of a favorite dessert (churros, anyone?) or skipping it entirely. Similarly, Gray has seen cupcakes, pies and mini cakes have their share of the spotlight. But don’t knock that seven-tier creation just quite yet.

“It is an art piece that the couple puts thought into and then gets to share it with all of their family and friends. It is literally breaking bread,” Gray says. “As a cake designer, I approach this by paying attention to the little details of my clients that make them unique and then taking their special connection into consideration when designing their cake. Everything from where the couple lives, to what kind of music they listen to influences the direction of their design.”

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5. The Plot Twist

The surprise wedding is one of Butler’s favorite micro trends to come out of the anti-wedding movement. But don’t panic: it’s not the stuff of those internet horror stories, where one of the partners is invited to a “fancy party” that turns out to be their own (undiscussed) nuptials.

“This is when you invite your family and friends to a party to celebrate your engagement. However, when they arrive, you surprise them by getting married before the celebration begins,” Butler says. “Because this type of ‘alternative wedding’ is a surprise to family and friends, it takes away the pressure that can come with traditional planning and allows everyone to focus on the surprise celebration.”

Here’s How Many People You Should Actually Invite to Your Wedding

Marissa Wu — 2023-07-21T12:00:00-05:00

So you’re getting ready to tie the knot, and it’s time to decide who to invite to the nuptials. According to Zola’s 2023 First Look Report, the average wedding consists of around 130 to 150 guests, but let’s face it: the list can get much longer, and fast. In fact, this might just be the most hot-button decision you’ll have to make throughout the whole planning process. Because yes, your pick of gown, venue and menu might raise a few eyebrows, but no decision ruffles feathers more than a seventh-cousin-twelve-times-removed feeling miffed about their lack of calligraphed invitation in the mail. If you’re wondering, “how many people should I invite to my wedding?” without burning bridges (and blowing your whole budget on catering), read on for tips from Emily Forrest, Zola’s head of communications.

Meet the Expert

Emily Forrest, is the head of communications at Zola, an online wedding registry, wedding planner and retailer. Forrest has been at the company for over seven years, where she oversees the marketing team, including corporate and consumer media relations, thought leadership, experiential activations and talent partnerships.

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What Type of Wedding Do You Want?

Elopement plans? Dreaming of a 500-person, multi-day celebration? According to Martha Stewart and The Knot, you can expect that each type of wedding will generally issue the following number of invitations:

However, Forrest notes that nowadays, couples are focused less on the “type” of wedding (whether that be an elopement or a classic affair) and are simply wanting to plan an event that reflects who they are. “Many weddings have unique elements or incorporate new traditions and personal touches. We see an evolution of keeping with traditional elements but also creatively showcasing the couple,” she shares. “At the end of the day, personalization [and authenticity are what it’s all about]. For many couples, their wedding is simply about sharing their love with each other and their guests.”

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What Is Your Budget?

Of course, money will always make the final call when it comes to decision making, so Forrest recommends that you think about this right from the get-go, even if it’s a bit of a killjoy.

“Setting a concise budget early on ensures that you know exactly what you can and can’t afford before deciding what you want. Couples should think about how they’re funding their wedding (for example personal savings or loans or help from family) and what event features they are prioritizing such as venues, entertainment or attire,” Forrest advises.

Zola’s data shows that on average, couples spend around $29,000 on their big day, but the figure fluctuates depending on geographical location. In New York, you can expect to spend about $43,000. Living in Idaho? That drops to $20,000. Zola’s findings also reveal that the things eating up most budgets are venues ($6,500 to $12,000), catering ($6,500 to $10,000) and entertainment, like live bands and DJs ($2,000 to $7,000).

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What Is the Capacity at Your Venue?

Costs aside, your venue priorities will also dictate your guests list. While hundreds may comfortably gather in a ballroom, a charming country estate may have room for only half of that. Ultimately, you’ll need to decide what you will prioritize: having absolutely everyone there or choosing the idyllic setting of your dreams. (Although yes, sometimes, the stars align.)

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How Many Guests Should You Expect to Come to Your Wedding?

Forrest shares that on average, a couple can expect that only 75 percent of their guests will attend the wedding. To ensure an accurate head count, you’ll want to request a RSVP that will give you enough lead time to plan with the caterer. Otherwise, you’ll be out a good chunk of money paying for a no-show or last-minute cancellation.

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How to Account for Kids and Plus Ones

Does every wedding guest get a plus one? The answer is, it’s up to you.

“If you want to and can afford to have children and plus ones added to your guest list, send out the invitations! However, if you cannot afford the extra seats or simply do not want to extend the invitation, you don’t have to,” Forrest says. Being on top of those RSVPs will give you an accurate picture of the cost. You can also use a wedding budget tool—some are free, like Zola’s.

While you do want your guests to have a good time, at the end of the day, this is your wedding, Forrest says, so you need to make decisions that will yield the event that you want, not what you think others will appreciate. That means understanding that extending plus-ones may require you to adjust your budget in other areas. Whatever you choose, though, don’t lose sight of what it’s all about. “Your wedding is about your love with your partner and sharing it with those around you, and that can include whoever you choose.”

The 13 Best NYC Wedding Dress Shops to Find the Gown of Your Dreams

Abby Hepworth — 2023-06-14T13:26:00-05:00

If there’s one thing New York has, it’s everything—anything you might imagine wanting or needing we can almost guarantee you’ll find it somewhere within the five boroughs. And that includes wedding dresses of all shapes, sizes, styles and price points. In fact, there are hundreds of NYC wedding dress shops spread throughout the city, all with their own unique collection of gowns and accessories for brides to try on. The downside to the vast array of options? Whittling the list down to only the best places to find exactly what you’re looking for. There are numerous designer showrooms if you have a specific and singular brand in mind, but for the bride who wants to sample from a wider range, these 13 salons are all incredibly highly reviewed and offer a selection of gowns you’re unlikely to find anywhere else. So what’re you waiting for? Let the fun of wedding dress shopping begin.

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1. Lovely Bride

Neighborhood: Tribeca
Designers Carried: Adriana Madrid, Alexandra Grecco, Louvienne, NEWHITE, Savin London, Vagabond and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $25 fee for all bridal appointments

According to PureWow’s senior food editor Katherine Gillen, this boutique truly lives up to its name. “Lovely Bride was intimate, welcoming, modern and not pushy at all—after a bad experience at my first bridal shop, it was exactly the type of store I needed to put me at ease about the experience (and I ended up getting my dress there!). They let me look through their whole selection and pick out things I liked, but also were available to provide suggestions based on my preferences. Whereas other places felt cold and sort of like you were being churned through a machine, the woman who helped me at Lovely Bride (and everyone else there honestly) was so encouraging and made me feel like I was among friends.” She did note that the style of dresses carried—which range from about $1,800 to $6,000—lean more toward a “cool bride’ aesthetic, as she put it, with flowy silhouettes, silky slips and boho gowns as opposed to traditional ballgown silhouettes.

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2. Mark Ingram Atelier

Neighborhood: Midtown
Designers Carried: Vera Wang, Elie Saab, Lela Rose, Ines Di Santo, Monique Lhuillier, Marchesa, Carolina Herrera, Naeem Khan, Mira Zwillinger and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $50 fee for changes or cancellations with less than 24 hours notice

This luxury boutique features gowns straight off the runway from top designers like Vera Wang and Monique Luhillier, all curated by founder Mark Ingram himself. The salon is known for its meticulous alterations team, and whichever seamstress pins you during fittings is actually the one to sew your dress, meaning they know first-hand exactly what notes or concerns you may have so nothing gets lost in translation. Prices start at about $5,000 and appointments are required. Hot tip: Be sure to book an appointment ASAP if you know they carry a designer or dress you like, as slots tend to fill up fast.

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3. Spina Bride

Neighborhood: Chelsea
Designers Carried: Liz Martinez, Lihi Hod, J Andreatta, Santos Costura, Francesca Miranda, Chana Marelus, A La Robe, Daalarna, Dan Jones, Samuelle Couture and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $75 fee for appointments cancelled or changed with less than 24 hours notice

This Chelsea boutique is perfect for the bride looking for something a little off the beaten path. It carries stunning designs from all over the world, all of which feel a little bit glam, a little bit boho and wonderfully unique. There are crystal-adorned sheer column gowns by Isreal-based Liz Martinez, embroidered lace stunners from Budapest-based Daalarna and sleek, elegant ’90s-inspired gowns by the French brand A La Robe. The bulk of Spina’s selection runs from about $3,000 to $7,000, but there are some higher priced options as well if you’re looking to splurge.

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4. Kleinfeld Bridal

Neighborhood: Flatiron
Designers Carried: Pnina Tornai, Pronovias, Maison Signore, Tony Ward, Randy Fenoli, Lazaro, Martina Liana, Disney Fairy Tale Weddings and more
Appointment Fee: no fee for Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Sunday appointments; there is a $100 fee for Saturday appointments; there is a $100 fee for all appointments cancelled with less than 48 hours notice

Fans of the TLC hit Say Yes to the Dress will be very familiar with this iconic NYC bridal salon, but you don’t need to be a reality TV star to book an appointment here. Kleinfeld boasts the largest luxury bridal retail space in the world with a huge range of designers and prices starting at about $2,000. Mary D’Alessio, audience development director at PureWow raved about her experience there. “From start to finish I had the best experience, I think in large part due to my consultant Krissy who I swear was just on the same wave length as me and really helped me figure out what I actually wanted. She made it so fun, never tried to upsell me on anything and really listened to what I wanted and helped guide me in the right direction. We were the last appointment of the day and I never felt like “hurry up we're closing up.” I must have tried on what felt like 40 dresses. The alterations department was beyond. You can tell they are experts and really fit my dress to my body, our specialist even gave my mom a tour of the back because my mother wasn't sure just how they would press the dress.”

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5. The One Bridal

Neighborhood: Sunset Park
Designers Carried: Chosen by Kyha, Flora Bridal, Harriette Gordon, NEWHITE, Cortana, Halfpenny London, Christie Nicole and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $40 fee for all bridal appointments

For the bride looking to avoid the muss and fuss of Manhattan bridal shops, The One Bridal is a wonderfully low-key salon with equally simple, elegant gowns to match. Prices range form about $1,500 to just under $10,000, and the brands offered include designers you won’t find at other NYC boutiques, like Halfpenny London and Lola Varma. Founder Sudhey Reyes actually started her career as a jewelry designer, so she and her team can both help you find your dream dess and figure out exactly what accessories to pair with it.

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6. Bridal Reflections

Neighborhood: Midtown and Long Island
Designers Carried: Galia Lahav, Pronovias, Allure, Little White Dress, Milla Nova, Kim Kassas and more
Appointment Fee: not listed

With 45 years of experience finding the ideal dress for each and every bride, Bridal Reflections definitely lives up to its stellar reputation. There are four locations—three on Long Island and one in Manhattan—and each carries a slightly different range of prices and designers, so be sure to call ahead to ensure they have the dresses you want at whichever location you book. For NYC, prices range from about $4,500 to $25,000, but for brides on a tighter budget the Massapequa location starts at about $1,700. Perhaps even better than the dress selection, however, is the impeccable on-site tailoring, which you can have done at whichever location is most convenient for you.

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7. BHLDN

Neighborhood: Upper East Side and Financial District
Designers Carried: BHLDN, Watters, Jenny Yoo, Tadashi Shoji, Mac Duggal, Wtoo by Watters, Savannah Miller and more
Appointment Fee: no fee

Anthropologie’s in-house bridal line, BHDLN (pronounced “beholden”), launched in 2011 and has since expanded to carry multiple other chic and affordable lines. Of course, all the gowns offered have that same cool, vintage vibe Anthro is known and loved for. BHLDN is a great place for both brides on a budget—gowns start at around $350 and run up to $3,000—and those working with a shorter timeline. There are two NYC locations, one on the UES and one all the way downtown, but they appear to carry mostly the same pieces, so feel free to choose whichever one is easiest to get to or has your preferred appointment time.

1230 3rd Avenue or 195 Broadway

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8. Wedding Atelier New York

Neighborhood: Flatiron
Designers Carried: Allison Webb, Lazaro, Martina Liana, Pronovias, Vera Wang, Netta Benshabu, Birenzweig, Peter Langer, Suzanne Neville and more
Appointment Fee: not listed

If you’re working with a crunched timeline, Wedding Atelier can ready an off-the-rack gown for you in just ten days, or custom-make one for you in just ten weeks. Prices range from about $3,000 to $12,000, but note that the more the team of expert seamstresses need to rush, the higher the additional cost. Of course, those with a longer lede are also likely to find exactly what they need with the salon’s varied selection of designers with every silhouette you can imagine, including plus sizes.

72 Madison Avenue, Floor 4

9. RK Bridal

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Neighborhood: Hell’s Kitchen
Designers Carried: Watters, Allure Bridal, Paloma Blanca, Justin Alexander, Enzoani, Casablanca and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $25 fee for all bridal appointments

There are miles of racks to shop at this 30,000-square foot atelier, including tons of plus-size gowns from designers like Allure Bridal and Maggie Soterro. Most of the dresses range form $800 to $5,000, but if you’re willing to buy straight off the rack you can score some great deals. And if you do happen to find your dream dress someplace else for a lower price, RK Bridal has a guarantee price match and will actually beat that price by five percent.

619 W 54th Street, Floor 5

10. Veka

Veka

Neighborhood: Boerum Hill
Designers Carried: Rembo Styling, Marylise, Besa, Carta Branca, Lakum, Tomomi Okubo, Palazzo and more
Appointment Fee: no fee

Fresh and playful designs are the name of the game at Veka, which also aims to work with brands that emphasize sustainability. For example, Tomomi Okubo uses eco fabrics and laces to craft its timeless silhouettes, while Carto Blanca exclusively uses silk to cut down on fabric waste. Prices range from approximately $1,700 to $5,000 and alternations can be done on-site by a team of experts.

412 Atlantic Avenue

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11. Lotus Bridal

Neighborhood: Midtown, Sheepshead Bay and Long Island
Designers Carried: Allure Bridals, Vera Wang, Zavana, Maggie Sottero, Badgley Mischaka, Enzoani, All Who Wander, Essense of Australia and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $50 fee for changes or cancellations with less than 24 hours notice

There are three Lotus Bridal locations you can visit, as well as a Bridal Rack showroom which sells sample gowns at a discount for anyone looking to score a deal. Each salon carries a separate selection of designers, so be sure to call ahead to determine which location will best serve your needs. There are some plus size gowns available, as well as a selection of ready-to-order gowns for anyone working with a shorter timeline. Prices range from about $1,300 to $9,000, and while scheduled appointments do take priority, walk-ins are also welcome at any of the four locations.

251 W 39th Street or 1822 Avenue U

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12. Designer Loft Bridal

Neighborhood: Midtown
Designers Carried: Rosa Clara, Yumi Katsura, Eddy K., Eliza Jane Howell, Pronovias, Matthew Cristopher and more
Appointment Fee: there is a $50 fee for changes or cancellations with less than 24 hours notice

Designer Loft Bridal carries a huge range of designers to fit a wide range of bridal styles. There are numerous plus-size designers, and there is a specific team dedicated to helping brides in need of more modest gowns find a dress that’s both beautiful and appropriate for an orthodox ceremony. Prices start at around $1,600 and you can have alterations done on-site. In addition to VIP in-person appointments, the salon also still offers virtual styling appointments for those who want to check out the options before making the trek into Midtown.

226 W 37th Street, Floor 2

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13. Glamour Closet

Neighborhood: Midtown
Designers Carried: Carolina Herrera, Rue De Seine, Lihi Hod, Louvienne, Hayley Paige and more
Appointment Fee: no fee and no appointment necessary

For the bride who loves thrifting, there are few places better for scoring a majorly discounted high-end gown than Glamour Closet. Seriously, couture and designer gowns are marked down up to 75 percent off with prices starting at just $600. Of course, because these are samples, the size range is limited with the vast majority being a bridal size 8 (however there are definitely other sizes available as well, just in smaller quantities). Because new pieces are coming in all the time, it’s hard to predict exactly which designers and styles will be available whenever you choose to visit (appointments are not necessary), but you can scroll the salon’s Instagram account to peep the styles previous Glamour Closet brides found and bought for their big days.

330 West 38th Street, #801

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29 Mini Wedding Dresses to Show Off Those Stems

Abby Hepworth — 2023-06-02T10:00:00-05:00

As a bride who’s currently planning a summer wedding, I have to admit the idea of wearing a full-length ballgown or heavy embellished sheath sounds less dreamy when I begin to factor in what an NYC summer typically feels like (i.e., incredibly hot and humid). Turns out, I am not the only bride-to-be considering showing off my legs and getting some much-needed breathing room in a mini wedding dress.

According to the experts at Karen Millen, searches for “mini wedding dress” and “mini bridal dress” have recently gone up 229 and 423 percent respectively, a ten-year high worldwide. The reason for the sudden uptick? Partial credit likely belongs to Sofia Richie and Kourtney Kardashian, both of whom opted for mini dresses for their recent high-profile nuptials. But they’re not the only celebs who’ve gone short—Lily Allen, Kiera Knightley, Audrey Hepburn, Raquel Welch, Whitney Port and Cindy Crawford all sported knee-baring minis for their ceremonies. Convinced yet? Read on for PureWow’s picks for the best mini wedding dresses for your stylish celebration.

The Top 5 Mini Wedding Dresses at a Glance

What Shoes Should I Wear with a Mini Wedding Dress?

Usually we’d recommend pairing flats with shorter hems to help keep your proportions in check. And you can absolute rock a chic bridal ballet flat if that’s your style. But for those who’d prefer to add some height, there are some heel styles we recommend over others. Pointed toes will help lengthen your legs, no matter the heel height, whereas thick ankle straps often cut off your leg in an awkward spot. If you do want a strap for added support, opt for something thin or try a heel with lots of straps or details (like bow adornments or draped chains) to add interest. When push comes to shove, the best wedding shoes are those that are comfortable and make you feel confident, so be sure to take yours for a test run before the big day.

What Kind of Veil Looks Best with a Mini Wedding Dress?

Did you know there are 11 different types of wedding veils? Yeah, that’s a lot of options. Truth be told, an extra-long veil, like a chapel or cathedral length, paired with a shorter hemline can look oddly disproportionate. If you want something that feels a bit more traditional, try an elbow length style. They were quite popular in the ‘60s, so if you’re also hoping to rock a Mod mini this is definitely a match made in heaven. Another option that nods to tradition is a chin- or shoulder-length blusher veil. But perhaps our favorite style to wear with a mini wedding dress is a birdcage veil. These structured net beauties were first popular in the ‘40s, and yet when worn with a sexy mini take on an edgier, more fashion-forward vibe.

How We Chose the Best Mini Wedding Dresses

The dresses on this list are all from retailers or brands PureWow editors have personally shopped and feel comfortable vouching for. As for the specific styles, those are a combination of fashion editor picks and best sellers, all of which have been vetted by reading through as many reviews as we could find.

1. Sachin & Babi Dorien One-Shoulder Dress with Train

The one-shoulder silhouette and accompanying train on the opposite hip combine to lengthen your figure in much the same way that a more traditional gown might, making this a gorgeous option for petites looking to add the illusion of height. Some reviewers under 5’3” mentioned having the train hemmed, but others say the length looks beautiful and is easy to pin up as you might a bustle for a reception or after party. Per one reviewer, “This cutie was perfect for my Vegas elopement! The material is beautiful and slightly textured. Color is definitely an off-white, almost ivory, and not a true white. The side train definitely makes a statement!”

Buy it ($398)

2. John Zack Lace Mini Dress

ASOS

Ideal for a garden reception, this lace mini is right out of our boho bridal dreams. The material is lightweight and breathable, and there is an adjustable tie at the waist to help cinch your middle or to tie in a decorative bow for an extra sweet detail. The deep V neckline is not bra-friendly, but boob tape can help secure your bosom in place so you can focus on what’s really important—breaking it down on the dance floor with your loved ones.

Buy it (~~$110;~~ $78)

3. Galvan Pandora Halter Dress

The asymmetrical neckline is what originally drew us to this satin mini, but it was the elegant sash as the back of the neck that truly sealed the deal. Ideal for the bride whose Pinterest board is full of minimalist ‘90s styles, this Galvan dress has just enough detail to take it from plain to effortlessly chic. Unfortunately, there are no reviews as of publishing, but the brand notes the material has very little, if any, stretch to it, so if you are between sizes you may want to opt for the larger.

Buy it ($1,150)

4. BCBG Max Azria Strapless Dress

Yes, the fit-and-flare silhouette is a major draw, but it’s the polka-dot tulle peeking out the bottom that really makes our hearts sing. The simplicity of this dress allows you to really play with accessories—a beaded belt, drop earrings, glitzy bangles—or you can lean into the minimalism with some simple sling-back heels and a neat bun. Reviews suggest this dress runs small, so be sure to double check the size chart before you add to cart, and consider sizing up if you’re between sizes.

Buy it ($378)

5. Watters Macaron Tulle Mini Dress

We’ve gotta say, Watters nailed it naming this elegantly sweet frock Macaron. It has a definite French-girl vibe that’s both supremely chic and whimsy. We adore the subtle polka-dot pattern, amplified by the addition of tiny pearls and sequins throughout. And the puffed sleeves can be worn up for a square neckline or pulled down for an off-the-shoulder silhouette. According to reviews, this dress does run a tad small and has little to no stretch, so keep that in mind when choosing your size. “I would say it runs true to size, but if you're larger than a B or C cup it'll probably be too tight around the chest area,” writes one reviewer. “It has a built-in corset-like top with padding.”

Buy it ($495)

6. Liv Foster Tuxedo Crepe Mini Dress

For the bride who wants something tailored but doesn’t love the idea of wearing an actual suit, this tuxedo-inspired mini is a gorgeous compromise. The single-button closure helps bring the eye in to cinch your waist without needing a belt, and the V neckline shows just enough skin to feel subtly sexy without exposing too much cleavage. Plus, the brand suggests that the thick crepe material is wrinkle-resistant, so you don’t have to worry about having to sit or stand just so to avoid looking rumpled.

Buy it ($245)

7. Reformation Zenni Dress

This chic little mini is giving us major ‘90s vibes, which you can play up with some square-toe sandals and a swept-back up-do. Of course, such a minimalist frock can also act as the perfect backdrop for a sparkly belt or bedazzled shrug if you want to zhuzh things up. A note on sizing: Reformation sometimes runs a bit small, so if you’re unsure of your best size you may want to go up one from your usual.

Buy it ($298)

8. Sau Lee Jayde Dress

Why choose between a feather hem and feather neckline when you can have both? These festive trims sandwich a gorgeous jacquard middle with a subtle floral pattern. Most reviewers suggest this stunner runs on the small side, so you may want to consider sizing up. “Absolutely gorgeous dress,” writes one shopper. “The material is really great quality, and the details are perfect. I am 5'11” and was worried about it being too short. It is a little on the short side, but very flattering and would work for many heights, I think.”

Buy it ($595)

9. Rasario Fringe Lace Mini Dress

If you loved Kourtney Kardashian’s Italian mini wedding dress but don’t want to sport actual lingerie down the aisle, this lace beauty is a fabulous option to consider. The bodice is slightly sheer, just enough to show off the boning construction, but the skirt is fully lined. We suggest investing in a nude, lace strapless bra to give your gals some extra coverage up top.

Buy it ($1,595)

10. Ronny Kobo Calin Mini Dress

This textured stunner may look like two pieces but is actually one gorgeous frock. The material is lightweight, so you can fluff up those sleeves as much as you like, and fully opaque—which is excellent news considering the plunging front and open back are not bra friendly. We say lean into the ‘80s vibes of this super-flattering silhouette and opt for vintage earrings and a slicked back up-do to complete your bridal look.

Buy it ($698)

11. The Bar Cleo Gown

For the bride who wants the look and feel of a more traditional gown, but still wants to show off her legs, this gorgeous tulle gown is a fabulous middle ground option. The top features a boned bodice, draped with tulle that continues well beyond the hem to graze the floor. There’s also a slit on one side to make walking a breeze. Reviews suggest this dress runs true to size, but the material also wrinkles easily, so be prepared with a steamer the morning of your wedding.

Buy it ($648)

12. Mac Duggal Daphne Tulle Mini Dress

This feather-adorned mini is incredibly fun and basically begging to be worn for an all-night dance party. It is a creamy, off-white hue, but that softer shade actually looks fabulous on a wider range of skin tones than bright white. We also love the cinched in waist to help you maintain your figure within all those tulle ruffles.

Buy it ($798)

13. Eloquii Floral Mini Dress

Eloquii

The intricate cutwork on this long-sleeve mini is not your typical romantic lace. Instead, it has more of a high-fashion edge we just can’t get enough of. Reviews suggest it runs fairly true to size, but note that the material has very little stretch, so if you are between sizes you may prefer to go up one. “A beautiful and well-made dress,” writes one bride. “The material is so expensive looking, the fit was perfect and there was so much attention to little details like the sticky elastic on the inside of the neckline to help secure the top.”

Buy it ($199)

14. Sachin & Babi Cameron Mini Dress

Yes, this long-sleeve mini looks wonderfully elegant from the front, but it’s the draped low back that really made us fall in love. And don’t worry, it’s not so low that you can’t still wear a regular bra. There’s also a sweet peek-a-boo moment repeating the lace trim from the hem. The material does have some stretch, so we suggest opting for your usual size.

Buy it ($495)

15. Norma Kamali Diana Mini Dress

This ruched one-shoulder mini is giving us major Grecian goddess vibes. The material is incredibly stretchy, and the draping effect is incredibly flattering on the body. There’s also a built-in bodysuit to help smooth your figure. One PureWow editor, who owns this dress in a different color, says, “It’s so incredibly comfortable and wow is it flattering, even after you’d been indulging on passed apps and Champagne all night.” Just note, the material is not fully opaque, and may appear sheer along the skirt.

Buy it ($195)

16. Reformation Liliwen Dress

Just because you’re opting for a short dress for your ceremony doesn’t mean you can’t also have an outfit change for the reception. This strapless mini makes it easy with the inclusion of a removable train that ties at the waist. There is also a smocked panel at the back of the bust to better accommodate variations in cup size. Oh, and did we mention it has pockets so you can stow your vows or extra tissues with ease?

Buy it ($428)

14. Retrofête Heather Mini Dress

Retrofête has been a cult-favorite brand to pick up party-ready frocks for some time now, but while plenty of brides have opted for its signature Gabrielle sequined wrap dress, we’re partial to this crystal-and-pearl strapless mini for a sparkly twist instead. We will admit, all that embellishment can feel heavy, so be sure the fit up top is snug enough that you feel secure. Otherwise, get ready to party—with all that stunning detailing, plus your bridal glow, you’re sure to shine like a disco ball no matter what you have planned for the evening.

Buy it ($1,295)

18. DB Studio 3D Lace Crepe Mini Dress

David’s Bridal

Simple but not too simple—that’s the vibe of this chic minidress. The delicate floral embellishments on the neckline and hip, combined with the elegantly draped fabric, makes this frock a real stunner. The straps are adjustable and the material does have some stretch to it for extra comfort.

Buy it (~~$120;~~ $90)

19. Elliatt April Dress

Between the mix of textures and colors, there’s a lot of love with this one-shoulder mini. The fabric has a jacquard look made up of pearl and pale pink swatches, and the tulle bow on the shoulder adds such an airy touch. We will note, the material has very little stretch, so if you’re between sizes you may be more comfortable ordering the larger.

Buy it ($224)

20. Eloquii Mini Dress with Puff-Sleeve Cape

Eloquii

Those puff sleeves and elegant train in back are in fact attached and can be removed when you want to transition from an airy statement dress to something sleek and minimalist. The curved neckline on the strapless mini is incredibly flattering and makes it easy to wear with just about any strapless bra. Reviews suggest the train may be quite long for petite frames but can be easily altered, and the cut of the dress itself is reportedly incredibly flattering and comfortable. “I bought this for my Vegas wedding and after the ceremony we walked through downtown and I got endless compliments on my dress,” raves one reviewer. “I never felt more beautiful in my entire life. This dress is a dream come true.”

Buy it ($159)

21. ASOS Curve Lila Satin Dress

ASOS

The draped neckline on this flirty mini is just too dreamy to pass up, and the fabric is wonderfully lightweight, making this a fabulous option for a hot-weather wedding (yes, even with long sleeves). Reviews suggest this dress runs large, so you may want to go down a size or plan for alternations for a better fit. One reviewer also suggests picking up some fashion tape to better secure the top in place, so you don’t have to futz with it all throughout the reception.

Buy it (~~$260;~~ $221)

22. Alessandra Rich Off-the-Shoulder Feather Dress

Debbie Jellinsky may have been the villain of Addams Family Values, but there’s no denying the woman had style. Embrace your inner Joan Cusack in this fun feathered mini with sleek long sleeves and a fitted bodice. Though it may be hard to tell through the voluminous trim, there are seams along the top that mimic a corset for a subtle-yet-chic touch. Net-a-Porter suggests this mini runs true to size, but that those with wider hips may prefer to go up one size.

Buy it ($2,005)

23. BHLDN Louise One-Shoulder Mini Dress

Who could’ve guessed that 3D rosettes a la Carrie Bradshaw would be making a comeback in 2023, and yet here we are. The oversize bloom on the shoulder of this ruched mini is quite the statement maker, so much so that we say you won’t even need a necklace or bold earrings to feel dolled up. The draping in the bodice is also incredibly flattering and does a spectacular job of masking any lumps or bumps along your torso.

Buy it ($650)

24. Sachin & Babi Alanna Embroidered Dress

For the bride on the hunt for a minimalist dress with just a little something extra, this strapless mini has stunning floral embroidery along the neckline that continues along to the back. It’s simple, but not too simple, and the fit-and-flare silhouette looks gorgeous on just about every body type. Reviews suggest it runs true to size, but if you’re unsure, we suggest using your bust measurement rather than your hips because of the flared skirt.

Buy it ($795)

25. Olivia Bottega Milana Sparkly Dress

Olivia Bottega

Hoping for some sparkle but not a fan of sequins and crystals? This shimmering fit-and-flare mini is incredibly flattering with a sweetheart neckline and straps that can be worn up or down to fit your style. The dress is made to order, so be sure to order far enough in advance to accommodate any alterations you may need (the website says production can take up to 11 weeks). Or, if you’d rather get ahead of alterations you anticipate, you can request a custom-sized dress just for you, which takes into account your bust, waist, hip, bicep, torso and cup sizes, as well as your desired skirt length.

Buy it ($639)

26. 16Arlington Michelle Feather-Trimmed Dress

We like to think of this dress as a sort of Wednesday Addams-meets-Studio 54 bridal vibe. The dramatic collar eliminates any need for a necklace, while the peek-a-boo detail prevents it from feeling too covered up. And those feather-trimmed flare sleeves? They’re simply too fun to not take for a spin on the dance floor. The brand suggests this frock runs a bit big, but you should also note that there is little to no stretch to the material. We suggest double checking the size guide to confirm which size is likely to fit you best.

Buy it ($1,250)

27. ASOS Feather Sequin Mini Dress

ASOS

We love this feather-inspired twist on a typical sequin mini, which also comes with an adjustable waist tie so you can cinch your waist or let loose. There is a triangular cutout at the back (great for improving breathability) that doesn’t go too low, so most regular bras should still work under this frock. ASOS dresses tend to run true to size.

Buy it (~~$280;~~ $224)

28. Majorelle Janey Mini Dress

We adore the fun and festive spirit of this ruffled mini. The low-cut V neckline and sheer back, while not bra friendly, add a sexy touch that prevents all those ruffles and polka dots from feeling a bit too twee. Reviewers say it runs true to size, however many note that the material was very wrinkled in transit, so we suggest steaming before you try it on to really get the full effect.

Buy it ($258)

29. Tadashi Shoji Sabine Mini Dress

Long sleeves and covered back help to balance the short hemline and deep V neckline on this ‘80s-inspired wedding dress. The twist detail at the waist is also incredibly flattering, drawing the eye in to create the illusion of a cinched in waist, no belt necessary. As you might imagine, a traditional bra won’t work with such a va-va-voom neckline, so be sure to pick up some fashion tape to ensure your gals are secure and comfortable.

Buy it ($425)

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Where to Buy Engagement Rings Online for a Piece They’ll Cherish Forever

Abby Hepworth — 2023-05-12T07:00:00-05:00

Who among us hasn’t enjoyed browsing all things sparkly and beautiful on the internet and daydreaming about gorgeous engagement rings? But when it actually comes time to buy one, the process can suddenly feel incredibly overwhelming. Where can I buy engagement rings online? How can I trust these brands are for real? Will it be shipping in super obvious packaging and ruin the surprise? Yeah, there’s a lot to consider. But don’t fret—we went ahead and talked to the experts to find out everything you need to know about buying such an important piece of jewelry online. Here’s their advice, plus 15 PureWow-approved places to shop for an engagement ring that’s sure to be a winner.

The Best Places to Buy Engagement Rings Online at a Glance

Best Lab-Grown Diamond Designs: VRAI
Greatest Range of Diamond Shapes: Brilliant Earth
Most Reachable Support Team: James Allen
Most Intimate Custom Design Experience: Ring Concierge
Provides an Easy At-Home Try-On Kit: Plum Diamonds
For Custom Designs: Simon G
For Non-Traditional Designs: Logan Hollowell
For a Modern Twist on the Classics: Mejuri
For Classic Designs on a Budget: AUrate
Widest Selection of Styles: Blue Nile
Longest Return Window: Clean Origin
For the Boho Minimalist: Catbird
For Those Unsure How to Begin: Frank Darling
For a Vintage Vibe: Sarah O.
For Modern, Unique Bands: Kimai

Meet the Experts:

Kristy Cullinane is the co-founder of Plum Diamonds, a jewelry brand that specializes in lab-grown diamonds. Cullinane has experience in all aspects of fine jewelry production from design to manufacturing and retail.

Nicole Wegman, founder and CEO of Ring Concierge, started the brand after personally going through the engagement ring shopping process and couldn’t find a brand or company that she connected with. Either too expensive or too impersonal, Wegman realized there was a void and need in the industry for a company like Ring Concierge. By strategically utilizing social media and successfully blurring the line between retailer and influencer, she has disrupted the historically close-knit, male-dominated diamond industry. She earned her B.S. from Cornell University in Fiber Science and Apparel Design and she is also an Accredited Jewelry Professional from GIA (Gemological Institute of America).

Mona Akhavi is the president of sustainable jewelry brand VRAI. She began her career in technology, earning a degree in mechanical engineering from the University of British Columbia, followed by an MBA from Simon Fraser University, before branching into the world of fine jewelry and lab-grown diamond production in 2018.

Lauren Whalley is a fashion editor at The Knot with focus on inclusivity and beauty, as well. She’s worked for various bridal publications for five-plus years, learning all there is to know about engagement ring trends and how to shop them.

Brooke Brinkman Ghanimian is the VP of Marketing and Communications at Simon G and has worked with the fine jewelry brand for more than a decade.

Kathryn Money is the Senior Vice President of Merchandising and Retail Expansion for Brilliant Earth, which specializes in ethically and sustainably sourced fine jewelry. She has more than a decade of experience in the field.

Logan Hollowell founded her namesake jewelry brand in 2014 with a focus on using ethically and sustainably sourced materials and has continued to explore new technologies in keeping with that core ethos.

How Can a Shopper Tell if an Online Jeweler Is Legitimate?

When it comes to jewelry shopping, if a deal seems too good to be true, it probably is. But even for legitimate-looking websites, you can sometimes be left feeling a little unsure. All our experts agree, the best piece of advice here is to do your research. “I love this question because the number of online jewelers seems to grow every day,” says Cullinane. “It can be very confusing for shoppers to know who to trust. When it comes to knowing if a company is legitimate, unfortunately, some sleuthing is required. Check reviews, but don't stop there. If a company has 10,000 five-star reviews all from the past month and zero social media presence, proceed with caution.”

Both Wegman and Akhavi also stress the importance of GIA certifications. “Diamond certification shows that the stone in question has gone through a grading process that considers the 4Cs and determines its value,” explains Akhavi, “whether lab-grown or mined.” According to Ghanimian, if a brand has brick-and-mortar locations, as opposed to being online only, that is also a good sign. Essentially, it all comes down to taking your time to dig around to learn what you can about a brand. “Look for strong online reviews that mention high quality products, excellent service, certified diamonds, and policies in place to give you comfort around your purchase such as free shipping, free returns and a 30-day guarantee,” advises Money.

What Are the Four Cs of Diamond Shopping?

You may have heard reference to the four Cs of diamonds, but what exactly are they and why are they so important? “Each gem is held to a set of standards for cut, color, clarity, and carat that interact to determine the overall rating and diamond quality,” explains Money. These four combined helps determine the quality or grade of the diamond, but as Money adds, there’s no “right answer” to how a diamond should look. When selecting an engagement ring, shoppers may choose to prioritize different C’s of the diamond based on what speaks to them.

Carat. Contrary to popular belief, carat refers to a diamond’s weight, not its size. “One carat is equivalent to 0.2 grams, and the larger the diamond, the more valuable and/or rarer it is,” says Ghanimian. However, two diamonds of the same weight can appear to be vastly different sizes depending on their shape. “For example, a 1.00 carat cushion diamond would look smaller than a 1.00 carat oval, since an oval is an elongated shape,” Wegman explains. “If you want to make your engagement ring look bigger, you can opt for certain diamond shapes that give the look of a bigger spread for their carat weight.”

Color. Color actually refers to the lack of color in a diamond, according to Akhavi. “Color is graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow or brown),” clarifies Ghanimian. “The highest quality diamonds are completely colorless, while lower quality diamonds may have a yellow or brownish tint.”

Clarity. Clarity is all about grading how clear a diamond appears and whether it has an inclusions, aka “naturally occurring ‘blemishes’ or imperfections in a diamond,” explainsAkhavi. “We recommend that shoppers prioritizecolor over clarity in nearly all cases,” says Cullinane, and Wegman agrees. The GIA grades for clarity under 10x magnification, which means any inclusions are likely going to be totally unnoticeable with the naked eye. Wegman recommends a clarity grade of VS1 to SI1 for the best value. “These will have few to no visible inclusions to the naked eye and will have no effect on the beauty or durability of your diamond. Working lower in clarity allows us to focus the budget on color and size—the two more aesthetically noticeable qualities.” That said, the shape of the diamond may end up shifting those priorities. “The exception is with emerald cuts, says Cullinane, “which require additional attention to clarity. Those long, “hall of mirrors” step-like facets allow you to see right into an emerald cut diamond.”

Cut. “Cut is often confused with a diamond’s shape, but actually refers to a diamond’s facets and determines its overall brilliance,” says Akhavi. Having a well-cut diamond will increase its overall sparkle and brilliance, making it perhaps the most important of the four Cs. That said, only round cut diamonds are currently graded for cut by the GIA—there are no universal standards for cut grade on diamond shapes that are not round. “If you have a non-round diamond that doesn’t have a cut grade, don’t sweat it,” stressed Culliane. “However, when shopping for a round diamond, cut grade is critical. Stick to Excellent and Ideal when possible (these grades are the same, just used by different labs).”

What’s the Best Way to Determine Your Correct Ring Size?

If you don’t know your ring size, your best bet is to head to a jeweler IRL to be measured. Some brands also offer sizing rings which can be shipped to your home for you to try on your own time. “It is best to keep in mind the thickness of the sizer being used versus the ring being ordered and to take into consideration any fluctuations in your fingers due to diet or weather change,” advises Hallowell. She also notes that the size of the gem may also be an important factor. “The larger the center stone, the tighter it may fit over the knuckle, so ultimately it’s still best to consult with a professional for a large investment such as an engagement ring.

However, in a pinch, Ghanimian suggests taking a strip of paper, wrapping it around your ring finger, marking where it overlaps and then measuring that distance in millimeters. The good news is that, unlike the insanity that women’s clothing sizing, ring sizes are standard across the board. “If you are a size 6 at one jeweler, you will likely be a size 6 at another, with only slight variations,” says Whalley.

What Should Shoppers Consider When Deciding Between Lab-Grown and Mined Diamonds?

“A common misconception is that lab-grown diamonds are fake diamonds, but this couldn’t be further than the truth,” Whalley clarifies. “Lab diamonds are physically and chemically identical to earth mined diamonds in every way, the only difference being that one is produced in a lab while the other comes from the earth. Mined and lab diamonds are indistinguishable to the human eye, meaning you won’t lose any of that gorgeous fire or sparkle. Mined diamonds, due to their nature, are also significantly more expensive while lab diamonds on the other hand, will cost you anywhere from 20 to 50 percent less.” There are, of course, many other factors involved in deciding between the two, so again our experts recommend doing some research and talking with a representative from the brand you’re interested in shopping.

How Much do Engagement Rings Cost?

There is no average cost for an engagement ring, which is great news for anyone looking to shop on a budget. “There are long-standing myths around how much you should spend on an engagement ring,” says Money. “The truth is, there are no rules that dictate the amount necessary to spend. Budget is entirely a personal choice, and there are many beautiful options available at all price points.”

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1. VRAI

Best Lab-Grown Diamond Designs

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown only
Return Policy: free within 30 days, loose VRAI diamonds free within 14 days, custom designs can be returned with a recycling fee

VRAI works exclusively with lab-grown diamonds and puts a great deal of effort into making its processes as sustainable and eco-friendly as possible, with tons of information on exactly where the brand’s stones are coming from, how much carbon they produce and what the environmental impact is from start to finish. For engagement or wedding rings, there are plenty of predesigned styles to choose from, but you can also design your own custom ring, choosing the setting and the specific stone from an online catalog. You can also schedule a complimentary personalized appointment (virtual or at one of the showroom locations) to talk through all the details with an expert who can answer any questions you may have. You’ll also earn a $100 credit towards your engagement ring purchase after your meetup.

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2. Brilliant Earth

Greatest Range of Diamond Shapes

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: Beyond Conflict Free-certified mined, lab-grown and recycled diamonds
Return Policy: free within 30 days, custom designs are subject to additional fees

Brilliant Earth has both predesigned styles and custom designs available to shop on its website. You can also choose between diamonds or more colorful gemstones as well as moissanite. Much like VRAI, Brilliant Earth also offers both virtual and in-person consultations to help ensure you wind up with exactly what you’re looking for. It also has a wider range of diamond shapes than many other brands, including top favorites like pear and round, but also Asscher and heart shape diamonds as well. As for gemstone options, Brilliant Earth does work with both lab-grown and recycled diamonds, but for mined diamonds it sells only Beyond Conflict Free-certified gemstones, which means the entire chain of production has been held to a high standard of ethics (learn more here).

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3. James Allen

Most Reachable Support Team

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown and conflict-free mined diamonds
Return Policy: free within 30 days, engraved pieces are subject to a $25 repolishing fee, special orders (not including online custom engagement ring designs) cannot be returned

James Allen sells both traditional engagement rings, as well as a collection of men’s engagement rings that are ready to order. You can also design your own ring from scratch using either lab-grown or conflict-free mined diamonds. Need some help getting started? James Allen’s support team is just a phone call away and can answer your questions by call or text 24/7. Oh, and you can also choose to have your ring, whether it’s custom or predesigned, engraved with up to 20 characters for free.

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4. Ring Concierge

Most Intimate Custom Design Experience

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: conflict-free mined and lab-grown diamonds
Return Policy: free within 14 days, all custom orders and pre-orders are final sale

Ring Concierge is all about making customers feel informed and comfortable, without losing the luxe vibes of shopping at a legacy jeweler. To that end, anyone looking to do a custom design is required to meet, either virtually or in person, with an expert consultant to discuss the specifics and to get intimate details on what stones are available, the best way to set them for maximum brilliance and to answer any and all questions you may have. That said, there are also predesigned rings you can shop, but the real joy of working with RC is the individual attention you get when you set out to create your own unique ring. (Just ask Olivia Culpo.)

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5. Plum Diamonds

Provides an Easy At-Home Try-On Kit

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown only
Return Policy: free within 30 days

Plum Diamonds works exclusively with lab-grown diamonds and sells both engagement rings and wedding bands. There are premade styles for you to choose from, or you can have some fun playing around with its custom ring designer to create something unique to your tastes. That includes truly one-of-a-kind designs you build from scratch, rather than pulling from readily available settings or bands. Plum Diamonds also has a ton of information on its website, on both the stones and engagement ring shopping in general, to help make the process easier for everyone. That includes a Find Your Diamond Kit that lets you try on different sizes and styles from the comfort of your very own home. Just pay a $100 deposit (it will be returned once you ship the kit back), keep it for five days to wear test your customized options, then ship it back all the more confident you know exactly how your final pick will look on your hand.

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6. Simon G

For Custom Designs

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: mined only
Return Policy: items can be returned within 14 days, personalized and custom items are final sale

Simon G handles online orders a bit differently from other retailers. If you find something you love online, you can add the setting to cart and after you’ve placed your order a Simon G expert will be in touch to discuss the center stone and any small tweaks you may want to make in order to get the ring of your dreams. You can also design your own custom ring from scratch by filling out a contact form so the brand’s design team can get in touch to make whatever it is you have in mind.

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7. Logan Hollowell

For Non-Traditional Designs

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: conflict-free mined diamonds only
Return Policy: no returns

For those looking for a ring that’s outside the norm, Logan Hallowell makes stunning pieces that are sure to fit the bill. Think alternative gemstones, unusual band shapes and unique settings, all made using recycled metals and conflict-free gemstones. Plus, each piece is also made to order in an effort to reduce waste—however, as such, the brand does not accept returns. If you want to work with the team of talented LH designers on a unique ring made just for you, you can email them with details before meeting for a consultation. (Just note, custom pieces require a minimum cost of $3,000.)

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8. Mejuri

For a Modern Twist on the Classics

Custom Designs Available: No
Types of Diamonds Used: conflict-free mined only
Return Policy: free 30-day returns for customers in the US, Canada, UK, Australia and Germany

Mejuri has developed something of a cult following who adore its modern designs and (relatively) affordable prices. The entire catalog is made using recycled materials (like gold and 18k gold vermeil), responsibly sourced diamonds or AAA-grade gemstones. The engagement ring collection runs from about $700 for a sleek eternity band to $3,700 for a bolder piece with multiple diamonds. Mejuri’s pieces are great for the minimalist gal who wants to break from tradition, but maybe only a little. You can also book a free virtual styling session to get tips and advice on which ring is the one.

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9. AUrate

For Classic Designs on a Budget

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: conflict-free mined diamonds only
Return Policy: 30-day return window from the day of shipment delivery on unworn pieces (made-to-order designs, included in policy)

Another popular brand for everyday styles, AUrate is a New York-based company that seeks to eliminate the extra costs accrued in dealing with middlemen to give shoppers the highest quality pieces at the best prices. Its selection of engagement rings is ideal for those who want a classic, timeless design. But for those who want something that breaks with tradition a bit more, AUrate also has a gorgeous selection of statement rings that feature a wide range of alternative gemstones. You can also create your own bespoke ring in conjunction with the brand’s design team.

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10. Blue Nile

Widest Selection of Styles

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown and conflict-free mined diamonds
Return Policy: free within 30 days

Blue Nile offers both lab-grown and mined diamonds for you to craft your custom engagement ring. Or you can shop from a huge selection of ready-to-ship designs featuring timeless classics that will never go out of style to intricate vintage designs to non-traditional statement rings featuring diamonds or colored gemstones. There are also designer collaborations with names like Zac Posen and Bella Vaughan for a high-fashion look. You can browse all the setting options, as well as available stones, to build your dream ring, but know that some options require you call in to complete your order (just to ensure everything is squared away in exactly the way you want).

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11. Clean Origin

Longest Return Window

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown only
Return Policy: free within 100 days, custom designs are final sale

As you might have guessed from the name, Clean Origin uses only lab-grown diamonds to create its gorgeous designs. There’s a wide selection of premade ring designs to choose from, including a newer collection of gender-neutral styles, but you can also start from scratch with whatever setting or stone you prefer and further customize from there to make something uniquely yours. And because Clean Origin uses only lab-grown diamonds, the prices are more affordable than mined alternatives, meaning you can get more bling for your buck. Plus, you can book a complimentary virtual or in-person appointment to get additional guidance before you buy.

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12. Catbird

For the Boho Minimalist

Custom Designs Available: No
Types of Diamonds Used: recycled and conflict-free mined diamonds
Return Policy: online orders can be returned within ten days of the date your package was delivered; $5 return shipping charge; some final sale exceptions

Catbird is a beloved NYC-based jewelry brand that’s ideal for anyone looking for a minimalist ring that’s anything but simple. They specialize in non-traditional designs with multiple stones, intricate metal work or a mix of colors, but there are also more classic ring designs to shop as well. There is, unfortunately, not currently an option to design your own ring from scratch (although you can have a ring engraved), but with the huge number of rings available to shop online, we feel pretty confident there will be more than one ring you’re sure to fall head over heels for.

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13. Frank Darling

For Those Unsure Where to Start

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown, recycled and conflict-free mined diamonds
Return Policy: free within 30 days, custom designs are returnable with some caveats

You can shop either mined or lab-grown diamonds at Frank Darling, which offers a number of shapes we rarely see available online, like rose and trillion. But what makes the brand really stand out is the amount of information and aide it can give you. There’s an online quiz for those who aren’t entirely sure what their style is, tons of information on how to shop for diamonds and what consider between lab-grown, recycled and mined stones. It also has the option to ship you a kit of options for you to try on at home. All you have to do is select up to three sterling silver replica rings you want to test, then wear them around to see what’s comfortable for five days before returning, now confident you know exactly how you’ll feel sporting the real deal.

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14. Sarah O.

For a Vintage Vibe

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown, rough and conflict-free mined diamonds
Return Policy: within 10 days with a 10 percent restocking fee, postage not included, custom designs are final sale

If you’re hoping for the look and feel of a vintage ring but aren’t up for combing through vintage shops hoping to find the one, Sarah O. should be on your list of places to check out. The Latina-owned and operated jewelry brand has a wide array of gorgeous vintage-inspired rings, as well as lots of classic styles, to fit all sorts of aesthetics. It also offers lab-grown and rough diamonds, which are less expensive than mined, for the soon-to-be-bride on a budget.

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15. Kimai

For Modern, Unique Bands

Custom Designs Available: Yes
Types of Diamonds Used: lab-grown diamonds only
Return Policy: no returns (complimentary resizing available)

What really drew us to Kimai’s engagement ring collection was the elegant flow and shape of all the unexpected bands, with unique stone placement to boot. They’re all at once timeless and incredibly modern. That said, if you’re not finding your exact match in the selection of predesigned rings, you can go the bespoke route. Meet with your designer one-on-one over multiple virtual sessions (the term is based in Antwerp, Belgium) to craft the ring of your dreams. Just note, Kimai does allow you to ship your ring back up to be resized up to three times free of charge, but the brand does not accept returns.

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So, your big day is coming up and you’re looking for that perfect white dress. As fun as it is to schedule a day of bridal appointments at boutiques, it can be draining. And maybe you want to do things low-key and grab something off-the-rack or even purchase online to suit your style. The beauty is that you can get a dress altered to fit perfectly once you find your dream one.

Whether it’s a simple midi dress or an elaborate, bejeweled gown complete with train, you do you—and we're here to help. We've researched the top trends, and culled dozens of websites and reviews to bring you the most gorgeous white bridal dresses on the internet.

The Best White Bridal Dresses At a Glance

Meet the Expert

Heather McReynolds is an expert in the bridal business, having worked with David’s Bridal for almost a decade. But her career in fashion and retail spans decades. Prior to joining David’s, she led merchandising and buying teams for major retailers including Target Australia, Catherines, Charming Shoppes and Brooks Brothers.

What Are Some Things to Consider When Wearing a White Bridal Dress?

McReynolds highlights a few key considerations when wearing a white bridal dress. Along with aesthetic, you should be mindful of climate, location and time of year. White tends to be cooler, so if you’re getting married on a frigid winter day, you might want to opt for long sleeves or forego a shorter dress. Naturally, be mindful of makeup like foundation, always putting the dress on before you apply to avoid marks or stains.

McReynolds also says to consider “how the gown will photograph in certain venues and locations.” She suggests consulting with the photographer for any tips they might have to make sure you get A+ photos.

How We Chose Our Favorite White Bridal Dresses

We took the above considerations into account when making this list, offering options for every climate, season and location, as well as choosing white wedding dresses that fit with current wedding dress trends. Additionally, we took into account that, according to McReynolds, a lot of brides are incorporating a bit of color into their white dresses for a “chic and dramatic look.” Finally, we included many dresses with an A-line cut, since this is one of the most popular styles right now thanks to how it flatters all body types.

1. Melissa Sweet A-Line Wedding Dress

The sweetheart tank style wedding dress is stunning and will offer great support for your chest. The A-line, meanwhile, is flattering for all body types, while the lace appliques make this dress ready for your special day. With a sweep train below and sweetheart neckline, it’s perfect with a silver necklace or a clean neck and updo. It’s easy to put on and take off via the back zipper and it’s fully lined so you don’t need to worry about pesky panty lines.

Buy It (~~$1,100~~; $935)

2. Reformation Ronda Silk Dress

REformation

In a stunning ivory hue, this dress slips right on like a glove, and fits cool and comfortable thanks to the silk material and adjustable spaghetti straps. The A-line frame will hug your curves in all the right places while the asymmetrical neckline draws the eyes upwards. Perfect for wearing with a strapless bra since it hangs off one shoulder, keep in mind that it’s not lined so you might want to add a slip. The best part about this dress, however, is that it, like other products from Reformation, is made using sustainable practices and recyclable materials. So, you’re helping the planet by slinking into this beauty.

Buy It ($748)

3. Bronx And Banco Megan V-Neck Lace Gown

Bronx and Banco

This evening gown is the perfect lace dress for a wedding, but the great news is that you can wear it again and again after. Just change up the look by adding a blazer and other accessories. Dressed up in floral lace with an A-line silhouette, we love the sleeveless design and floor length. The lining inside adds a subtle pop of color to complement a variety of skin tones.

Buy It ($625)

4. Amsale LW202 Floral Sheath Dress

Amsale

Slip this dress on and it will flow nicely over your curves, sitting right above your knees, depending on your height. The white slip dress is covered by a floral-patterned, hand-beaded material with cap sleeves. We love that the two pieces come separate, so you can dress up the slip dress with a black blazer and belt for other occasions after your special day of wedded bliss. Plus, with plenty of sizes and the simple draping style, it’s great for all body types. Summer wedding, here we come!

Buy It ($2,475)

5. Amsale LW226

Amsale

Sitting just below the knee, depending on your height, this midi dress is what your grandma might call a “frock.” The A-line opens up to a bellowing skirt that will complement and show off your legs, and let those lovely heels shine through. Perfect for an outdoor summer wedding, even on the beach complete with flip flops, you can pop on a shawl or shrug, pair this dress with a belt and colored purse and heels and wear it again and again.

Buy It ($795)

6. Jenny by Jenny Yoo Marnie Wedding Gown

Jenny by Jenny Yoo

Not only does this stunning wedding dress have a plunging V-neck, it also has a scoop-back. Promising to bring old Hollywood glamor to your 21^st century wedding, the delicate spaghetti straps help highlight those shoulders and collarbone you’ve been working on in your weight training. Slinking nicely over all types of curves, the court length train brings a sense of elegance, too.

Buy It ($975)

7.BHLDN Bonaire V-Neck Embroidered Wedding Gown

BHLDN

You’ll feel like a princess in this dress that features flowing chiffon embroidered with flowers. It’s simple in design with a plunging V-neckline and spaghetti straps, making it perfect for an outdoor summer wedding. Wear it on its own or complement it with a silk sash. While it’s fitted at the bust and waist, it’s looser at the hip so you can move freely. We love the sweep train in the back and the easy-open zipper so it slips right off when you’re ready to change into your dancing outfit. But with the loose hips, you can shake what your mama gave you right in this dress, too. Just add flats.

Buy It ($850)

8. Azazie Moonlight Wedding Dress

Azazie

Not only is this dress super affordable, it’s also a gorgeous diamond white with a flattering mermaid pleated pattern on the front. Combined with the crepe back satin chapel train and the high slit at the front and you’ll be taking stunning photos to last a lifetime. The scoop neck and off-the-shoulder straps make this dress a sexy option, too. If you’re taller than average, it was designed with added length to fit beautifully with 5-inch heels or alter as needed.

Buy It ($359)

9. Herve Leger Recycled Metallic Fringe Draped Gown

Neiman Marcus

Need a little fringe in your life, and, more importantly, on your wedding day? Put some on with this lovely dress that’s draped and tiered with metallic fringe so you’ll be the life of the party and can take some lovely action photos as you twirl to show it off. It has a high neckline and hook and eye back so you’ll need some help getting it on and off. The column silhouette is flattering and you can feel good about the fact that it’s made from recycled materials.

Buy It ($2,790)

10. Talbot Runhof Metallic Voile Cape Gown

Feel like royalty in this cape-style, off-the-shoulder gown that comes in a metallic hue for a subtle sheen versus traditional matte white. The long sleeves add some cover if it’s a chillier season or you tend to always be cold. The floor-sweeping hem, meanwhile, will make you feel like you’re walking a red carpet at the Met Gala. This wedding dress is glamor at its finest. Keep in mind that it fits large so you might want to size down, or leave time for alterations.

Buy It ($2,695)

11. Sachin & Babi Petra Gown

Sachin & Babi

If you’re looking for something a bit more conservative, the Sachin & Babi Petra gown is gorgeous, covering the entire torso up to your neck with lovely custom bib necklace accents of crystals and faux pearl so you don’t have to worry about finding the perfect necklace. But there’s a true party in the back, with a deep V design and playful bow. We love the combination of classic and conventional with a bit of sass in the back. And a dress with a built-in necklace? Sign me up!

Buy It ($1,195)

12. Reimagine DB Studio Recycled Crepe Swag Sleeve Wedding Dress

Sleek and sexy, this wedding dress hugs you in all the right places and shows off your shoulders with the lovely swag sleeves. Made of recycled crepe fabric, it features a draped bodice that criss-crosses at the front while the sheath skirt adds a touch of elegance. The sweep train at the back will photograph beautifully as well. You can even customize the dress with extra length as well.

Buy It ($400)

13. Fanciest Lace Wedding Dress

Be the belle of your own ball with this ball gown-style wedding dress that’s straight out of a Disney princess movie. Made of lace with sequins and a drawstring closure, this dress is a showstopper at a formal wedding. You’ll have all eyes on you while walking down the aisle in this off-the-shoulder dress. Don’t forget to pair it with a flowing veil to complete the look.

$130 at Amazon

14. David’s Bridal Chiffon A-Line Wedding Dress

Who doesn’t look a classic look? For some, weddings mean white dresses that lace up in the back for a bodice look. This one adds beaded lace appliques in the front to complement the corset-style lace-up back. The sweep train means those over-the-shoulder smoldering photos will look stunning. Made of polyester, it’s easily dry cleaned and you can custom order it with extra length if needed.

Buy It ($500)

15. Oleg Cassini Wedding Dress

For something more modest that covers your full body, this dress fits the bill. Made of polyester with a chapel train, it goes on using the back zipper and gives the feel of satin and lace. It’s totally modest with long sleeves and a high neckline, and there’s a touch of luxury thanks to the beaded lace appliques over the bodice and chapel train. For a religious wedding, this dress is the perfect option, even accommodating religious undergarments.

Buy It (~~$1,500~~; $1,274)

16. DB Studio Long Sleeve Sheath Wedding Dress

If you’re getting married in a cooler month, or maybe somewhere indoors with air conditioning where you know you’ll probably be chilly (heck, you’re always cold!) opt for comfort with a long-sleeve wedding dress. This one has full sleeves to keep you warm. But because they’re also made of lace, you won’t overheat either. The entire dress is made of stretchy nylon and spandex fabric so you need not worry about skipping wedding cake for fear of buttons bursting. This dress is not only beautiful, it’s also thoughtful in its material and fit so you can both look great and feel comfortable, all night long.

Buy It ($230)

17. Jenny Yoo Fit & Flare Wedding Gown

Jenny Yoo/Anthropologie

When you’re a little girl dreaming of your wedding day, you probably picture yourself all dressed up like a princess, complete with a tiara and a dress with a long train. This dress is what little girls’ dreams are made of. It’s simple yet stunning, seemingly easy to take in or let out as needed to ensure a perfect fit. It’s a versatile option as well since there a sash on the back you can wear a multitude of ways: tie it up in a bow or knot, or let it go completely free, like your own superhero bride cape. We love that the back zipper is hidden, allowing for a completely seamless look.

Buy It ($1,200)

18. Chiara Boni La Petite Robe Gudrum Halter Ruffle Gown

Halter-style dresses are so flattering, and with this dress, you get not only a mock halter style but also full neck coverage so you don’t have to worry about wearing that unflattering “something blue” necklace your soon-to-be mother-in-law gifted you. (“Sorry, mom, it just doesn’t work with the dress!”) The dramatic ruffles at the hip, meanwhile, create a slimming effect, with the exaggerated ruffles on the side adding a bit of playfulness. Made of stretchy fabric with a hidden back zipper, you’ll be able to limbo and Macarena the night away in comfort.

Buy It ($995)

19. Solace London Maddison Maxi Dress

Peplums aren’t for everyone, but if you like that style, consider this dress. With a cream finish that’s a bit off white, it’s made of polyester and elastane with a hidden back zipper closure. The boned bodice is complemented by a peplum hem while the strapless design allows for dressing it up with whatever jewelry you want. Or go ahead and stick to the latest naked neck Hollywood trend. If you’re self-conscious about your midsection (but babe, you totally shouldn’t be!), you might like having a dress like this one that draws attention away from the area, and cinches your waist in.

Buy It ($790)

20. Amsale Sable Wedding Dress

Amsale

A few big trends in wedding dresses these days are playful bows, floral designs, and transparent tops. And this dress has it all, so if you’re looking to be as chic and on-trend as possible, this dress will put you in the fashionista books. The top is transparent to provide added support but also makes room for gorgeous floral embellished detailing, both front and back. That leads down to the fun bow at the lower back. The train runs wide and long so your pictures will need a widescreen lens to capture the absolute stunner of a dress. Oh, did we mention it has pockets? Whether it’s to hold your custom vows, tissues, or something blue for luck, it’s about time wedding dresses got pockets.

Buy It ($7,495)

One Last Thing: A Few White Wedding Dress FAQs

Why Do Brides Wear White?

Queen Victoria was actually the first bride to wear white way back in the 1800s. Interestingly, she received flak for it, with some calling the subtle color too conservative. (Interestingly, at the time, white was known as the color of mourning, which made her decision even more ground-breaking.) Seeing as the royal majesty was not one to be told what to do, the vivacious queen made her own call and started a trend in royal wedding dresses that eventually extended to the general populace.

Not surprisingly, after the Queen donned her white dress, other women began to follow suit. It became a symbol of wealth and status, not only because of the Queen but because wedding dresses in those times were worn again and again. Having a white one meant you had the money to have it cleaned. After World War II, white wedding dresses started to become the norm for all socioeconomic classes.

According to the Godey’s Lady Book, white is considered to be “the most fitting hue, whatever may be the material.” It is also, as many believe to be the dominant reason for white being popular for weddings, an “emblem of the purity and innocence of girlhood, and the unsullied heart she now yields to the chosen one.” Heather McReynolds, vice president and general manager of Bridal and Dresses at David’s Bridal, adds that white bridal gowns “give delicate, classic and timeless vibes,” not to mention that wearing white is a great way to stand out among guests.

Note that this is a Western culture trend: Brides in Eastern cultures do not typically wear white.

What Percentage of Brides Wear White Dresses?

A whopping 82 percent of brides in the U.S. wear white. McReynolds says David’s Bridal is seeing a trend toward adding more color in Western culture as well, but white “is still the dominant color when it comes to bridal gowns.”

What Color Shoes Should You Wear with a White Wedding Dress?

Naturally, the most logical choice when it comes to the color of shoes to wear with a white dress is, well, white. If you have a long gown and train, chances are no one will see the shoes anyway. However, if you’ve opted for a midi or even mini dress, the shoes matter even more.

McReynolds says the wedding day offers a great opportunity to “get creative and express yourself, especially if you are opting for a more traditional white/ivory gown.” If you want to add a pop of color, other popular choices when it comes to wedding shoes include neutral, violet, grey, purple and yes, even black. Some brides nowadays, says McReynolds, are coordinating their shoes with their florals or bridesmaids’ gowns, instead of their accessories.

For going the traditional route, consider a soft blue which will count for your “something blue,” an idea McReynolds says she loves. Whatever shade of white your dress is, you can never go wrong with a nude or neutral shade.

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These Are the 7 Hottest Honeymoon Destinations of 2023, According to Pinterest & Zola

Marissa Wu — 2023-04-27T17:21:00-05:00

One of the most fun things about getting married (besides saying “I do,” to your one and only, of course) is the honeymoon. For a week (or maybe two!), you and your lover have what seems like all the time in the world. But where do you go? All-inclusive resort? Sicily (or somewhere less crowded)? If you’re still wondering how to spend your honeymoon, search no further. Zola and Pinterest recently released a joint 2023 wedding trends report, and the data speaks for itself. Here are the top seven honeymoon destinations, from charming Southern cities like Asheville and Charleston to far-flung locales like Casablanca and Croatia.

1. Asheville, NC

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Things to Do: Chimney Rock State Park, Biltmore Village, Brews Cruise
Where to Stay: Biltmore Village Inn B&B (from $594/night, sleeps 2) Downtown Asheville Condo (from $156/night, sleeps 4); Asheville Tiny Home (from $62/night, sleep 2)

Outdoor-loving newlyweds will enjoy a trip to Asheville, North Carolina. First stop? Chimney Rock State Park. Hike up for splendid views stretching 75 miles over Hickory Nut Gorge. Hunger Games fans will also appreciate this destination, as tours are available of the hit franchise’s filming locations in the forest. Downtown, beer afficionados can mosey between distilleries, while the Asheville Brews Cruise will take you to more remote locations. Another can’t-miss is the city’s vibrant food scene run by those affectionately known as “Foodtopians.” Put 12 Bones Smokehouse, Corner Kitchen and Chestnut and French Broad Chocolate Lounge on your must-try list. Of course, it wouldn’t be a visit to Asheville without a peek at the legendary Biltmore Estate. When you’ve seen your share of the grandeur, head to Biltmore Village, which was historically a living community for estate employees. Today, visitors can amble the cobblestone streets, dipping into local boutiques and discovering local artists.

2. Cape Town, South Africa

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Things to Do: Table Mountain, Constantia Valley, Greenmarket Square
Where to Stay: The Table Bay Hotel (from $251/night, sleeps 2); Dock House Boutique Hotel (from $318/night, sleeps 2); The Marly Boutique Hotel (from $392/night, sleep 2)

Fancy a beach vacation with a little adventure sprinkled in? Cape Town’s your dream honeymoon. Get your suntan at one of its many beaches, explore the Cape of Good Hope and hike up the region’s famous Table Mountain. Those up for a challenge can hike to the summit (but note the terrain can be muddy), while those who want to sit back and relax can opt for the aerial tramway. Prepare for inspiring ocean and city views. Another can’t-miss is the Victoria & Alfred Waterfront. With views of the mountain and brimming with shops, restaurants and attractions, it’s a lively way to spend a morning or afternoon. Round out your stay with a trip to Constantina Valley, a wine-making region since the 17^th century. Follow the wine route to hit all the major players and be sure to stop at the oldest winery, Groot Constantina.

3. Charleston, SC

Things to Do: Gibbes Museum of Art, catch a jazz show, brunch at High Cotton
Where to Stay: Charleston Marriot (from $282/night, sleeps 2); Emeline (from $507/night, sleeps 2); Market Pavillion Hotel (from $586/night, sleeps 2)

You could take a stroll down the iconic Rainbow Row, but Charleston has much more to offer beyond pastel-pink houses. For starters, catch a performance by Charleston Jazz and wander through Gibbes Museum of Art. It’s one of the country’s oldest art institutions. Up the romance factor with a boat ride through Cypress Gardens—you know, that ultra-romantic backwater swamp from The Notebook. As far as food is concerned, there’s no shortage of noteworthy picks, but two stand out: Southern brunch and bluegrass tunes at the beloved High Cotton (get a reservation if you can) and The Caviar bar (reservation required). Set in the boutique hotel Zero George, you’ll be surrounded by soft jazz, flickering votives and well-dressed fellow diners as you feast.

4. Croatia

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Things to Do: Zagreb, Split, Dubrovnik
Where to Stay: The Westin Zagreb (from $134/night, sleeps 2); Radisson Blu Resort & Spa, Split (from $345/night, sleeps 2); Royal Princess Hotel, Dubrovnik (from $189/night, sleeps 2)

It may be popular as the filming location for Game of Thrones, but this little country on the Adriatic Sea is brimming with interesting things to do and see for the ultimate honeymoon trip. You’ll want to hit these three cities: the capital, Zagreb, then follow the coast to Split and Dubrovnik. Croatia’s capital is filled with Gothic and Baroque architecture and is highly walkable, with convenient access to public transit. Find fun, cheap eats at Dolac Market and have a laugh at the Museum of Hangovers. Split is a great base camp for exploring the country’s many islands off the Dalmation coast. Brac, Hvar and Krk are some popular options. For oyster lovers, a day trip from Dubrovnik to the villages of Ston and Mali Ston is a must. Both are famous for the mollusks farmed in the neighboring bay. Local restaurant Bota Šare organizes oyster farm tours.

5. Florida

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Things to Do: Palm Beach, Amelia Island, Key West
Where to Stay: The Breakers Palm Beach (from $781/night, sleeps 2); Courtyard Amelia Island (from $226/night, sleeps 2); Parrot Key Hotel & Villas Key West (from $331/night, sleeps 2)

Florida is another trending domestic honeymoon destination. The state is huge, so if you have to choose, go for Palm Beach, Amelia Island or Key West. On Clematis Street in Palm Beach, you can party away in the nightclubs and enjoy the plethora of live music venues and restaurants. Amelia Island was one of Travel + Leisure’s 2021 picks for best islands in the continental U.S. Take a lover’s stroll down the historic Fernandina Beach downtown area and you’ll see why. As for Key West, head there if you want to see some coral reefs and the Hemingway house.

6. Maui, HI

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Things to Do: Kapalua Bay Beach, Old Lahaina Luau, catch the sunrise at Haleakala
Where to Stay: Maui Beach Hotel ($379/night, sleeps 2); Four Seasons Resort at Wailea ($1,640/night, sleeps 2); Sheraton Maui ($669/night, sleeps 2)

If you’re envisioning a Hawaiian honeymoon, book tickets to the island of Maui. It’s home to the renowned Old Lahaina Luau, said to have the most authentic experience. Tickets include an open bar, live performance and five-course feast. You’ll also want to put the Kapalua Bay Beach and coastal trail on your itinerary. The trail is a roughly 3.5-mile round-trip and will take you along the coastline past lava fields, including Dragon's Teeth (eroding formations of trachyte lava). And, the stay wouldn’t be complete without a sunrise hike in Haleakala National Park and a healthy serving of Ululani shave ice.

7. Morocco

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Things to Do: Marrakech, Casablanca, Fez
Where to Stay: Hotel Jadali & Spa Marrakech (from $239/night, sleeps 2); Radisson Blu Hotel Casablanca (from $161/night, sleeps 2); Palais Medina & Spa ($134/night, sleeps 2)

From Marrakech to Casablanca, Morocco promises a honeymoon you won’t soon forget. Meander through the lively souks (markets) of Marrakech and discover sundries not limited to textiles, pottery and jewelry. (Semmarine is a popular market.) Be sure to also stop at Bahia Palace and the Musée Yves Saint Laurent. In Casablanca, you can channel your inner Ingrid Berman and Humphrey Bogart at Rick’s Café, a replica from the classic film. A baby grand piano, brass chandeliers and cocktails await. You’ll also want to pay a visit to the stately Hassan II Mosque overlooking the Atlantic, as well as the old medina. Finally, end your visit with a stop in Fez, home to one of the world’s oldest universities, Al Quaraouiyine. The library is open to the public and displays stunning handmade tilework dating to the 9^th century. Catch a glimpse of the Fes El Bali medina and hike Mount Zalagh for a view of the medina in its entirety.

The 24 Most Beautiful Wedding Venues in Miami

Clarissa Buch Zilberman — 2023-04-10T08:00:00-05:00

For all the months (or years) of planning involved, your wedding day is going to fly by in a flurry of hugs, kisses and photo ops. So, you’d better make each snapshot count. We can’t imagine a more stunning backdrop than one of Miami’s 24 most gorgeous venues, from chic farmhouses to Italian-villa-style glamour. Whether you're looking for a modern space or a more traditional setting, we've got you covered. Presenting our favorite wedding venues in Miami for matrimonial bliss.

The Best Wedding Venues in Miami at a Glance

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1. Acqualina Resort & Spa

Best Beachside Wedding Venue

Location: Sunny Isles Beach
Max Guests: 120

Getting married at the best waterfront hotel in the country is within reach. Yeah, you read that right: Acqualina Resort & Spa—voted #1 by USA Today readers—is an expert at beach weddings. From intimate, elopement-style events to hundred-plus gatherings (in non-pandemic times, obviously), Acqualina does it all.

17875 Collins Ave., Sunny Isles Beach or 877-312-9742

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2. Faena

Best Destination-Inspired Wedding Venue

Location: Miami Beach
Max Guests: 1,000

…Yeah, tying the knot at the Faena pretty much speaks for itself. You can’t find a more perfect setting. Take your pick amongst the 15 drop-dead gorgeous locations scattered throughout the grounds, from romantic, beachside spots to intimate bar lounges to traditional event spaces that can accommodate hundreds of guests. The best part? Before and after the wedding, guests can take advantage of all the resort has to offer, from an award-winning spa to world-class cuisine.

3201 Collins Ave, Miami Beach, FL or 305-534-8800

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3. The Rusty Pelican

Best Waterfront Wedding Venue

Location: Key Biscayne
Max Guests: 400

Just look at that skyline. Nobody does an evening wedding backdrop quite like the Rusty Pelican. This waterfront venue offers breathtaking views of Biscayne Bay, with a beautiful outdoor terrace perfect for ceremonies or cocktail receptions. The interior ballroom is equally stunning, with floor-to-ceiling windows that offer unobstructed views of the bay and Miami skyline.

3201 Rickenbacker Cswy., Key Biscayne or 305-361-3818

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4. Vizcaya Museum & Gardens

Best Garden Wedding Venue

Location: Coconut Grove
Max Guests: 300

Getting married at Vizcaya in Miami is like stepping into a fairytale. The winter home of James Deering in the 1910s, this National Historic Landmark features a Renaissance-style villa and romantic gardens—the perfect spot to say, “I do” on your special day. The venue offers a range of indoor and outdoor spaces for ceremonies and receptions, many of which feature unobstructed views of Biscayne Bay.

3251 S. Miami Ave., Miami or 305-250-9133

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5. The Walton House

Best Outdoorsy Wedding Venue

Location: Homestead
Max Guests: 150

A charming English cottage in the middle of a tropical paradise? Yep, dreams do come true for your wedding day. This stunning historic estate is nestled in the heart of the Redland agricultural district, surrounded by lush gardens, quiet streams and a picturesque Koi pond.

28501 SW 187th Ave., Homestead or 786-356-9435

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6. Women’s Club Of Coconut Grove

Best Vintage Wedding Venue

Location: Coconut Grove
Max Guests: 150

We’re willing to bet you and your guests will feel pretty fancy sipping Champagne and tossing the bouquet next to this historic structure (built in 1921) with the city lights looking down from above.

2985 S. Bayshore Dr., Coconut Grove or 305-446-2909

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7. Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden

Best Tropical Wedding Venue

Location: Coral Gables
Max Guests: 400

You can tell all your friends you got married in the “fairy godmother’s garden” when you book your wedding day at this lush estate. This botanical garden is home to thousands of rare and exotic plants from around the world, with numerous indoor-outdoor spaces that are simply dreamy for weddings and special events. Come on, isn’t it just breathtaking?

10901 Old Cutler Rd., Coral Gables or 305-667-1651

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8. Frost Museum Of Science

Best Aquarium Wedding Venue

Location: Downtown Miami
Max Guests: 600

This is not a drill: You can tie the knot inside the Frost Museum’s aquarium. And we’re betting none of your friends can say they had sharks on their wedding day. Located in the heart of downtown Miami, you can also choose from a range of modern and innovative spaces besides the aquarium, including a stunning multi-level area that overlooks Biscayne Bay.

1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami or 305-434-9600

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9. The Cooper Estate

Best Old Florida Wedding Venue

Location: Redlands
Max Guests: 150

It may cost you an arm and a leg, but you’ll always be able to say you got married in a tropical forest and then partied inside a historic native limestone manor. Pretty cool, right? This is a great choice for couples in search of an elegant, rustic ambiance and an intimate celebration.

14201 SW 248th St., Redland or 305-904-9032

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10. Redland Farm Life

Best Farmhouse Wedding Venue

Location: Homestead
Max Guests: 200

If you’re going to get married outside the city, you might as well go all the way and get married in a barn. (A really, really nice barn.) The rustic barn and charming cottage atmosphere provide options for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies and receptions, accommodating intimate gatherings or large parties. Redland Farm Life also offers farm-to-table catering, allowing couples to incorporate locally sourced and seasonal ingredients into their menus.

17411 SW 200th St., Homestead or 305-805-2025

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11. The Ancient Spanish Monastery

Best Monastery Wedding Venue

Location: North Miami Beach
Max Guests: 300

If you’re looking for something that feels like an escape from the city—without having to, you know, actually leave Miami—this elegant wedding day venue in North Miami Beach is the way to go. Getting married here is a truly enchanting experience that transports couples and their guests back in time to the 12th century. Originally built in Segovia, Spain, the monastery was dismantled stone by stone and shipped to the United States in the early 20th century, where it was reassembled in Miami. The venue's stunning architecture, with its Gothic arches, cloisters and gardens, creates a romantic and timeless atmosphere perfect for a wedding celebration.

16711 Dixie Hwy., North Miami Beach or 305-945-1461

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12. Mondrian South Beach

Best South Beach Wedding Venue

Location: South Beach
Max Guests: 200

With jaw-dropping views of the Miami skyline and surrounding waters, just imagine how epic your sunset pics will be on your special day. With its upscale ambiance, The Mondrian is an excellent choice for couples seeking a glamorous and luxurious wedding venue in the heart of Miami. The hotel also offers on-site accommodations for the wedding party and guests, as well as access to its amenities, including the rooftop bar and spa.

1100 West Ave., South Beach or 305-514-1500

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13. The Biltmore

Best Castle-Inspired Wedding Venue

Location: Coral Gables
Max Guests: 450

You only get so many opportunities to say your vows inside a building that is effectively a castle. Just saying. Bonus: All of your guests can stay on site. (Psst: The Biltmore also offers engagement packages, in case you want to begin your wedding journey here too.)

1200 Anastasia Ave., Coral Gables or 305-913-3200

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14. The Cruz Building

Best Gothic Wedding Venue

Location: Coconut Grove
Max Guests: 200

Is your dream wedding less daffodils and sunshine and more sexy vampire boudoir? OK, maybe that’s not a thing, but this cool-kid hot spot has that moody, Gothic atmosphere down pat. The building's Mediterranean-style architecture, complete with wrought-iron balconies and a rooftop terrace, provides a next-level backdrop for a romantically cool wedding ceremony.

3157 Commodore Plaza, Coconut Grove or 305-508-9500

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15. The Bath Club

Best Dreamy Wedding Venue

Location: Miami Beach
Max Guests: 400

Nothing says “Honey, we’re living the life in Miami!” more than dreamy, beachside nuptials. Step right out the door onto the sand. (Because crashing waves are the perfect way to settle bridal jitters.) Here, old-world glam meets modern Miami to create a timeless wedding ceremony that will be remembered for years to come.

5937 Collins Ave., Miami Beach or 305-867-5938

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16. Deering Estate

Best Historic Wedding Venue

Location: South Miami
Max Guests: 500

This 1920s-era venue has all the makings of a Gatsby-inspired affair: rich history, natural beauty and remarkable architecture. With stunning views of Biscayne Bay, the Deering Estate is sure to make your special day unforgettable.

16701 SW 72nd Ave., Miami or 305-235-1668

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17. Miami Beach Botanical Garden

Best Oasis Wedding Venue

Location: Miami Beach
Max Guests: 500

Spend your wedding day at this intimate, three-acre tropical garden in the middle of Miami Beach. You’ll say “I do” among blooming flowers as scents of jasmine, ylang ylang and frangipani spread through the air. Doesn’t that sound heavenly?

2000 Convention Center Dr., Miami Beach or 305-673-7256

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18. Seafair Miami

Best Miami-Style Wedding Venue

Location: Miami
Max Guests: 600

There’s nothing more Miami for your wedding than celebrating on a mega yacht. Stretching 228 feet with more than 20,000 square feet of space, the SeaFair can take care of everything—from catering to entertainment—so all you have to do is show up ready to enjoy your special day.

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19. The Bonnet House

Best Enchanted Wedding Venue

Location: Fort Lauderdale
Max Guests: 250

This historic Fort Lauderdale home, which dates back to the 1920s, is surrounded by one of the most beautiful orchid gardens we’ve ever seen. It’s the kind of place where you’ll want to spend your wedding day and then some.

900 N. Birch Rd., Fort Lauderdale or 954-563-5393

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20. Curtiss Mansion

Best Historic Venue

Location: Miami Springs
Max Guests: 350

This charming venue built in the mid-1920s offers a glimpse into the rich history of Miami and the life of one of its most important figures, aviation pioneer Glenn Hammond Curtiss. Marked by its Pueblo Revival-style architecture, the Curtiss Mansion today is a popular event venue that can accommodate a wide range of events, from weddings to corporate events to private parties. The mansion offers several indoor and outdoor spaces, including a grand ballroom, a courtyard, and a spacious lawn area.

500 Deer Run, Miami Springs or 305-869-5180

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21. Villa Woodbine

Best Mansion Style

Location: Coconut Grove
Max Guests: 300

Nestled in the heart of Coconut Grove lies the elegant Villa Woodbine. This architectural masterpiece was built in 1931, and its Mediterranean-style design and scenic gardens have made it a sought-after venue for weddings and other gatherings. The grounds feature both indoor and outdoor event spaces, including a large-scale ballroom and dining area, plus a charming courtyard and sprawling lawn.

2167 S Bayshore Dr., Coconut Grove or 305-489-9518

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22. The Bamboo Gallery

Best for Vacation Vibes

Location: Davie
Max Guests: 180

Set on 2.5 acres of tropical landscape, complete with enchanting waterfalls and charming tiki huts, this venue exudes a sense of bliss. With its lush surroundings and calm atmosphere, the Bamboo Gallery is the perfect setting for any special occasion.

2325 S Flamingo Rd., Davie or 954-709-5891

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23. Spur of the Moment Ranch

Best Ranch Style

Location: Homestead
Max Guests: 150

A blend of tropical paradise and rustic country charm, Spur of the Moment Ranch is a serene, family-owned property in Miami’s agriculture district. Originally a functional barn with stables and animals, the owners have transformed the grounds into a sprawling event space, ideal for small and large gatherings.

24700 SW 152 Ave., Homestead or 786-295-3101

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24. Living Sculpture Society

Best Sanctuary Vibes

Location: Davie
Max Guests: 120

One step inside the Living Sculpture Society and you’ll feel immediately transported to another world. Located in Davie, this idyllic environment has become one of the most coveted destinations for weddings and social events in town. Surrounded by lush foliage, hundred-year-old oak trees, tranquil waterfalls, captivating Koi ponds, a bonsai wall, and a serene rock garden, these natural elements create a one-of-a-kind atmosphere for your special day.

2800 S Flamingo Rd., Davie or 954-952-2500